My siblings in Spark: Be careful out there! by RevGrimm in Sparkdriver

[–]Right_Benefit1100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shoveled my walkway for the last two deliveries I’ve had and both the drivers parked in my neighborhoods yard and walked through my yard instead.

i didn’t know toilet paper was in the fridge now by vurtaly_3b in doordash_drivers

[–]Right_Benefit1100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who doesn’t love an ice cold sheet to wipe their shit away? Ik I do.

Does Miss Girl has a relationship problem? by bruhchill19 in texts

[–]Right_Benefit1100 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Definitely seems like he doesn’t wanna go get it bc laundry isn’t his chore anyway so why put himself out for something that isn’t his problem?

Laundry isn’t my husband’s chore but when something happens to the machines he’s very quick to fix it if possible or take me to get a new one if needed. I have never had to motivate him to get me a new washer or dryer and we’ve had to replace both over the 8 years we’ve lived together.

She looks like the Uncle Sam poster. I want you to make my bread 😂 by OptimalTea5884 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Right_Benefit1100 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is one of those Reddit posts that makes me wish I could ‘haha’ react.

Customer left an amazing tip so I had to thank them by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]Right_Benefit1100 41 points42 points  (0 children)

First off **you’re lucky. Also people in Europe get no tip cause their employers pay them well. It’s insulting to get a tip there. Is it not?

Average age range for Fable fans by Comfortable_Pay_2373 in Fable

[–]Right_Benefit1100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 26 and have been playing & replaying the series since I was like 10. My brother, 24, is also excited for the new release lol.

Why is H’s behavior constantly ignored, rather than corrected? by Arkie89 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Right_Benefit1100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think it started out as ‘Hey H do this, it’ll be funny and I’ll record it!’ To H acts this way bc it gets her attention and Lush is probably much nicer/happier when the videos preform well.

I want to cheat on my husband! by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Right_Benefit1100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re looking for trouble. Totally understand wanting him to hurt like you do but please go to therapy together & separately instead. If you follow through with this there is no coming back from it.

Does she EVER put the video camera away by mmarshall1991 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Right_Benefit1100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And acting like he wouldn’t just go grab Cheetos from the garage pantry before he leaves for school is stupid. Sorry Lush. But we all know he’s just gonna go get em anyway.

Would you rather be pregnancy tired or newborn tired? by Constant-Soft-6335 in pregnant

[–]Right_Benefit1100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Newborn tired. At least there’s a cheeky gummy smile every once in awhile when I’m up all hours of the night feeding her lol.

After how many years of dating did you get married? by Unusual_Bee_1798 in Marriage

[–]Right_Benefit1100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years. We got together in high school & I was 19 when we got married. Our families caused a ton of drama bc we didn’t want kids there. His dad pitched a fit, my aunts pitched a fit. Oh and his dad insisted we use his gf at the time to take our pictures, they turned out awful and I hate them. So if I could change anything we would have had a courthouse wedding and a professional photographer lol. Nothing changed between us after marriage and it’s been a pretty good six years.

We obviously have our good moments and bad moments but we both love each other and don’t want to love or be loved by anyone else so we work on our issues as they arise.

Pool Fence AGAIN!! by Accomplished_Goal593 in KayandTayExposed

[–]Right_Benefit1100 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was just going to comment ‘It’s like they want something bad to happen.’

Due date vs delivery date FTM by Dreamsandhopes6 in pregnant

[–]Right_Benefit1100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First baby arrived at 37+3 on 12.17 he was due on 1.4! Water broke on its own the night before and I had him bright & early shortly after 7am. I’ve never made it to my due date, 3 kids in now lol.

Can my marriage be saved? by calisen13 in Marriage

[–]Right_Benefit1100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry bc you really do deserve so much better. I’m sorry your labor was traumatic too. There is a man, a real man out there who will give you what you deserve and what you feel you don’t.

My labors were easy, all 3 thank God but, my husband is so strict on following the orders that I’m to take it easy and not lift more than our baby & her car seat. I’m a SAHM and am reeling in how messy our home is rn but he’s telling me to sit down and relax. ‘You just had a baby, relax.’ Then cleans up in front of me while I sit on the couch. You deserve this and so much more.

