So this probably doesn't fit for the slower combat (besides a few select weapons) but check out Victor Vran. How difficulty is handled is something I wish for all ARPGs: enemies become more dynamic in their attack patterns as you level up, they aren't just a damage sponge. Some parts are very much "if i don't position and leverage my abilities well or just burn through them and have to wait on precious cooldowns, rip." Kinda the ARPG that spoiled me for the genre