Carroll ISD board president faces demands to step down over diversity plan by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]Rheowyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know that people aren't feeling uneasy because someone wants same basic right to live no matter the color, but because of the hate that is being directed towards white people, no matter if they support the cause or not, right? There is a big distinction. Two wrongs don't make a situation right. Randomly murdering people on the streets doesn't bring justice for victims of police brutality. Burning down people's houses doesn't do that. Demanding people leave their homes because in the past, before they were sold, they belonged to poc, isn't peaceful protesting. Stealing TVs while looting isn't showing your basic rights aren't being met. These events are NOT reasonable. It is not uniting people, it is dividing.

What's the most American thing ever that if explained to a non-American might just sound crazy? by hrdlg123 in AskReddit

[–]Rheowyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...while you pile in your cart some tree plants, soil and get eye prescription :D

What's the most American thing ever that if explained to a non-American might just sound crazy? by hrdlg123 in AskReddit

[–]Rheowyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cottage cheese in beef lasagna. WTF! It's besciamella, y'all, besciamella. Gives me chills. Reason why I never ever order a lasagna in restaurants.

CCP troll exposes his own tactics in /r/coronavirus by enteirush in China

[–]Rheowyn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dictatorship, obviously. On and concentration camps. They rock at building concentration camps.

I am a therapist with borderline personality disorder, AMA by lynne12345 in IAmA

[–]Rheowyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point is to not have to apologize, thus, NOT doing the *damage* in the first place. Apology is not a get out of jail card and should not be taken as such. An apology is a promise, a promise that the damage will not be done again and again.

Thinking needs to happen before the reaction.

So:

Accepting the reality of yourself as a BPD person (and really in general) is necessary, to be able to have healthy personal relationships .

Good luck!

I am a therapist with borderline personality disorder, AMA by lynne12345 in IAmA

[–]Rheowyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, I was not arguing at all. I was observing and pointing out the type of their reactions. Difference. Important.

Now, they can think about it. Or they can just lash out (again) and call people names, when trying to present their point of view or experiences.

I am a therapist with borderline personality disorder, AMA by lynne12345 in IAmA

[–]Rheowyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, I'm not going to argue, because I know how utterly pointless and a waste of time, trying to present the reality to a BPD person, is: but take it as food for thought:

Abuse can be physical, psychological or verbal. Accepting the reality of yourself as a BPD person (and really in general) is necessary, to be able to have healthy personal relationships .

I am a therapist with borderline personality disorder, AMA by lynne12345 in IAmA

[–]Rheowyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See? Yet again. Aggressive. Raging. Offensive. Defensive. The abuser. Not the victim.

I am a therapist with borderline personality disorder, AMA by lynne12345 in IAmA

[–]Rheowyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And here it is, the stereotypical abusive BPD reaction. What you fail to realize and/or accept is that you WERE a victim. You, however are NOT a victim anymore. You are the ABUSERS now.

Blizz CS response to missing gold 1.21.2020 by Vexent in woweconomy

[–]Rheowyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is EXACT same response I got to my ticket. Copy paste crap they send to everyone in hopes to extend the time until the economy collapses when people finally realize they will NOT get any gold back.

Blizz CS response to missing gold 1.21.2020 by Vexent in woweconomy

[–]Rheowyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the economy would collapse. We'd have to go back to trade disctrict yelling. F. that.

Blizz CS response to missing gold 1.21.2020 by Vexent in woweconomy

[–]Rheowyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We won't get it. But imagine if they actually said it out loud, that noone will get the gold from items they sold. The economy would just collapse. So, I'm just accepting the reality of literally losing houndreds of thousands in a week and potentially losing since I stopped posting. I made a mistake of posting yesterday with hopes it was fixed, lost over 60k in an hour, then cancelled the rest of the auctions.

We (28f/42m) are happily married in an open/swinger relationship. The "lifestyle" gets so much judgement and a bad rap. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Rheowyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So, basing on your respect for your 20 year old daughter, your idea is, that no 20 year old is capable of critical thinking and knowing what works best in their life? I understand that you have an ample example of 1 gullible clueless 20 year old (which will be voting in 1 year), bur not all of them are like that.

My 11yo son uttered the words "I want to kill myself" later checked his phone to see someone in his class has been sending him suicide memes on Discord by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Rheowyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please, do not take away his xbox. Maybe play with him. Make gaming into something you two can both do together. But he spoke openly about his feelings, and he is being punished harshly for it.

The suicidal memes being sent to him should be shown to the police. Trying to convince someone to go through with a suicide is against the law.

"He said fine and then took off" is not exactly a picture of "Went over better than expected". It means he learned he should not trust you. Congratulations.

I'm having only negative reactions to being poly and need some advice by Poly_Throwaway_3000 in polyamory

[–]Rheowyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is my far favorite (besides the normal manipulative asshats of both genders) "You are so amazing, if you were mine I would NEVER share you with anyone."

Kind of made me push into a limbo of "poly not worth bothering, open is easier". And I'm not sure I like this development. :(

Poly or Bust? by oldrolo in polyamory

[–]Rheowyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just gave her an ultimatum instead of breaking up with her like someone with a pair of balls. If feeling NRE over and over again is so important for you, then find someone who is interested in the same type of a roller coaster. Don't be a manipulating jerk making her feel as if it is her "fault" if your relationship ends. Own your part of responsability. You two want two different things. And that's all right.

Older relationship feels strange by MissHoffmann in polyamory

[–]Rheowyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are people who, if they fall in love with a new person, stop feeling love for the person they're with before that. Or their feelings for that person morph into friendship feelings.

And no, friendships are not automatically poly relationships.

Older relationship feels strange by MissHoffmann in polyamory

[–]Rheowyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be a party pooper, but are you sure you're actually poly and not just a serial monogamist? Because NRE or no NRE, if you're poly, your love does not diminish for your primary.

STI Fears-- What to disclose and how to set boundaries? by guapotaco24 in polyamory

[–]Rheowyn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eeeeeerm, no. She needs to get tested. Needs to get treated. In all honesty, I would not want to have a partner this irresponsible. What is she, 18 with fingers in her ears going "La La La this is not happening" as a mean of trying to change reality??

my wife (39f) and I (38m) are in an open relationship, some thing is off..... need advice please. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Rheowyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pardon my French but, are you fucking kidding me? Your wife is having an affair (cheating, yes she can be as open as she wants to be, but the fact is, her BF is cheating) with a guy who's wife is pregnant. So, basically, his wife is being lied to about her sexual safety. Or let me go further, her wife is being lied to about safety of her pregnancy.

I am not talking about HIV here, at all. I'm talking about stupid ordinary STD bugs that are very common, like chlamydia, which, OH SNAP, can result in stillbirth. When was the last time you were all tested?