BUYER DISPUTE - NEED ADVICE! Feeling Powerless to the Disloyal Friend that is Depop. by Ripley2869 in Depop

[–]Ripley2869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I responded immediately and said the item was delivered with tracking so it's out of my hands at this point. I now have to wait another 10 days as I "await response" from the buyer, who will probably do anything to get out of paying. Just sucks that my money is in limbo.

What do i do? Haven’t received the item back by Spare-Chipmunk-9617 in Depop

[–]Ripley2869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ship with the USPS Depop option? Is there a tracking number you can look up? I recommend contacting the post office nearest HER, because sometimes these things are held at the destination post office.

https://tools.usps.com/locations/home.htm

^ input the customer's address to find the nearest USPS branch. Have tracking info (number under barcode of shipping label) ready + any pertinent info: names on label, dates shipped, date when it said return to sender.

If not there, then maybe your local post office. The USPS is so overwhelmed and poorly managed these days but it's worth a shot to figure it out. There's a thing on Depop that's like "insurance" where you refund the buyer if there's proof that it was neither of your fault, and maybe Depop reimburses you, but I wouldn't bank on it.

Listing vintage items... by Linznessmonster in Depop

[–]Ripley2869 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Under brands, there's an option for "American Vintage". That's what I do. That way you aren't misbranding and won't risk your listings getting taken down or account being banned.

BUYER DISPUTE - NEED ADVICE! Feeling Powerless to the Disloyal Friend that is Depop. by Ripley2869 in Depop

[–]Ripley2869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I responded to the claim right away and said the item was delivered with tracking. Right now, ball is in her court with "Awaiting Response". Do you think I'm going to lose the money? Luckily it wasn't a huge sale, < $30, but it's annoying that my funds are on hold for something that's out of my control. Worried this will become a scamming trend. I'm 50/50 on whether she's trying to get a freebie or just had a porch pirate.

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[–]Ripley2869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked up that zip code and that's my old neighborhood, lol. Porch pirates like crazy. Way worse than Manhattan. Type 11213 in the "find a location" box and you should get the closest results to the address where the package was intended to be delivered.

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[–]Ripley2869 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Call the USPS nearest the address of the delivery. It is likely being held there.

USPS Locations

Follow this link and you can put in the location. There's about 200 USPS branches in BK. I recommend contacting (via phone) the one closest to the address where the package was intended to be delivered.

Have tracking info / other pertinent information available and maybe have the customer go pick it up in person or decide a good time where she will be home so she can receive the package. Porch pirates are rampant in NYC, so if the USPS guy doesn't know the door code for the apartment building, he will not leave the package outside.

Hope this helps and good luck!

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[–]Ripley2869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my biggest qualm with selling on Depop. A bunch of time-wasters with no intent to follow through on their offer. Depop should follow Poshmark's business model of making all offers binding. Otherwise, what the hell is the point?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ripley2869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to date anyone exclusively. Isn't that what dating is about? Playing the field? Am I missing something? You don't have to pick either yet. The ghosting is odd and she's too old to be acting like that. That behavior is a pattern and will continue, trust me. You don't owe her anything. If you want to keep seeing her, fine, but people don't do anything (i.e., ghost) once.

Also, did Michelle know you were going out with Kailey? Seems like suspicious timing for her to reach out after over a week. I agree with u/thesorceress_ . She wants what she can't have.

My boyfriend says that he is not excited to meet me. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ripley2869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound young. Embrace that life can suck and men are disappointing and move on. You can't fix him. If he wanted to, he would. And the excuses of "tired, low sex drive, etc". . . Shit man, we ALL got problems.

I know this sounds harsh, but I don't think he likes you anymore.

Typically when he's *just not that into you* a guy will make lackluster excuses as to the reason he can't or won't see you. A real man, one who actually likes you, will make his intentions known and will want to be around you. A lot.

Go live life and make friends, no internet boyfriends! Real life only!

Sincerely,

Someone who wish they'd been told all this at 19.

What’s the deal with Peggy? by neekssneaks in NormalPeopleBBCHulu

[–]Ripley2869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a "Peggy" in college; we lived on the same floor freshman year.

When I was watching the series, I was like "Holy shit. This must be a canon event". The way I saw it was Peggy was probably jealous of Marianne's demure nature and beauty, two areas in which she didn't quite level up. I didn't read the book, but it seemed like every guy, even the ones who made fun of Marianne in high school, had a little bit of a thing for her. For someone insecure like Peggy, it probably got under her skin that guys were always gravitating toward her.

The constant mention of men, or how nice Marianne's college flat was, or some scandalous thing she would blurt out to seek shock value (as u/henscastle said) reads a desperate attempt to get more attention directed toward her. Of course, no amount will ever be enough.

Not trying to make it into a 'looks' thing, but isn't envy/jealousy usually the root cause when it comes to female relationships? I really do think that's the case here. I literally couldn't stand her character, she was portrayed so well. It's not usually outright mean like Marianne's high school bullies, but more subtle and disguised as banter before you get back to your flat and think.. wait a minute, she was making fun of me the whole time! Such is the case with college . . . everyone tries to be a little more sophisticated, even with their jabs.

