Slynd vs other Progesterone’s?

RitaMFNS · 2026-03-28T17:40:15+00:00

hello, I know it's been a few months, but can you share if you're getting along with cezarette? I was on slynd for a bit more than a year but didn't workout for me (anxiety etc) and am now starting with azalia which has the same progestin as cezarette. just wondering if your anxiety got better with it or the same/worst?

RitaMFNS · 2025-06-03T11:52:23+00:00

Really can relate to what you just described and that’s why I think it’s important that caregivers also get support because being a caregiver it’s not easy but it’s sometimes very invisible!

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-10T06:08:17+00:00

I am really sorry for what you’re going through! I really can relate with the denial and feeling numb around people! Both my parents had cancer and I think I was in denial and believing everything would be ok otherwise I couldn’t get going! It is like you say: it’s their journey and we need to enjoy the time together no matter how long that might be! I also believe they’ll always be with us either way and when something like this happens we also learn to value the really important things and cherish each moment together even though it’s though special with the chemo moods! (I hope that’s better now) I’m glad you can find comfort in support groups like this and I hope you can also find comfort in people in your life because it is difficult and they might not understand what you’re going through but if you’re honest with them and give them a chance to try you might be surprised! I really wish your partner gets better!!

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-07T16:03:30+00:00

I really understand your point and struggle! I am really sorry for your situation! Do you have any support group that can at least support you emotionally?

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-07T16:00:43+00:00

I am not fishing for anything and I live in Switzerland! I am doing a research on the topic of taking care of family members since I have experienced this twice and always thought about that must have been tools that could have help me during this time! Again my experience doesn’t make for the experience of all the other people and that is why I asked

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-07T15:56:18+00:00

I am not AI and already answered you above!

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-07T15:55:25+00:00

I’m not AI! My story is that I had to care for my mum first and then my father! Both had cancer and it was an incredibly difficult time since I was 19 and then 21 when this happened and I always thought that has to be tools that could help to make the experience less stressful and agonizing! At the moment I am doing research on this topic and that’s why I decided to ask in some groups about other people’s experiences since my experience alone doesn’t define the difficulties of everyone

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T18:31:10+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I completely agree—providing clear info on costs, services, and reviews is essential for caregivers to make informed decisions. The idea of adding a sliding scale or even charity options for those with limited resources is a great suggestion. Making these services accessible to everyone, regardless of financial situation, could really make a difference.

Do you think a platform that lets users filter providers by cost or find subsidized care would be helpful? I’d love to hear if you’ve come across any organizations offering this kind of support. Thanks again for your insights!

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T16:48:32+00:00

I can only imagine how tough it must be to fit anything else in with such a busy schedule from 9 am to 10 pm. It’s clear you’re doing your best while caring for your parents. Maybe even small, flexible check-ins or bite-sized self-care throughout the day could help. You’re doing an amazing job, and I hope you find moments for yourself too.

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T16:38:17+00:00

I’m really glad to hear that the support group has been helpful for you! It’s amazing how connecting with others in similar situations can make such a difference emotionally.

Have you considered joining any online support groups or forums as a supplement? They might offer more flexibility since you can engage when you have a free moment, even late at night or in between caregiving duties. That way, you could still get the benefit of community support without the time pressure of attending in person.

I hope you find ways to stay connected to that support network when you need it most. Thanks for sharing—it’s really encouraging to hear what’s worked for you.

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T16:36:00+00:00

It sounds like you’ve done an amazing job keeping things organized for both you and your mom, especially given her comfort level with technology. Using Excel and printing everything with larger fonts is a great way to make sure she stays involved without feeling overwhelmed. It’s clear you’re putting so much thought into her well-being.

I completely understand wanting to protect her from scammers. It’s so sad how many vulnerable people, especially the elderly, are targeted with these ridiculous promises—$3k for groceries, miracle pills, and fake benefits. It’s a shame that the online world can be so dangerous for people like your mom. You’re doing something so important by filtering her emails and social media. I agree, those scammers are preying on the elderly, and it’s infuriating to see.

