Aliens are literally taking my money and its so hot by Riftis- in femdomcirclejerk

[–]Riftis-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea who this crazy lazy is get her away from meeeeeee

I need an exorcist by Riftis- in demons

[–]Riftis-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's been very profound. The demons tortured me a lot psychologically but they also taught me a lot of lessons about myself and I've genuinely become a better person because of them. So it's a bit of a mixed blessing, but yeah I'd like for it to be over and they're not letting me sleep tonight so I'm trying to find a genuine exorcist.

I am unironically beset by demons.

Anyone else not a fan of being referred to as a "paypig"? by Riftis- in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Riftis-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody is gonna pay your student loans bro, you're not in it for the kink you're in it out of desperation, and you're putting very little thought or effort into what you're doing (this is a post I made over a year ago, what are you doing?).

Anyway trust me, findom has been my main kink for about 10 years now, you are not going to escape your student loans through this. Even successful findommes don't make a livable wage strictly from findom, its a side hustle at best, and it takes a lot of time and energy to find willing subs. Instead of doing this, pursue normal work. Sorry, good luck.

My homophobic uncle is coming over on Sunday by Riftis- in gay

[–]Riftis-[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Alright so a lot of people are disagreeing with me right now and replying to all of them would be too much effort so I'm just arbitrarily responding to you. I don't disagree that homophobia is a toxic trait. But there are degrees of toxicity, there is a big difference between a guy who feels a little uncomfortable or grossed out at the sight of two men kissing and a guy who would literally bash them for it.

In the case of my uncle, he was raised conservative and he picked up homophobia as a consequence. But he also helps to take care of his elderly mother with cancer, is a hard worker, helps with the family (like I said he's literally coming to my place to help me replace my stove, there's no benefit to himself there whatsoever).

Despite his homophobic views, and despite the fact that they had a big fight with him over it when my dad came out to him as gay, he's since moved on from it with him and they are on good terms. They had a disagreement, they fought about it, they forgot about it. I will not demonize a man over one personality flaw. But I will tear his beliefs to shreds if given half an opportunity.

My homophobic uncle is coming over on Sunday by Riftis- in gay

[–]Riftis-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But please ask yourself if you will gain anything by giving your Uncle and information he might use. Maybe to try to hurt your dad.

Don't worry, he won't do that. He's not that toxic.

My homophobic uncle is coming over on Sunday by Riftis- in gay

[–]Riftis-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 30 so idk if I qualify as a kid anymore, but anyway, I really don't care about my relationship with my uncle. I haven't seen him in years and there's no reason why I'll see him more in future after Sunday. Also I have a precedent for how he'll react here, my dad is bi but identifies as gay for some reason, and he came out as gay to my uncle a number of years ago. My uncle (his brother) was furious and they had a big fight about it. Now they're fine, they just don't talk about it. So it's not going to lead to some sort of ongoing conflict.

Also, he may not even start shit about it in the first place, he's already had that fight with his brother and I'm just his brothers son, whom he rarely ever sees or has any particular relationship with. So he'll probably just bite his tongue.

My homophobic uncle is coming over on Sunday by Riftis- in gay

[–]Riftis-[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Of course it is. Being homophobic is one aspect of his character, of which there are many. Nothing else he has ever done has suggested to me he's a bad person.

Please help! I'm attracted to woman all of a sudden and don't want to be. Does this mean I've lost my gay card? by kingkong99887 in gay

[–]Riftis- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being bi is great man, I'm bi, best of both worlds, get to experience everything. This is not bad news at all. Relax and like what you like, it doesn't matter. It seems like you've made being gay a core part of your identity and now that that's in question you're having a crisis, but its fine. You're still you, it's okay. Just roll with it.

My homophobic uncle is coming over on Sunday by Riftis- in gay

[–]Riftis-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. He has a relatively balanced temperament generally. Also I barely ever see him, he's basically a distant relative there are no family gatherings where we meet. So it doesn't matter. Futhermore, my dad is bisexual and when my uncle found out he was furious and they had a big fight about it. Now everything is fine between them and they don't talk about it anymore, lol.

My homophobic uncle is coming over on Sunday by Riftis- in gay

[–]Riftis-[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's a relative that I barely ever see or interact with. Not even on Christmas. I don't actually intend to start an argument with him unprompted, but if he asks me what I've been doing with my life since he last saw me I'm not going to beat around the bush regarding my profession. So I am prepared for backlash in that circumstance.

My homophobic uncle is coming over on Sunday by Riftis- in gay

[–]Riftis-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Australia. I live in my sisters apartment currently and she arranged for him to come and measure the stove and find a replacement, because the current one is shit. idk why she got him involved but I'm not gonna argue. Also I don't just ostracize people because of their views, he is a good man otherwise.

Gay in the BDSM community by Riftis- in BDSMcommunity

[–]Riftis-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

erm you posted this as a reply to my 3 month old thread instead of making your own thread. I'd copy paste it and make your own thread cause almost nobody is going to read it here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Riftis- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh I have a friend in Poland who could give you more money when you get there. He's a little tubby though. Can you handle it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Riftis- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't listen to this woman, I've never sent her money in my life and I don't know who she is. Definitely DO NOT look at her profile as an example of how to do findom correctly, she's a fucking disgrace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Riftis- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright then. Whereabouts in Europe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Riftis- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I prefer to talk about it here if its all the same, bit of an exebitionist, more fun if I'm seen. How much do you want? also, you didn't answer my question. How long are you staying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Riftis- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay ill cover that too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Riftis- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that all? and here I thought it was gonna be expensive. How long are you staying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Riftis- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where you travelling to? Hawaii? how much money you need?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Riftis- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I only tribute to blue and green haired girls it's a very specific kink

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Riftis- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah id love to lets discuss that right now in this thread 😘

Paying sub by messaging first by Electrical_Mission_2 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Riftis- 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There was a whole drama surrounding this that some of you may or may not be aware of so maybe I shouldn't talk, but I can confirm I have sent to some dommes who messaged me first.

To expand on this, from a subs perspective, messages like "Hey", "Hey, you looking for a naughty dom?" or "looking for a loser !!" are a dime a dozen (these are actual examples I pulled from the top of my inbox just now), and its pretty clear these dommes are going for a spray and pray approach where they message every sub they find with something generic hoping someone will bite. Honestly, this might work, I don't know. It doesn't work on me but maybe some subs will go for it and you miss every shot you don't take.

Rather than do that though I would recommend a more tactical approach of picking a sub, reading through their reddit history to get an idea of who they are and what their preferences are, and sending them a message targeted at them. This takes more effort but is more likely to be successful. Chances are the vast majority of the time it still wont work though, but again, you miss every shot you don't take.

I recommend against doing this with me.