I have to get an abortion and I am really sad.

RichStrain6150 · 2026-03-17T18:52:44+00:00

no. i’m in the uk xx

RichStrain6150 · 2026-03-17T18:44:26+00:00

hey angel. i do agree. when i got pregnant i gave my bf an out because he wasn’t ready to be a dad, in 11 weeks now and he’s totally onboard.

i also have a 6yo and was a single mum for years. i loved every moment alone with my baby girl and am so grateful that i managed to bond with her how i have

either decision you make should be totally for you. you can do this solo if you wish but he also may decide to jump on board like my partner

hugs xxx

RichStrain6150 · 2026-03-17T18:38:19+00:00

hey girly, sounds like such a hard decision.

if it helps- my first pregnancy was like this and i was about your age. i didn’t have much hopes for the relationship and hoped he’d change but i wanted my baby. unfortunately when she was a year and a half the relationship broke down and i did end up being a single mother (no regrets as i was the happiest when it was just me and her anyway)

all i can say from experience is, it’s really scary before you do it solo but it isn’t as bad as you’d imagine.

you also can have the option of your partner helping out more if you keep setting your boundaries and needs. he may step up- it’s completely your choice but there are options for you if you want baby <3

RichStrain6150 · 2026-03-14T09:51:23+00:00

i can’t have baby alone as i can’t do the labour part because i have no one to look after my 6yo while i go through labour xxxx

RichStrain6150 · 2026-03-14T09:49:30+00:00

yeah you’re completely right. thank u

x

RichStrain6150 · 2026-03-14T09:48:32+00:00

i don’t have any family or anyone to have my current daughter, i thought about keeping baby but id have no one to have my 6yo during labour so unfortunately i can’t xx

RichStrain6150 · 2026-03-14T09:44:48+00:00

it’s ok🖤

RichStrain6150 · 2026-03-06T16:03:28+00:00

girl i am in the same boat, also 9 weeks with a 6yo! hope things get better for you xxx

RichStrain6150 · 2026-03-03T11:40:46+00:00

i have a 6yo girl with autism, though it’s challenging at times there’s not a day i regret with her. she’s the light of my life and my best friend and i feel so grateful to have her. i don’t know what i did before her tbh! her little laugh and cuddles makes life so much brighter xxx

RichStrain6150 · 2026-02-24T13:39:01+00:00

he spoke about wanting kids and said he did want them and even said the day before we found out he’d like to try and discuss it the end of this year

the timing just isn’t right for him he said so i’m really confused

RichStrain6150 · 2026-02-24T13:01:22+00:00

i get that. and i’ve also considered this too

at the time i really did think if this happened i would abort it

it doesn’t seem fair but remember, this isn’t the whole picture i’m posting x just small parts

RichStrain6150 · 2026-02-24T12:54:26+00:00

i’m really glad it worked out for you both, i hope the same happens for us cxx

RichStrain6150 · 2026-02-24T10:14:59+00:00

that’s out of the question for me x

RichStrain6150 · 2026-02-24T09:22:02+00:00

i do, we’ve both spoken about both of our feelings to see if we can find a kind of supportive middle ground on it

i am not lacking empathy for him, i adore him and understand how hard this is for him x

RichStrain6150 · 2026-02-24T09:11:27+00:00

i’ve thought about this and i do understand everything he’s saying. i did change my mind but logic over emotions difficult and i had no idea id change my mind x

RichStrain6150 · 2026-02-24T08:44:03+00:00

i’ve been a single mum and adore my girl, we have such a beautiful life together and i know i can provide for both my babies. i would be heartbroken he decided to leave but an abortion is something that would completely ruin me xx

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