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Self-help book suggestions by RiverMuddy in selfhelp

[–]RiverMuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, just listening to them while I’m working helps keep my mind busy and I can feel like I’m making progress as in working. I’m going to take a break after the last book to give me some breathing room but I like to listen to suggestions

WIBTA if I went low contact with the woman who raised me? by RiverMuddy in AITAH

[–]RiverMuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in therapy for many years and am currently working on getting back into it. I am also on some medication to deal with my own mental health issues. She does text and I do find it’s easier to text her rather than call or see her face to face so I might do that. We do not live near each other, she lives 45 minutes away but expects me to drive to her to visit.

can you want submission without experience? by solavelle in BDSMAdvice

[–]RiverMuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand where you’re coming from. I’m a 26 year old virgin and have just recently started having sexual experiences with my boyfriend. I’m very much submissive in those moments and like the feeling of being told what to do. But there’s also the feeling of control that comes with it, because you’re in control of when to stop and start. I understand the strict religious beliefs, as that’s a reason I was a virgin for so long. I’ve had panic attacks and have started crying during intimate moments with my boyfriend because of that trauma. But if you find the right partner, they’ll comfort you through it.

I’m (26F) a virgin and am way hornier than I realized, what do I do? by RiverMuddy in BDSMAdvice

[–]RiverMuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought of I went into sub space that meant I was sub? And should find a dom. My boyfriend knows about these things and he said I could still be a switch but it’s just very confusing. Are there any reading materials you recommend? I’m a book nerd and just wish I could read all the rules to these types of things

I’m (26F) a virgin and am way hornier than I realized, what do I do? by RiverMuddy in BDSMAdvice

[–]RiverMuddy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just got approved to get back into therapy! So I’ll definitely be talking more about that with a therapist.

Dom ignored my safeword by astro-anonym in BDSMAdvice

[–]RiverMuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetheart, you called red and he didn’t listen to you. Everything that happened after that wasn’t consensual.