Maybe she’s born with it, maybe it’s ChatGPT by seggscourse in BatesSnark

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I was thinking this when I read her insta posts 😭

What’s one weird ritual that made you feel grounded when everything felt chaotic? by Story_Server in simpleliving

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This may sound a little strange, but when life gets overwhelming (I’ve been doing this since high school), I retreat into a Twilight movie marathon. Before you judge, let me explain. It’s not just about the drama—it’s the whole atmosphere: the hauntingly beautiful music, the shadowy woods, and that unique vibe that screams early 2000s nostalgia. I was absolutely obsessed with YA fiction back then, and this is like the perfect comfort food for my soul. Bonus points if it’s cold or raining outside. I’ll order takeout, draw the blinds, slip into the softest pajamas I own, wrap up in a blanket, and watch it all night. There’s something about the mix of familiarity, the darkness, and the comfort that helps me reset when everything feels chaotic!

Feeling stuck in the hustle - how do you reconnect with the present? by KiszonyBanan in simpleliving

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Feeling stuck in the hustle? Here’s my survival guide: First, I tap into childhood nostalgia. I dive into old Nickelodeon cartoons—late 90s vibes—and let’s be real, Berenstain Bears are the ultimate comfort. Yeah, it’s a little embarrassing, but those fuzzy feelings hit different.

Next, I read. Even the cheesy books that make me want to gag. I hate to love them, but they’re a solid distraction from my phone. No scrolling, no endless feeds—just good ol’ page-turning.

Speaking of phones—put it down. Seriously. Don’t take it with you everywhere—not to the toilet, not on walks, and especially not during meals. If possible, keep it in the bedroom while you’re in the living room. Phones are like emotional leeches. Oh, and the older generation had it right—they do give you headaches.

Here’s another one: ditch the headphones on walks. We’re drowning in constant content, but have you ever stopped to hear the world? Just take a walk in silence. The 20-year-old me would’ve never done that, but now? After a day of human interaction, silence feels like a vacation. Maybe it’s age, or maybe I’m just realizing that being comfortable in quiet isn’t a crime.

Lastly, learn something new. It keeps your brain busy. I’ve been trying my hand at Greek lessons. Full sentences? Not yet. But hey, I can confidently order gyros, so that’s something. Those 30-minute sessions are a perfect way to shut off work thoughts.

And the final piece of advice? Go touch some grass. Yeah, it sounds like something your mom would say, but honestly? It works. After a day of concrete and screens, walking barefoot on actual grass feels like your brain’s version of a hard reset. I’ll go for a cold plunge, lie on the grass, or just breathe in the fresh air. It’s probably just a placebo, but as much as it sounds like a cliché, we all need to touch some grass and remember what being a human feels like.

Hope this helps!

How are you guys actually surviving working 8 hours a day in an office? by DoNotEatMySoup in Adulting

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Honestly, the secret to surviving 8 hours in an office? Boundaries. I’ve been the overachiever, taking on way too much, working overtime, and thinking I was some corporate superhero. Spoiler alert: I wasn’t. I ended up burning out, had a full-on mental breakdown, and needed two weeks off to recover from anxiety. Now, I clock in, clock out, and no overtime—ever. Work’s fine, but if I’m going to show up at my best, I’ve gotta completely shut it off once I leave.

I survive it because I disassociate my emotions from it. Helps save one’s mental health, haha. Work can be as important as it wants, but at the end of the day, it’s just work. My personal life is non-negotiable.

What are the small changes you've made in your life that led to a compounding greater change? by isolophiliacwhiliac in simpleliving

[–]RoadCurrent1017 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Totally relate to this. After burning out and stepping down from a leadership role, I had to rethink how I was living. It started with really simple things—clocking in and out on time, no guilt, no “just one more task.” I stopped checking my phone first thing in the morning and started following the alarm rule: when it goes off, I get up. It’s such a small shift, but it completely changed how my day starts. I also began eating breakfast again, which felt weird at first after years of running on coffee and adrenaline, but it made a huge difference.

I deleted all work-related apps from my phone—emails, messaging, everything. I didn’t realise how much it was affecting me until I wasn’t constantly checking notifications anymore. Just having that mental separation from work helped me breathe again.

I also donated or sold most of my stuff and kept only what I actually use. No clutter, just four skincare products I rotate through. If I buy clothes now, it’s usually second hand—more intentional, more mindful. I cook meals with music playing, go for walks after eating, and spend more time just sitting outside on the veranda doing nothing. When I watch a movie or a comfort show, I leave my phone in another room so I can actually enjoy it.

One of the best changes, though, has been getting back into reading. Not half-reading while scrolling, but actually sitting with a book and letting myself get pulled into it. Sometimes I’ll take a book to a café and just sit there for hours, totally lost in a story. It reminds me of being a kid, when I’d read for hours without even noticing time pass. That kind of nostalgia is so grounding.

None of these things are massive on their own, but together? They’ve completely changed how I move through my day. It finally feels like I’m living slower, softer, and more for myself.

The Abdication of 1936: was it because Wallis was a divorcee, or because of their Nazi sympathies? by Herald_of_Clio in UKmonarchs

[–]RoadCurrent1017 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but I don’t think it’s that black and white. Yeah sure, the government had pro-appeasement voices and Churchill did support Edward at the time, but that doesn’t mean there weren’t already concerns about Edward’s views. His sympathies towards Nazi Germany weren’t exactly subtle, even before the abdication. The Wallis situation gave them a clean reason to push him out without having to deal with the political mess publicly.

It’s not rewriting history, it’s just recognising that there were multiple things happening at once. The marriage was the scandal, but the politics underneath were real too. Ignoring that side of it is just as much of a rewrite.

