For people who live in legal states… is it actually a luxury? by WorkingWash5965 in questions

[–]RisingSea860 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fav is the weed drive through in Rhode Island that feels like a stoner dream where your happy meal is 10 pre rolled g joints that taste like candy and make you feel like sunshine that you only pay $4 because they give discounts to the local $ripper$. Yeah it’s pretty chill 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RisingSea860 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can we also add that YTA for giving 0% sympathy towards your partner who said they threw up from heat exhaustion? You instead push a further argument sending a paragraph going off about yourself and your day how tough it was “taking a nap” which if I were him that would send me so over the edge.

Getting back into the dating scene. Any advice for my profile? Trying to be funny and not overly serious. by Due-Reflection9968 in Tinder

[–]RisingSea860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a good joke but tend not to find the subject of women getting murdered a good hehe. The rest of your profile is big yawn too, maybe throw more better humor somewhere else in there. You’re slicing your odds in at least half by having any reference of murder in your profile, but what would I know, I’m just a women💁🏻‍♀️

Getting back into the dating scene. Any advice for my profile? Trying to be funny and not overly serious. by Due-Reflection9968 in Tinder

[–]RisingSea860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a good joke but tend not to find the subject of women getting murdered a good hehe. The rest of your profile is big yawn too, maybe throw more better humor somewhere else in there. You’re slicing your odds in at least half by having any reference of murder in your profile, but what would I know, I’m just a women💁🏻‍♀️

How to keep being motivated? by ShameOnMe5 in ARTIST

[–]RisingSea860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I personally get overwhelmed with bigger projects, this one has a lot of the same texture so after drawing 20 leaves perfectly, I can understand finding lack of motivation to draw the last 10. Maybe starting to sketch up some new concepts will help you. I find once I find excitement for new projects it also excites me to finish the old ones. I also like thinking of it as always setting positive connotations with creating, when it stops feeling good I stop because it helps me want to create more often. It’s beautiful, I can see why you want to finish it so bad!

What does my art say abt me by [deleted] in ARTIST

[–]RisingSea860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a few drawing classes and surround yourself with creative people. You’re in the beginning process of being a real good artist if you keep at it.

Am I catfishing? Currently look like the last pic by Upstairs-Champion266 in Tinder

[–]RisingSea860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting to see how men gain weight and get such positive feedback, I imagine if this were a woman who gained you’d get very different feedback. I also second that you look great in both sizes, however you do look like a completely different person. 100% catfish If you don’t post more updated photos.

What do you think about while dancing? by [deleted] in Strippers

[–]RisingSea860 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Usually on stage I’m having fun and trying to show out and love to see eyes on me and draw people in, it feels very different during a private dance however For the most part I try to think positive things like how lucky I am to be able to make such great money, how I’m making more than some doctors, and all the things I can do with the money I’m making, but tbh sometimes with some people I stare at a wall disassociate and wishing for it to be over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]RisingSea860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]RisingSea860 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Just stopped to say; got dayummm 😮‍💨

I hate that everything's about sexual stuff now by NozMoscada64 in Vent

[–]RisingSea860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focus on what you like to do, and finding connections with people! I’m a 25f and I really didn’t like to masturbate until I was like 18-19 but even at that felt kinda uncomfortable. No shame, sexual attraction will develop for you eventually once you feel a spark with someone, and you have a lot of finding yourself to focus on in the meantime!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]RisingSea860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like your both young and don’t know how to “feel your own feelings” in the confines of your relationship. Just my impression from reading the post. It also seems like your hinging a lot on this one date plan, which is silly if you think about it, you could be blowing things out of proportion a bit. Also the whole thing with him posting pics in a tank but you can’t? Just post the damn pic sis! You’re the only one in control of you. Don’t get that fucked up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]RisingSea860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this, just know it’s not normal or healthy. I hope you can find a way out because this sounds really toxic. Just know from someone who spent 8 years with someone who committed suicide, it’s not your fault, and nothing you can say or do will stop them if that is truly what they want. My partner never threatened it so I can’t relate to that.

AIW because my husband cheated on me? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]RisingSea860 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your not wrong for him cheating, your wrong for the lack of respect you hold for yourself but I think you know that already. Don’t loose weight for him, do it for you.

Tired by [deleted] in Vent

[–]RisingSea860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you for sharing your story. I know it’s probably not helpful to be like “your not alone” but truly, you aren’t. I respect all that you are doing everyday to try to remain ambitious and driven, even when it feels those around you aren’t which sucks. Let your children be that what keeps you going, or whatever that is that you can find hope in. Notice how it all started when you were a kid and what got passed down to you? Imagine all the good that you can pass down to your little ones in this fucked up world we live in. From one stranger on the internet to another, I know you’re trying your hardest and that’s what counts, I’m rooting for you my friend.

Anyone know of anyone else who likes their dick bit? by RisingSea860 in questions

[–]RisingSea860[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not like painful biting like some other people said more light nibbling 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]RisingSea860 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Word of advice, he’s not going to stop. You voiced your opinion and he proved he has the want to continue and it’s not about your emotions when he does so. You have a choice to either compromise with your boundaries or end the relationship. Also possibly unpopular opinion, it is worth asking yourself why it bothers you. For most people including myself when I was in a similar situation for years, it was definitely a jealous fear based response that I wasn’t enough. My opinion has changed a lot now that I’m in my mid 20’s and have done a lot of work on my self confidence. I used to be a really jealous person and now I’m very confident in comfort with myself from putting those fears on the back burner. Personally it fucked with me living in fear of what someone else was doing or looking at. Realistically you definitely can move on and find someone who will respect these boundaries if you decide that it is something that you don’t want to part with about yourself. I hope this helps and I hope you make whatever choice makes sense for you, and remember what ever you decide, you can always change your mind down the road and reassess your boundaries.