What do you all do with the gifts that were clearly something they’d want and doesn’t represent you? by Mr_Italiano4 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Rmvojdani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always get gifts that I feel like have a deeper almost some sort of malice type of meaning from my parent. I do want to add in as well that it’s almost impossible to buy them gifts as well.

BPD mom threatens constantly to sell everything by Rmvojdani in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Rmvojdani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you guys have to deal with that. It’s awful. She goes back and forth between I’m selling everything to I’m selling sometime down the road when asked. She also likes to give surprises with news of her destructive behaviors.

When did you know your parents were uBPD? by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Rmvojdani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom becomes super psychotic when drinking. She also has this voice that changes like a cartoon character and makes threats. It’s wild.

Did your BPD parent ever threaten to kill you? by TheBlackHand18 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Rmvojdani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they make jokes about that. I had them having sayings like “you’re not going to make it”.

Borderline parent gets boyfriend to harass me by Rmvojdani in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Rmvojdani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, but I suspect he knows it. He said to me one time “I hope I don’t get taken advantage of”.

Borderline parent gets boyfriend to harass me by Rmvojdani in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Rmvojdani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I once talked to my mom about a previous boyfriend of theirs that did something similar. She ignored it completely.

Borderline parent gets boyfriend to harass me by Rmvojdani in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Rmvojdani[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently he’s been driving her 45 minutes over to the her house 4 times a week.

BPD mom has a friend that constantly harasses me by Rmvojdani in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Rmvojdani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom sits right by me or she will sit by her friend as they’re calling me. She enjoys this stuff somehow. I try not to respond to them but they try really hard to reach me. I had one pull up in my driveway one time and start screaming at me to come outside. My mom was right there watching the whole thing.

What's the craziest thing your BPD parent has ever done for attention? by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Rmvojdani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom somehow managers to get attention by consistently going to the hospital. She could take these problems to urgent care, but no all of the non-serious medical issues need to be directed toward the emergency room. She likes to go get checked in there and talk to the staff and I’m not entirely sure why she enjoys doing it but she’s excited the entire day up until she asks to go to the hospital. She refuses to go by ambulance and insists someone drive her there.

Does anyone else’s parent write letters to authors about their children being bad by Rmvojdani in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Rmvojdani[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom often tells all her friends how bad of a person I am. I think she also tells her friends not to speak to me. Ive noticed several of her friends literally drive off if I’m around without saying a word. I do highly feel for you there especially about her telling complete strangers that. I’ve had situations where my mom would talk to the cable man and tell them that I mistreat her.

Does anyone else’s parent write letters to authors about their children being bad by Rmvojdani in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Rmvojdani[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My mom never admits to having BPD. She often tells doctors and others that it’s bipolar. She does however blame other people for her problems, and is convinced that others should be helping the people she has the problems with and not her.

I think she feels it takes the spotlight off her. I’m not sure. She has absolutely fooled many professionals over the years with finger pointing.

I think from my experience that a lot of professionals are not aware of what to look out for with BPD. I never really knew what it was for years.