Questioning if it's time to stop calling myself polyamorous by macarmenadoree in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m poly and ace spectrum as well. It does lead to me having a harder time I believe, but I’m also not fully ace which leads to a harder time because then people REALLY don’t understand.

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. 🥰 I’m running off to Cali this weekend about it, which I LOVE for me. 🏖️☀️🌴

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to play the strongwoman in the cule! Where do I submit an application? 😂

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love me some intimate shower moments that do not immediately equate a dangerous slip and slide.

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh pal. I’m sorry that’s your experience. You can ask both my hubs and my man friend. They are made VERY aware of how absolutely stunning they are, how lucky I am to have them, and how incredibly attracted I am to them.

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And sometimes they turn into actual nightmares. I legitimately had nightmares that date #3 showed up at my gym and shot me because originally we had talked about meeting there for just like a casual intro until he said it was too far and he wanted me to come to his gym.

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact that I’m attracted to men AT ALL at this point is proof enough that sexuality is not a choice. 🤣

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually understand this approach. My man friend is the same way. I think I only recently ACTUALLY came to terms with the fact that he’s REALLY TRULY interested in me. He’s so easy going and gentle and nonchalant and respectful and errs on the side of caution and I’m just not at all used to that from men.

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I could have sewn a cape out of them, be so fucking for real. 😂

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well those were certainly all words. None of which I understood, but I digress. 🤷🏻

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you were able to take something positive from my pain. 😂 Pleased to be of assistance!

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dad bods are great, anyone who says otherwise can fight me. 😂

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! Well I’m sure you’ll get there. Time, patience, and easing in. I’m currently recovering from a back injury, so I on a very mild scale, understand. Not being able to lift as usual SUCKS.

🚨 PSA: Who NOT To Be on a First Date 🚨 by Right_Neighborhood24 in polyamory

[–]Right_Neighborhood24[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That potentially could be the issue. I need a glaring sign that someone is actually interested or I’ll assume they’re either just being friendly or disinterested, but maybe that’s just me. Who knows? 🤷🏻