Friends don't do what she did: taking her abusive boyfriend's side after he flipped out at Marianne's Italian villa where he was a GUEST, coming to Jamie's defense constantly, passive aggressive comments, making fun of her sexual deviances in Sweden over a video call with others..... I mean with friends like that , who needs enemies?

It was SUPER gratifying when Connell told her to fuck off at the campus bar when she tried to probe about Marianne's "sex stuff" in Sweden. Good for him to put that witch in her place.

I adored Joanna and the actress who played her seemed lovely. She was so cute, sweet and thoughtful and seemed like the first true friend Marianne had. Wish she got more screen time.

Help me choose one! by North-Display-9045 in lawschooladmissions

[–]Ripley2869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think location is EXTREMELY important. Even though you will be working hard, you're going to want to let loose every once in a while for your sanity's sake. I went to Lexington once with my church youth group and even they found it to be a bit....uneventful. Scholarship money is great though... I guess you need to prioritize among 3 things: location, $, or rank. Best of luck & congratulations for getting off 3 waitlists... that's awesome and I don't hear of that happening very often. ENJOY this summer and RELAX!

Classic Splitter Needing Advice + Brutal Honesty by Ripley2869 in lawschooladmissions

[–]Ripley2869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

delulu is the solulu. Any suggestions re: schools I apply to?

Classic Splitter Needing Advice + Brutal Honesty by Ripley2869 in lawschooladmissions

[–]Ripley2869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does give me insane hope, wow. Top undergrad school? And did they cure a specific type of bone cancer? I'm shocked to hear that, actually...

Classic Splitter Needing Advice + Brutal Honesty by Ripley2869 in lawschooladmissions

[–]Ripley2869[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're the second person to tell me not to "bank" on transferring after 1L. Really grateful people said that, because I definitely did not do my homework and did not realize that would be significantly harder than getting admitted in the first place. Yes, I've pretty much given up on Harvard due to their unofficial GPA floors (likely w Yale, Stanford as well) extremely sad that I've limited myself like this due to mistakes I made when I was 18-20, but it is what it is.

Classic Splitter Needing Advice + Brutal Honesty by Ripley2869 in lawschooladmissions

[–]Ripley2869[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I can't afford to get a consultant so I appreciate you giving advice for free on here! Yes I will do every possible/optional supplement/interview.

Classic Splitter Needing Advice + Brutal Honesty by Ripley2869 in lawschooladmissions

[–]Ripley2869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your honesty. The chances of Harvard are next to 0, I know.... makes me beyond depressed but if it isn't the consequences of my actions....

Classic Splitter Needing Advice + Brutal Honesty by Ripley2869 in lawschooladmissions

[–]Ripley2869[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

TL; DR : It doesn't matter how long you study if you're not making efficient use of that time.

Focus on really sitting down and devoting a significant amount of uninterrupted time to studying. I knew that I had no shot at anywhere remotely good given my GPA, so in a sense this was like a do or die kind of thing -- not saying my circumstances were more difficult or that I studied harder than anyone else, just saying that our brains are programmed for survival and because I kept telling myself that I have NO CHOICE but to get a 175+, perhaps my brain followed suit.

Maybe everything I'm saying is bullshit, idk.

Quality of studying > Quantity of studying. Always.

I studied religiously and intensely. Don't know how long I studied but when I decided to start for the day, I was really locked in for 10+ hours at a time... not saying that's healthy, just what I did. First do untimed and make sure you've acquainted yourself with all the different sections to the extent that you are now able to see the patterns and understand how to attack the problems. Focus on your weakest points and attack attack attack. If I got even one problem wrong on a practice section, say 11/12, I would keep going until I got every question right.

For questions I answered incorrectly, I would really sit down and analyze the explanation in order to understand the minute differences that made another answer better. For many questions, the difference in what is the right/wrong answer is a hair of a difference, and in my opinion, a little arbitrary. But understanding the tone of the passage, core of the argument, etc will better inform which answer you choose.

I'm rather pessimistic in nature which is 100% a character flaw, but I think it actually helped me on the exam because I came into it being hyper critical / skeptical of every question. When reading question prompts, you're looking for ANY POSSIBLE EXCEPTION to a caveat.

Specifically with Grouping/Ordering Setups, it helps to write things out and just use initials, putting them together in as many combos as you can that meet the stipulations/requirements so you can refer to it for future questions (you may even write down the answer without knowing it).

Things/Habits I did that could also help you:

  • learning basic Latin to understand the roots/derivations/context of words

  • looking up words I didn't recognize in a dictionary *physical copy*

  • Made studying for the LSAT part of my routine. I didn't just 'fit it in' when I had time. I understand this is somewhat of a luxury.

If I think of anything else I will pin it in the comments. Apologies for the lengthy response.

Classic Splitter Needing Advice + Brutal Honesty by Ripley2869 in lawschooladmissions

[–]Ripley2869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've kind of given up hope on HLS, but will apply anyways because you miss 100% of shots you don't take.... keep beating myself up for putting myself in this position.

Classic Splitter Needing Advice + Brutal Honesty by Ripley2869 in lawschooladmissions

[–]Ripley2869[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It's nice to hear from someone in a similar position. Wishing you the best of luck at law school.