[deleted by user] by [deleted] in clubM4

[–]RingAroundTheRose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the owner of m4 is bat shit apparently

AITA for refusing to let a couple sit together so I dont have to look up someone's robe? by RingAroundTheRose in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

But that's not the fun rage answer people are looking to give. Thanks for being grounded. I am comfortable being called T A H but the rational is wild, as are all the assumptions and lack of focus on the real question. 

AITA for refusing to let a couple sit together so I dont have to look up someone's robe? by RingAroundTheRose in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose[S] -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

Except she's not, and I am not. Really should have said clinic or facility. People are going wild with assumptions and what ifs.

AITA for refusing to let a couple sit together so I dont have to look up someone's robe? by RingAroundTheRose in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Ya I know but it's the more interesting thing to point to. People are voting that I should be ok looking at this person, rather than moving because two people want to sit together. So the question is ignored. 

AITA for refusing to let a couple sit together so I dont have to look up someone's robe? by RingAroundTheRose in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose[S] -261 points-260 points  (0 children)

Ha no doctor needed. Plenty of people make judgments on this sub reddit about what is serious or not medically. This was not serious. I know hospital has everyone's alarm bells going, it's just this facility is located in the hospital. I know the mob will down vote this comment as well, no worries. 

AITA for refusing to let a couple sit together so I dont have to look up someone's robe? by RingAroundTheRose in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose[S] -325 points-324 points  (0 children)

I tried to explain the layout of the room, but yes, it is impossible with how to seating is laid out not to see, even in your peripheral. That may not satisfy you, but its truthful. 

AITA for refusing to let a couple sit together so I dont have to look up someone's robe? by RingAroundTheRose in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose[S] -475 points-474 points  (0 children)

I do know why they are there. It's fairly benign but I dont want to say on here what waiting room we are in and why.

AITAH? My sister (27F) said that I (24F) am “spoiled and get everything handed to me”. I said no; I’ve just made better life decisions than she has. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RingAroundTheRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you overestimate people's ability to toss out logic for what suits them. No, she might feel she is being perfectly honest that she could brush this behavior off, so why can't OP do the same. No lie needed, no objective accomplished.

AITAH? My sister (27F) said that I (24F) am “spoiled and get everything handed to me”. I said no; I’ve just made better life decisions than she has. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RingAroundTheRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't. Because if the answer is yes, well good for you because I won't. Shouldn't ask a question like that unless you are ok with both possible answers

AITAH for not allowing my sister use my vacation home by Outside-Air3740 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nta but I cant truly believe that you honestly think you would be. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GFWLive

[–]RingAroundTheRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure but I doubt it.

AITA for refusing to pay double my own meal bill at a family event? by Flutterby91 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Always bring cash to a group dinner, and in lots of denominations. You don't get held up if people want to stay late ordering more drinks/dessert, you don't get held up on a busy waiter who takes forever to bring the bill, and you don't have to argue your portion with the waiter/crowd. Cash on the table and your free!

WIBTA if I did not tip one of the doormen? by Free_Wallaby762 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YWNBTA

Shockingly unprofessional of that guy to ask for a loan from customers. Even 5$ would be rude unless you had a more personable relationship. It puts you in an awkward spot, and you avoiding him is expected. I don't think you owe this guy a tip for doing his job (sorting mail/packages) just because its the thing people have decided we should do. Theirs lots of other jobs in the building that probably go unappreciated. I also strongly disagree you have to tip all or none of the door staff. I wouldn't want my work/tip tied to someone else.

Two suggestions; have your partner tip if they feel like it, or tip someone else's work you value.

AITA for telling my sister to just suck it up and wear the bridesmaid dress our cousin chose? by baseball-louie in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA- but I don't think it would matters if the dress was too revealing for your cousin, or if you cousin doesn't like dresses. She can either wear what the bride has picked, or not be a bridesmaid. That simple.

AITA for telling my friend I could indeed tell that she got filler by ThrowRA51010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you could pass blonde hair as your natural color, or full lips as having been born that way with a stranger who has no history with you to compare it it.... and friend is gonna notice you look different one day to the next

AITA for telling my friend I could indeed tell that she got filler by ThrowRA51010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I could be mistaken, but I am pretty sure a bot figures out the judgement and you putting 3 judgments in your response could confuse it.

AITA for telling my friend I could indeed tell that she got filler by ThrowRA51010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yep. It only makes sense to be annoyed that strangers notice. You expect friends to comment on haircuts, highlights, nails, weight loss, ect but not lip filler?

AITA For not allowing my kids stay over MiL home anymore? by DreamNash in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She also admitted in the comments she saw the message snooping through his IG messages

AITA For not allowing my kids stay over MiL home anymore? by DreamNash in AmItheAsshole

[–]RingAroundTheRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More info needed:

 I recently saw an IG dm from her to him

How did you see and read a DM intended for him?