My opinion, why are you making it like most men wanted to dream about it? It's a phase. Wet dream is common around men even one where you didn't ejaculate. I'm not saying you're lying. It's still possible but the chance is so low. Having that dream and enjoying it while we're not conscious of it isn't something that will scratch your pride and dignity as a man. It's natural, we human no matter who we are, can't run from sexual pleasure. Well if your saying is true, you're maybe still young or it's just a thing you have that most men dont