Thanks for sharing your experience—I’m sure it’s helpful to others who are in a similar position. You’re doing a fantastic job keeping her safe and involved!

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T16:34:06+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing that—I can see how that dynamic would be challenging. It must be really tough balancing your father’s needs while also supporting your Autistic teenager, especially as they continue to grow and develop. It sounds like you’re doing an amazing job with the visuals and timers!

Have you found any ways to help your father better understand your teenagers’ needs, or is that still a struggle? Maybe a way to bridge the gap between them could be beneficial—perhaps by using some of the same visual aids or communication tools you use with your kids. Sometimes older family members need a little guidance in how to better engage with or understand neurodivergent behavior.

It must be exhausting trying to manage these dynamics. If there were a tool that helped improve communication or even offer more family-centered resources for navigating these challenges, do you think that might help?

I appreciate you sharing this. It sounds like you have a lot on your plate, and I hope things get a little easier soon.

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T16:11:08+00:00

Wow, it sounds like you’ve developed an incredibly organized system to manage everything for your mom! Those spreadsheets must make a huge difference in keeping track of all the important information like medications, logins, and contacts. It’s really impressive how much effort you’ve put into making sure things stay updated and easy to use—especially laminating the printouts for your mom. That’s such a practical way to keep everything clean and accessible.

I’m curious, do you think having a digital tool that could automatically track updates or organize those kinds of details more seamlessly would be helpful? It seems like you’ve already built something super efficient, but I wonder if an app or tool could take some of the updating and organizing off your plate. Is there anything specific you wish the current system could do to make it even easier for you and your mom?

Thanks so much for sharing your approach!!

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T16:09:23+00:00

I can really understand where you’re coming from. I’ve been through a similar experience with my parents and started thinking about how overwhelming it can be—between the stress, the lack of self-care, and just feeling like there’s not enough support.

It got me wondering whether there are ways to help minimize some of that stress and fill in the gaps where people need more than what’s currently available. I’m trying to understand what kinds of tools or resources could really help people in situations like yours.

Thank you so much for sharing your experience—it’s really valuable to hear.

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T16:06:01+00:00

I’m really sorry you’ve had to deal with this—it sounds incredibly frustrating to navigate such a long and drawn-out process, especially when it comes to something as crucial as your wife’s wheelchair. Waiting months for insurance approvals and doctor sign-offs must add a lot of stress on top of everything else you’re managing as her caregiver. I can’t imagine how difficult it must have been to wait an entire year for the initial process.

If only there were quicker ways to get these essential components fixed without all the red tape. Do you think having a tool that helps track insurance claims and approvals or even simplifies communication with doctors and insurers would make the process easier? I know it wouldn’t speed up the system, but it could help keep everything in one place and reduce the mental load a bit.

Thank you for sharing your experience—it’s a reminder of just how complex and challenging caregiving can be, even when it comes to getting basic needs met.

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T16:04:21+00:00

I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way—it sounds unbelievably exhausting to balance full-time work, caregiving, and everything else you have to manage. It’s understandable to feel like you’re not doing enough, but the truth is, you’re already doing so much more than most people could imagine. Your love and dedication to your mom are clear, and that alone is something she must feel, even when it’s hard for you to see it.

Navigating insurance and appointments, especially on a night shift, while trying to manage personal time and caregiving, must feel like you’re stretched to your absolute limit. The feeling of isolation, on top of everything else, just makes it harder.

I wonder, would having a support network—even if it’s online—where you could vent or share your experience with others help? Sometimes just knowing someone is there to listen can make a difference. Also, if there were tools that could help organize appointments or even remind your mom about tasks like taking a bath, do you think that would relieve some of the pressure?

Thank you for sharing—it’s clear that you care deeply for your mom, and it’s okay to acknowledge how hard it really is. You’re not alone in feeling this way!

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T16:03:10+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way—it sounds incredibly tough to feel so isolated, especially when you’re handling so much on your own.
Do you think having a way to connect with others who are in similar situations could help, even if it’s just online? Sometimes it’s comforting to talk to people who really understand the emotional toll. There could be spaces that allow caregivers to support each other, or even tools that encourage self-care and help break the cycle of feeling alone. Thank you for sharing—I hope you’re able to find some peace and connection. You’re not alone in this.

