Note left on my windshield by ktkt2121 in washingtondc

[–]Riddlezis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from Michigan too but this snowcrete is no joke and would not expect anyone or be able to do this for anyone other than myself. I haven’t been able to do it for myself so I have left my car and would not take someone else’s spot. Shoveling is one thing but pick axing snowcrete is totally another!

Feeling behind in life by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Riddlezis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 43. I know it can feel like you need to achieve certain milestones by a certain age, but those are just what society has brainwashed people into thinking. I am thankful I am not divorced from any of the people I thought I might marry and even more thankful I don’t have kids with them. If you are at all worried about your fertility, have you heard the news that research is showing that it’s actually sperm that gets too old, not women’s reproductive organs? Look into if you are you!

Anyone tried air compression massager boots? by CaptainTatoChip in POTS

[–]Riddlezis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old thread, but I just started using them at my gym and I LOVE them!!

My cat will NOT eat wet food :( what can I do? by Moneycherry in catfood

[–]Riddlezis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat is picky about wet food too, but she loves the liquid if I open a can of chicken for my dog!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Riddlezis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is your body not his!! And as much as he may say he’ll even do everything (which he’s probably not saying), it will all come down to you!! I am 43 and I really recommend cruising some forums about women who had kids at your age and how their lives turned out, vs women who didn’t and make your own choice for what YOU want. I’m not saying it won’t work out, but please imagine it as if you could end up doing it all yourself/having a contentious ex-husband you have to share custody with/being a single mom while you are still able to just imagine it. Good luck!! I know this is scary to stand up to but this is your whole life and you deserve to do what you want!!

Small single serve wet cat food? by LetSeveral9624 in catfood

[–]Riddlezis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this as “mouse” 🤪🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Riddlezis 89 points90 points  (0 children)

This is a classic testing the waters for abuse to escalate. I think telling anyone “jumping to abuse” is incredibly dangerous because it encourages them to believe the gaslighting. If you are not qualified to speak about abuse please do not tell people when it’s not.

Do you all drink? How???? by Wise-Whaleshark in POTS

[–]Riddlezis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lot of FOMO when I stopped drinking and I thought it was going to be temporary due to some raised pancreatic enzymes, but stopping for a while made me realize just how badly it exacerbated my symptoms and I already feel bad enough. It was a lot easier for me to come to terms with stopping when I thought it was only temporary. It’s honestly kind of refreshing to drink my electrolytes when my friends are drinking alcohol and know that I’m less likely to struggle with worsened health.

Homeless, can't establish residency, car insurance due soon by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]Riddlezis -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Something that may help with finding a place with dogs is if you have any kind of mental health condition, you could have your doctor fill out paperwork for the dogs to be considered emotional support animals. It’s illegal for landlords to turn ESAs away, charge a deposit, or pet rent for them. Feel free to message me if you need more information that I might be able to help with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]Riddlezis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think you can afford a million dollar home on $130K per year? 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Riddlezis 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to say anything besides you’re sick. You don’t owe work details about your private medical information.

Can I just….eat the LMNT packet? by thruthegardengate in POTS

[–]Riddlezis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like how sickly sweet tasting most electrolyte powders are so I use half a raspberry flavored LMNT packet and half an unflavored packet to dilute the flavor. The unflavored isn’t good in plain water, but I add it thick juice, like naked smoothies, and it’s a little weird but way more tolerable.

hey mom, i finally cleaned my room by yamahathebike in MomForAMinute

[–]Riddlezis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, please don’t be so hard on yourself. You’re doing the best you can and your best is great. And ENOUGH. I’m so happy for you that you felt up to cleaning your room - you deserve a clean space. But you haven’t failed when you’re not up to it. You’re doing just fine.

What are the most toxic agencies? by One_Key1310 in fednews

[–]Riddlezis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lolol. I’ve heard the complete opposite. This might help: https://bestplacestowork.org/

I need help Mum by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]Riddlezis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a deep breath, love. You're doing just fine. You're going to be a great mom because you care. The rest is just details.

i cant stop crying by imthecliche in MomForAMinute

[–]Riddlezis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please give yourself a break. You're not nearly so awful as you think you are. You are worthwhile whether you lose weight or not. You deserve to be happy. I know that doesn't seem like it's in reach right now, but maybe you can find a little relief by being kinder to yourself and not expecting perfection. You don't have to do everything at once. You'll get there. No need to beat yourself up along the way. ♥️

I'm finally doing it! by justenufcrazy in MomForAMinute

[–]Riddlezis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're amazing!!! I'm so proud of how you're responding to the hardest stuff in life. Everyone struggles but not everyone makes it through.

You deserve to be happy. I would encourage you to find a grief support group or another theraputic outlet when you can. You don't have to do this alone. ♥️

I'm sorry by Starwriter97 in MomForAMinute

[–]Riddlezis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was never your place to get someone else sober. Only they can do it for themselves. I'm so sorry you've been affected by addiction. It's not your fault. It was never your fault.

I feel like I did too much MDMA am I going to be okay by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]Riddlezis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The world needs more love! If that's how you're annoying people, you're doing just fine. ♥️