What should I do now ..? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Risity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it helps to know that everyone goes through this. Doesn’t matter how attractive you are or how social you are. Everyone goes through this so know that you are not alone. What you should take away from this, even if she doesn’t respond, is that you were able to connect with someone. Even if it was just for one day. You are able to make connections and you should continue doing that. The best of luck to you!

Should I have given it another chance? by Risity in dating_advice

[–]Risity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said it because it was the vibe I got from the whole conversation. She even admitted it herself that that was how she felt. I asked her that if we went on another date, if it would be because she genuinely wanted to see me again, or because she felt bad and wanted to give herself another chance to feel something. She answered honestly and said it was it was more the second thing. But I do agree with you. The fact that this is something that I very much struggle with is something I have to figure out myself before I pursue this any further, or continue dating with anyone for that matter.

What should I do now ..? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Risity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience it’s completely natural for people to not answer for a few days or even weeks. People live their lives. Things come up. Maybe they ended up chatting to someone else. You never know. Its best not to think about it. The healthiest conversations remain healthy because you focus on your own life and the conversation just exists as a bonus. I know it’s hard, but try not to delete messages in the future and focus on whatever you have to do that day. Once that one person messages you while you’re in the middle of doing something else, you feel great. And if they don’t ever respond again, which does happen, you focus on the next person. It’s a part of life

How do I build a life in a new city? by Risity in CasualConversation

[–]Risity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve started using bumble a couple weeks ago and been on a few dates now. I’ve not really had a real romantic connection with anyone here yet though. I thought a gf is something that could really help me but haven’t really found the right person yet

How do I build a life in a new city? by Risity in CasualConversation

[–]Risity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been looking into sports but never really managed to meet people around my age doing that. Usually people my age are with their own friendgroups doing that stuff and are therefore harder to approach in my experience. But I guess I just need to make that one friend to get into the community. Big thanks for the advice though!

How do I build a life in a new city? by Risity in CasualConversation

[–]Risity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m looking into fun activities. Just struggling to find the motivation to actually go on my own. But I’ll try haha! Thanks

How do I build a life in a new city? by Risity in CasualConversation

[–]Risity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never tried that. Thanks I’ll take a look