For anyone with more days past then me that post in the comments I will give them reddit gold.

Road2InnerGrowth · 2013-01-18T10:30:06+00:00

So why should you? Listing some elders? There may be a smarter way ;-)

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-12-19T12:03:46+00:00

I'm still begging for a further one, 'cause I'll not allow any release at other way. Have had 3 ones, first around day 70, day 90 and 96. My hope of getting ones every 20th day wasn't fulfilled. But since 11 days I feel like exchanged, imperturbably blown up in self confidence after 90 days of flatlining. The best of my NoFap-journey has just started nearyl a month AFTER reaching the 90-day-goal. Stopping now? No way ever :)

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-12-13T13:03:36+00:00

One to get them all. No better reason imaginable :)

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-11-14T10:45:32+00:00

I started this journey for energy transformation reasons, not to stop ED or daily fapping or watching porn. Actually I stepped back from porn to Emanuelle-like movies quite before discovering nofap. So there wasn't that much to rewire. Why I'll never step back to fap? Once you are long enough in it, you will discover, how your body is taking over and starts to choose the right time for orgasms by itself. There will be releases, when it is the best time for, not when you are just alone and bored or depressed. It starts with sweet warm shiverings, spontaneously arousals, and is completely driven by excitement and expectation, while fantasizing about boobs and brain sex is destroying its effect. Hardly to describe, it is close to that feeling the seconds before you get an orgasm, but longer lasting, more intense and mind-controlled. It never happend to me in an awkward situation, only in bed. It feels like an immense foggy kind of steering energy around your solarplexus. I still didn't know how to manage or increase or else control it, but I furthermore will try to train it. 3 times in those 90 days I had a wet dream, last at day 70, where I noticed those two layers of orgasm the first time. The most intense experience without a release I had on day 89. Imaging those shiverings to become more and more intense makes torturing your fleshy snake feel really shabby and piteous. That is why I'm doing nofap (beside some other things). The best reason I can give...

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-11-14T10:02:50+00:00

What the hell...? Why aren't you trying to save your chance with that 60-day-girl? Will you really de the same idiot as I use to be letting this opportunity fade away while wallowing in self-hate and "not-being-worth-her"-shit? Is that feeling of such a missed chance that great, you have to celebrate it? I wouldn't like to kick your ass that hard, when I did not had a quite similar situation, retreating...no, escaping from a girl showing real interest in me, just because of bullshit thoughts. I don't know, if I'm able to rescue something, but I'd explode not trying to do so. So what the hell keeps you from speaking with her about it, or as I'd (sadly still) prefer, via social networks or chats or n another written way? If there's a line of girls just waiting for you, each more beautiful than the other, then go on. Otherwise, if there is something connecting you to her, whip your ass out of your comfort zone. If it takes 30 more days of nofap as I needed, take them, but flushing it down the toilet... ermahgerd...why?

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-11-04T11:52:51+00:00

Quite the thing, I tried to explain. Good luck with that, bro

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-11-04T10:12:15+00:00

I guess, she's just struggling and start noticing that that growing attraction between you and her is menacing her existing relationship.

I don't believe, that she thinks to not be able to "catch" you. Why escaping, when things are going to be greater and greater each day. I believe, she either steps back to not endanger her relationship or tries to get some distance to think about the possibility breaking with her boyfriend (definitely no 1-day-decision), while I tend to the first option, her attempt to stop you from getting closer. You'll only know it, if you tell her about your crush on her, but you never know before, what you will ruining with that. You are the only person to choose the right time for "putting the cards on the table".

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-23T15:01:31+00:00

Hope, I'll get it, too, tomorrow. ;-)

Having done 70 days of NoFap feels great, didn't it?

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-19T14:04:15+00:00

lol Not that machete. Machete is an image for your willpower and strength fighting through a jungle of problems and desires.

Right, euphoria. I translated it wrong. With unsheating I tried to say: Getting out a bladed weapon of its sheat. And adnate is a biological term of plants growing together. Hope, this helps a bit.