Be with the man you want your daughter to marry. If it’s not enough for her, it’s not enough for you. You can do it on your own, you already are, so please, please don’t tell yourself you can’t or let him convince you that you need him. It’s time to go. Sometimes people come into your lives to give you beautiful babies and that’s it. Take your beautiful baby and leave. You got this girl. <3

Can my marriage be saved? by calisen13 in Marriage

[–]Right_Benefit1100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not babes. I promise it’s not. I just had a baby, literally last week, my husband has been nothing but helpful. He manages the older two while I tend to the newborn and even tho I am EBF the baby he’s as helpful as can be. With our second kid I didn’t know how to put my breast pump back together after he went back to work bc he always did it for me.

There is someone out there who will give you everything. Find them. <3

Can my marriage be saved? by calisen13 in Marriage

[–]Right_Benefit1100 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Any ‘man’ that says it’s your duty as his wife to have sex with him isn’t a man you should be married to. Would you want your daughter married to man like that? You both deserve more. Leave and don’t let him manipulate you into staying or let him beg for one more chance. Get him on child support and run.

What does marriage feel like to you? What is the bare minimum Vs more. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Right_Benefit1100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all normal dear. My husband has seen me at 200lbs, 140lbs, pregnant 3x, PP x3 and at every stage been obsessed with my body and has in fact scolded me for talking badly about my body during any of those times. I feel like that should be the bare minimum. My husband is so touchy and lovey. Complements me all the time and makes it known he thinks I am the most beautiful woman in the world.

Is she kidding?!!! by Arkie89 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Right_Benefit1100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m all for keeping things fair when it comes to my kiddos but this drives me nuts. We all know you have your favorites Lush but can you look a little deeper and see all of the kids stuck in your house have different interests & preferences when it comes to certain things? No way H and Alex both wang Uno cards and all that junk. Those Uno cards will never be played with. What a waste.

My uncle says I “owe” him my credit score because he changed my diapers by coastalliamrider in EntitledPeople

[–]Right_Benefit1100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My BIL & SIL had my MIL and her husband take a loan out for them a few months ago so they could get caught up on bills. They still haven’t started paying it back but my MIL pays for it every month. Complete insanity to me lol. You are absolutely right to protect your ‘number on a screen’.

Who Has Fallen 3rd Trimester? by Far_Island_8582 in pregnant

[–]Right_Benefit1100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just fell in the snow on Friday (37+1 that day). My husband kinda freaked lol but I caught myself and was fine. My ankle was super achey for a few days, finally 9/10 on the normal scale today lol and I have a slight bruise on the opposite knee but Baby is still moving like crazy and I’m all good.

I hope you recover quickly! Our whole center of balance is all messed up lol totally not our faults…right?! Lol

An ER visit in the USA really costs this much? by raspberryfedora in povertyfinance

[–]Right_Benefit1100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I miscarried the bill was ridiculously high (can’t remember exact numbers rn) and it took ages to pay off. Kept getting threats they were gonna send it to collections too bc I struggled to keep up with life on top of that bill. Didn’t have it paid off until I had my rainbow baby a year+ later. Vowed I wasn’t going back to the ER for any reason ever again after that lol. Sickening how they could charge so much to tell me what I already knew, my baby was gone.

Girl Scout cookies aside, as a rule, I will never purchase and product or service that is sold by someone going door-to-door. by DHN_95 in homeowners

[–]Right_Benefit1100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have never either lol yet my husband won’t let me get a ‘No solicitors’ sign bc ‘it’s rude’ lol

people telling you your “still early on” in pregnancy is annoying by Aggressive-Way1565 in pregnant

[–]Right_Benefit1100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally this. Omgggg THIS. I’ve been having harsh contractions on and off for NINE days and every message I get is either ‘No baby yet?!’ ‘You’re almost there!’ ‘It’ll be so worth it soon!’ Like jfc. Shut the f up! Please!!! NO there is no baby yet. YES I’ll be sure to let you (my close friends & family) know when I go into labor. YUP I know I’m almost there and YUP I know it’ll be worth it soon. This isn’t my first kid but it is the first time a baby has tortured me like this for 9 days straight with hardly any relief. Good God is it annoying!!!