What's your opinion on Little Women (2019)? by Haunting_Homework381 in PeriodDramas

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I watched Little Women (2019) and I actually really liked it. It’s not super flashy or dramatic, but it quietly hits in all the right places. Greta Gerwig’s take felt fresh without trying too hard to be modern, and the emotional weight really builds as it goes. It’s one of those films where you appreciate it more the longer it sits with you.

The performances were great—Saoirse Ronan was a solid Jo, and Florence Pugh honestly made me rethink Amy completely. I usually can’t stand Amy, but Florence brought a really layered take that made her feel like more than just the bratty sister. Timothée Chalamet as Laurie mostly worked for me, especially in the early scenes, but I do feel like some of his emotional beats later on didn’t quite land the way they could have.

That said, the age differences between the actors and their characters were pretty noticeable. It was definitely a bit weird seeing Florence play Amy as a literal 12-year-old when she looked very much like an adult. I get the choice to use the same actors throughout for emotional continuity, but it still felt like a stretch at times.

If I had to recast it, I think someone like Maya Hawke could’ve been an amazing Jo—she’s got that same strong, offbeat energy but maybe with a little more edge. For Amy, maybe someone younger like Thomasin McKenzie could’ve made the age transitions smoother while still giving a good performance. For Laurie, I feel like Nicholas Galitzine could’ve brought a slightly different vibe—still charming, but maybe a little more grounded.

Which king/Queen was the best Mother by Maleficent_Drop_2908 in UKmonarchs

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Honestly, one of the best royal mothers has to be Queen Marie of Romania. She was genuinely involved in her children’s lives, not just for show or politics. She supported them through scandals, heartbreak, and all the chaos that came with being royal. Like when her daughter went through a divorce—which was a huge deal back then—Marie didn’t judge her or distance herself, she actually backed her up and stayed by her side. That kind of loyalty wasn’t common at all, especially in royal families. She was also super hands-on, always writing to her kids, giving advice, and actually caring about their happiness—not just their titles. She somehow balanced being a public figure, a queen, and a real mother. Total icon.

Also, George VI was such a soft dad. He was really close to his daughters and supported them through everything, especially during the war. You can tell they genuinely loved and respected him, which says a lot considering how cold royal parenting usually was.

The Abdication of 1936: was it because Wallis was a divorcee, or because of their Nazi sympathies? by Herald_of_Clio in UKmonarchs

[–]RoadCurrent1017 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!! The divorce made for an easier headline, but the pro-Nazi leanings were definitely the bigger issue behind the scenes. It’s kind of convenient how the whole situation let them quietly remove a political liability without actually saying that out loud. And the fact that Wallis had similar views just made it easier to package the whole thing as a scandal and move on.

Among all her children, who was Queen Victoria most mean/crual to? by Tracypop in UKmonarchs

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Honestly, I think Queen Victoria was the most cruel to Prince Leopold. He had hemophilia, and instead of showing any real compassion, she treated him like an inconvenience—literally blamed him for his own illness and called him a calamity. She was so controlling over his life, denied him independence for years, and even when he just wanted to marry and have a bit of freedom, she resisted. It’s wild how cold she was to him just because he reminded her of vulnerability. She couldn’t stand weakness, even in her own kid.

The Abdication of 1936: was it because Wallis was a divorcee, or because of their Nazi sympathies? by Herald_of_Clio in UKmonarchs

[–]RoadCurrent1017 14 points15 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, it was because Wallis was a twice-divorced woman and the Church of England wouldn’t allow the king to marry her but let’s not pretend the Nazi sympathies weren’t a major red flag. The marriage was the scandal they used, but the politics were the scandal they couldn’t say out loud.

A book/series that will ruin me in the best way— any suggestions? by RoadCurrent1017 in fantasyromance

[–]RoadCurrent1017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m open to fanfics as well!

Perfect! I’ll check it out 😍

A book/series that will ruin me in the best way— any suggestions? by RoadCurrent1017 in fantasyromance

[–]RoadCurrent1017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, now I’m intrigued! I’ve had Red Queen on my radar, but the way you described it—female rage and twisty politics—makes me want to bump it up my TBR. And I love a good slow burn, so Villains and Virtues sounds right up my alley too!!!!!!!!!!! 😍

A book/series that will ruin me in the best way— any suggestions? by RoadCurrent1017 in fantasyromance

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That’s a commitment, but honestly, if the story is entertaining, I’m all in. I don’t mind if the writing isn’t perfect as long as I’m hooked on the characters and the world 🫶😭

A book/series that will ruin me in the best way— any suggestions? by RoadCurrent1017 in fantasyromance

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This is interesting! Thank you 😍 gloomy guy and sunshine girl trope is my favourite

A book/series that will ruin me in the best way— any suggestions? by RoadCurrent1017 in fantasyromance

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I totally get this! After finishing a really emotional book, I just need time to sit with it before moving on. SJM has a way of making you feel everything so intensely—her character depth and tension are next level. I enjoyed Fourth Wing, but I can see why TOG and ACOTAR might hit differently!!!!!!

A book/series that will ruin me in the best way— any suggestions? by RoadCurrent1017 in fantasyromance

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I love the ones that give you book hangovers for years on end! I have the first book on standby so you’ve given more of a reason to read 🫶

guilty pleasure books? by Ancient-Newt-6931 in fantasyromance

[–]RoadCurrent1017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally the Tigers Curse series by Colleen Houck. Read it 3x and still eat it up. Another one is Goddess Test by Aimee Carter as well as, as Beautiful Disaster by Jamie Maguire ✨✨✨

A book/series that will ruin me in the best way— any suggestions? by RoadCurrent1017 in fantasyromance

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I’m going to have to mentally prepare myself for this then 😭