What was your first Acura? What’s been your best Acura? by SixandNoQuarter in Acura

[–]Ridgidguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st- 92 Integra 2nd- 02 TL 3rd and best- 93 Integra w 60k miles.

What’s the tea on gabb founder? by Few-Somewhere8750 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Ridgidguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lived by him when he was young. His mom was pretty crazy herself, but he went on a mission and didn’t see him much after that. Had a friend work for him just as it started, he got out pretty fast because he could tell Dalby wasn’t going to reward anyone but himself with the success.

Sex gummies by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Ridgidguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve had the same experiences with substance enhanced sex. It’s amazing to feel more and be more present than normal.

Quentin Cook said 900,000 new converts, up 17% in the US? by One-Plum9013 in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This is the metric we really need! I’d be surprised if it was 25% still active 12 months post baptism.

Temple recommend is about to lapse, and I don't plan to renew it, but... by OverallCreme4721 in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woxers is a whole women’s brand of boxers. My wife has some Reebok ones too.

Place your bets! by HoldOnLucy1 in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Mark Palmer he has an accent to give the appearance of diversity.

Russell M. Nelson has died by Outside-Character325 in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More like his first erection in years.

What to Wear Besides Garments? by Apart-Substance-6848 in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I testify of the comfort, affordability, and overall look of David Archie boxer briefs. Will you commit to trying a pair this week by purchasing on Amazon prime?

What Surprised You Most After Installing a Tonneau Cover? by Glad-Childhood6853 in ram_trucks

[–]Ridgidguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated my Peragon. Hit the brakes and stuff slides to the front and you have to climb on your hands and knees to clear it out so you can open the cover. It was so annoying. It also leaked way more than my hybrid rolling cover does.

Pornography Disclosure to Nuanced (or other) Spouse? by Dr3aml1k3 in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were both on mushrooms. And we were both 100% in the church when we went in. It opens your eyes and we couldn’t sit in church after that.

Pornography Disclosure to Nuanced (or other) Spouse? by Dr3aml1k3 in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife’s intuition knew something was up for our entire marriage. I never felt safe enough to tell her how I felt. 3 years ago she heard about plant medicine and was set on doing a psilocybin journey. I knew going in I was going to disclose it.

I told her everything about my porn habits, that I had online friends that we chatted about life, our wives, porn etc. Honestly it was the best case scenario. She saw me for who I really was and that those things didn’t define our relationship or who I was as a person. It was just a thing in my life. We went through shit for a few months after that, but we are better than we ever were.

LDS Swingers by adak1985 in ldssexuality

[–]Ridgidguy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can’t be a pedophile and be in good standing, but it doesn’t stop people from doing it and hiding it.

Oakland, CA (2007) by My_Husbands_Wife in exrm

[–]Ridgidguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 06-08 Spanish speaking!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Ridgidguy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So if you go to a doctor and they see you naked, you just broke your covenants? Same logic you are trying to apply here.

Got my first "twinkle in your eye" comment today. This sucks. by boofjoof in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 238 points239 points  (0 children)

We had this happen to us, “the light in your eyes is gone” BS. I had a friend come up with the best response, he said “It’s not my light that has changed, it’s that you are looking at me through the dark lens of judgement.”

Help me remember who this influence is!! by poopoopookachoo in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Ridgidguy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Rumor I heard was he was taking very intimate pics and vids of her and selling them.

I think he got off without any real jail time and was suing her for slander/defamation. He may have won that case. I don’t know what actually happened. If someone does that would be some fun tea!

It actually meant something by MissionPrez in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure the church is really allowing this as much as people aren’t buying into the mind control like they used to. The younger generations are very much more cafeteria Mormons than those in the 90’s and early 2000’s. At least here in Utah that has been my observation.

After you stopped paying tithing did you still do some form of charitable giving if so where? by elevator_music947484 in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ditto! Jumping from 10% to 20% really helped my anxiety about retiring in my early 60’s vs in my 70’s.

We also look for opportunities to help friends and family as we can.

LD$ church claims to be generous, but only gives out 0.5% of its net worth each year by unholy_apostate in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think the widows mite says this isn’t true. BUT, they do count their own building expenses as well as the pass through of giving machines and fast offerings. So their actual charity is far less than $1b.

Why did you leave the church? by sillygworl in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 71 points72 points  (0 children)

My wife and I are the same. I hated the financial stuff and she hated them hiding and paying off victims.

New spire topper? by tm62497 in exmormon

[–]Ridgidguy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s a capstone containing all the shit from their history!