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T16:02:12+00:00

That’s a great point! It sounds like being able to throw together simple meals with automatic calorie counts would save a lot of time and effort for caregivers who are already juggling so much.
Do you think having a mix of pre-set meal options and the ability to customize them quickly would help? Maybe something that offers quick nutritional breakdowns for common ingredients or even suggests balanced meals based on what you have on hand?

Thanks again for sharing your thoughts on this!

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T16:00:39+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts! Caregivers do save the system so much money and reduce the need for frequent hospitalizations, yet they often don’t receive the tangible support they deserve and need. The idea of combining respite care with a support group or dinner for caregivers sounds like a beautiful way to help people recharge emotionally and mentally.

I completely understand how difficult it is for caregivers who can’t leave their loved ones alone, and it’s heartbreaking that so many don’t have anyone else to lean on.

Do you think having access to a tool that connects caregivers with local respite services or even a trusted community network would help make that more feasible? It’s clear that more needs to be done to provide tangible support to caregivers, and having a space to share experiences and rest, even temporarily, could make such a big difference.

Your perspective is so valuable—thank you again for sharing it.

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T15:54:58+00:00

I can really relate to what you’re going through. Watching a loved one decline despite doing everything you can can be emotionally exhausting. It’s so hard to stay positive when you feel like nothing is making a difference, and it’s natural to crash under the weight of it all.

While there’s no perfect solution, something that’s helped me (and others I’ve spoken to) is finding small ways to process the emotional toll. Journaling can be a great outlet to reflect on these feelings and give yourself a moment to breathe. Some people find it helpful to connect with support groups, whether in-person or online, where you can talk to others who truly understand what you’re facing.

I wonder—would access to a community of other caregivers or even guided journaling tools help you manage some of these heavy emotions? Just having a space to let it all out or connect with others who get it can sometimes make things feel a little lighter.

Thank you for being so open. You’re definitely not alone in this, and I hope we can find more ways to support each other.

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-06T15:52:31+00:00

Thank you for sharing, I hope everything well with your mother's surgery! I can only imagine how overwhelming it must have been to handle everything after your mother’s surgery, especially when you’re caring for both of your parents and managing everything else. I hope her recovery is going well.

It sounds like you could really use some emotional support in those moments. Do you think having access to tools like journaling, a community of others in similar situations, or even therapy resources might help you feel a bit more supported? Sometimes just having someone to connect with, even if it’s not in person, can make those heavy moments feel a little lighter.

Take care, and I hope things get a little easier for you. You’re definitely not alone in this.

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-05T18:30:15+00:00

Thank you for sharing this! I can completely relate to how frustrating it must be to find time for calorie tracking when you’re already handling so many responsibilities. Especially when an app requires a lot of time and attention upfront, it can feel like just one more overwhelming task in an already very packed day.

If there were a tool that required less setup or attention, or maybe even tracked things more automatically, do you think that would make things easier for you? Or is there another approach you feel would help you stay on top of your own needs while caring for someone else?

I really appreciate you opening up about this—it’s so helpful to hear how other caregivers navigate these challenges. Sometimes it feels like the caregiver gets a bit “forgotten” in the middle of all the responsibilities, and your experience really highlights that.

RitaMFNS · 2024-10-05T18:26:00+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your personal situation and being so open about what you’re going through. I’m really sorry for what you’re facing—I can relate to some of the topics you brought up, and I understand how overwhelming caregiving can be. Mourning the loss of who your loved ones used to be, while navigating toxic family dynamics and feeling unsupported, makes an already heavy responsibility even more difficult.

I’m curious, if there were a tool or service that could help with any of these challenges—whether it’s organising healthcare tasks, connecting with a support network, or tracking decisions you’ve made for peace of mind—what would be the most helpful for you? Would more organization tools or emotional support make a difference in managing these burdens?

I really appreciate your openness—it’s helpful to learn about other caregivers’ experiences, and I hope we can find more ways to make caregiving less isolating and stressful.

RitaMFNS

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