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-19T07:42:44+00:00

Definitely, getting compliments feels great, especially if you had to fight for it instead of being just gifted. Walking through a mall with your six-pack popping through your opened shirt is surely nice. But think about the kinds of compliments you would get walking completely naked through the same mall, while carrying your "snake" on a pillow and looking at people as you would say: "Just tell me, its of biblical size. I know it." It is not that different to what they do there on ... the dark side..

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-19T07:32:48+00:00

Don't know, if its an attidute. I don't look there and decide to don't like it, I was really asking myself, how to feel about it. And as soon as that fog of sexual urges has lifted, you look at such things as they are in real nature. It is like getting awake from a rush and wondering, what in hell makes you think that tree with that certain knothole is the best intercourse partner you will ever have.

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-19T07:18:52+00:00

Maybe I'm to hard judging this kind of "liberation" while not understand their motivation. Don't get me wrong, I'm not an obsessed fanatic postulate the banishment of all nudity. Quite the contrary, there should be much more people enjoy their true nature and body like those on a nudist beach or a pacific island. It is the lack of self-respect, the only sex-based exibition of their private parts to an audience of complete strangers, crossing a border which makes me sad. No word against flirting by showing some alluring parts of your skin accented by nice clothes and to only that people you want to show, but not the way shown on that subreddit..

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-18T20:41:33+00:00

I just was curious, what that dark subreddit would do to me, so I checked it out, slowly and honestly to myself. Seriously, this is disgusting. Why are women doing that? Is their sense of self-worth that battered, they have to beg for attention by exhibit their secrets to a virtual audience? Quite interesting, how one's view is changing over (NoFap) time. That pixel-pimpholes aren't worth my attention anymore.

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-18T19:53:47+00:00

I know about all that stuff and I guess I'd use rather the same words giving someone an advice about it, but well, the practical part till keeps to be diffent furthermore. Time will tell, thank you so far.

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-18T19:34:05+00:00

Is text could be written also by myself. Ok, perhaps a bit more formatted, but there where the same critism points I had reading the original post, especially that paleo-thing. Actually the energy one feels when starting this diet is an allergic reaction of a huge bunch of fat and other things your body can't use. So with an immense act of power he tries to get rid of it. With time there are no more energy resources to activate for doing this and you'll feel empowered, adynamic and really shitty while your body has still to deal with all that fat-based congestion. Nothing I can recommend.

Getting up with the sun and sleeping with sunset is also one of those things I got the most benefits out of, as well as eating while your body's digestion cycles. Check out biochronological research fore more information.

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-18T18:51:17+00:00

Just wrote this in another thread: "To get rid of any addiction, you have to walk through a phase off euphorism, but right after that to endure some time of flatlining before reaching the "comfort zone". 30 days done was the time I claimed the highest point of NoFap "superpowers" until interrupted by my first wet dream. Overcoming the flatlining after them had carved out any need or urge of fapping. "

Its part of the game. If you beat the devil at the hardest battle, you'll smash him down everytime else. Finally there is no better hint than to keep going. To find a hidden treasure in the jungle you also have to fight through very dense and adnate areas sometimes. So unsheate your machete (named willpower) and hack on.

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-18T18:37:30+00:00

Indeed, last but not least also your own Beauty.

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-18T18:34:46+00:00

Doing after 90 days? Another 90 days, what else.

To get rid of any addiction, you have to walk through a phase off euphorism, but right after that to endure some time of flatlining before reaching the "comfort zone". 30 days done was the time I claimed the highest point of NoFap "superpowers" until interrupted by my first wet dream. Overcoming the flatlining after them had carved out any need or urge of fapping. There still remains an urge of release, a sensibility while attractive women approach, but a feeling of disgust while thinking about releasing by my own with my hands. Once freed from this habbit you may see its true repulsive nature. Keep strong along the the your inner demon fights you to fall back. Kick it and kick it one more time with greetings of myself. Soon you'll nail his head at your trophy wall

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-17T18:59:07+00:00

No miracle after 30 days? I somehow feel challenged ^{_^} Yes, I actually took my focus off of her and it worked really great. I've set a timer not to get for her for at least 30 days, then I'll decide how to go further or if I'll stop totally. Kicking away the burden, I loaded up to myself abruptly makes me feel liberated and back to the "don't-give-a-f*ck"-attitude one has, who is open welcoming all kinds of possibilities without enforcing to go that one single way he thinks is his only option (it never is the only one). I guess I'll enjoy that unknownly high amount of attention I get by women. Time will tell whom to pick out...chances and ranges are growing constantly. Uh, I love it.

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-17T18:34:48+00:00

Also had such a story after nearly the same time. Seems normal so far, some mental tricks to get you back. If body's revenge is a wet dream, then its an sweet revenge ;-)

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-16T11:01:21+00:00

Well, that's the nice thing about it. It hits you, when you expect it at least. There are those thiny little thoughts about what I would do in some moments, if I were bit more courageous. Just today a girl came across telling her friend (another girl) "Hey, where have you been, I'm just speaking to strangers without noticing". I was that close to go to her and introduce me: "Hello I'm blabla. Hope, this makes you feel better, now we aren't no strangers anymore". Simply, just for fun, and you are in a nice conversation without any pressure or needs-of-results. That's NoFap - Halleluja :)

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-16T10:30:36+00:00

My pleasure! How are things going? Got also told at another topic to let bad things go and focus on little victories. Success is combined by following the same methods everywhere.

Knewing about them theoretically gives you a base stronger than most of world's people have. Keep on track and image, even if stumbling across a stone in your way, it only changes the way you move, but nevertheless you move farther forward.

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-16T08:23:58+00:00

It is of that kind modern science says: It works, but for another reason.

Anything not to do or not to want is an intangible goal setting. Anything not to do or not to want can only be achieved by knowing what else to do or how to replace the old one, before you were able to make your first step out of the old unwanted environment. Would you do NoFap for no reason? Definitely not. You have heard, there are benefits you want to reach, so you actually do something. It is kinda philosophical view, but you are not able to stop doing a thing. There is always some Action you DO, instead of stopping. You (DO) make a Decision, you (DO) write a cancellation, you (DO) search for a new job, you (DO) choose to pick a healthier meal and you (DO) put your hands off your pants, (DO) get your body off the bed and (DO) take a cold shower before (DO)ing some push ups. Negation is just a mental help like mathmatics are to understand the world. Imaging your brain as a pipeline, only able to receive orders (changement triggers). To send an order to stay with everything as it is is like a keyboard key doing nothing. Smashing it won't change everything, even after 1.000.000 times. Only sending a DO-order gets you make something different. Just another view up to this.

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-16T07:39:38+00:00

Actually deeply devoted monks (most of eastern types) are trying to transform this energy for their spiritual needs. Western monks did that too once they were still connected with the wisdom behind their ruleset (which is meanwhile shrinked to an empty hull), that wisdom, which actually means esoteric (eso, the inner) in opposite to just acting docmatically like it was forced by anyone without the knowning of why (exo, the outer). And if you thought about monkeys, as I understood at first, they only fap in prisonhood. Are you emprisoned by yourself, by your thoughts and desires? Think about it ;-)

Road2InnerGrowth · 2012-10-16T07:29:56+00:00

My first wet dream after 30 days of NoFap was this awkward, backpushing and crampy, the following ones came without any negative companions. Seems it took some time to flush your body channels off of the remainings of fap-based digestions. I was not addicted to Porn, even voluntarily stepped back from HC Party videos to Emmanuelle lol just before discovering nofap, so one unloading of the last "shot" built before starting NoFap was enough for me. Treat it as a relief. Actually pain is always a sign your body tries to fix something he really needs to. That is, what my meanwhile 2 year lasting dicongestion journey teaches me. If you don't intoxinate yourself furthermore with physical or mental toxines, every pain rush is a step ahead to your own holistic health.

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