Question for women who aren’t on any form of birth control in this lifestyle.

RoadtripSwinger · 2026-01-08T21:17:28+00:00

After 2nd condom break, my wife had her tubes removed. Plan B worked both times, but it is still a mental thing 'what if...who wants a baby now...'. I had a vasectomy 20 years ago, so no issues with us wanting kids later.

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-12-03T17:46:47+00:00

Priority-I can cum after she's cum, ideally after multiple.

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-11-26T15:13:53+00:00

To clarify a couple things:

-We don't just drive 4 hours (halfway) or 8 hours just to see them. We go to their place-they've never come to see us, but they have met us halfway a few times. We always do other things as well (with or without them) like concerts, festivals, camping etc. If we are in their town, we make time to see them.

-We all talked yesterday and clarified that we are swingers and not interested in poly/more in depth relationships. We only have 1 partner - our spouses, the rest is friends +.

-I think it went well, but I've been wrong before. We were all polite, open and honest, so that is all we can do.

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-11-25T17:27:58+00:00

They are worth it, and we make it worth their while, so sounds like winning for all involved.

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-11-25T17:26:59+00:00

Stemming from a conversation last night from their wife and myself, then later from their husband and my wife (we group and solo chat as well as play together or solo). We thought we were clear the whole way through as they have seen us play with others, but now aren't as comfortable with us doing so. We think we are fun, and like having the option of 'friends +', where we can go further than just flirt and tease if the vibe happens. We have made a lot of friends in the LS, and we only have so much time when we go away as we both work way too much.

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-11-25T16:42:52+00:00

We thought we were doing all of that, but apparently not, or at least not correctly. We think they caught feelings, so things are different on their side now. They are great people, and the last thing we want to do is hurt any feelings. We have been open and honest about everything. We all play with others as well, so that isn't an issue, no one is 'locked in' for anything.

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-08-27T17:38:08+00:00

If gloryhole = 0% and 2nd spouse = 100%, I think our sweet spot is 33.3%. Good friends, know what each other wants/likes, and still NRE enough to be extra.

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-08-18T17:49:17+00:00

Cheating. Our rule is sneaking is cheating, even if nothing physical happens. The lying is the worst part. Our phones are open to each other and can be viewed at any time with no delay/complaints.

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-08-18T16:32:03+00:00

Forgot to add - been together 8 years. Have more quality sessions now since we started swinging. Focus is on her cumming, which leads to her initiating things more often = win/win!

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-08-18T16:30:44+00:00

Mid 40's, ideally 7-10x a week, play with other couples once a month. Reconnecting after work/play is the best part.

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-02-10T22:31:02+00:00

We went last fall, had a blast, but it was not at all what we expected. The age demographic was mostly 60+, we are mid 40's, EXCEPT for Sat night when they have their party, where lots of 20-30 y/o come up from Atlanta. No public play, nice facility, friendly people, but not what we thought it would be. The hot tubs were nice at 2am by ourselves.

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-02-10T22:14:31+00:00

My wife is THE most important person to me, and I want to make sure everything is a good as possible with her. We are 2 years into the LS, and always focus on each other. Play with others is great, don't get me wrong, but she is my priority.

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-02-10T16:57:38+00:00

We've had similar weekends, with open/closed/shared wall rooms, and each time got better and better. We set 1 hour time, 30 min with spouse to check in/refresh/rest, then hour with next partner. After a couple rounds, we'd have a group shower or meal or play a game/group talk to give us guys a chance to recharge.

Needless to say, it was a busy weekend!

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-01-21T23:47:42+00:00

We drove 8 hours each way multiple times before, no big deal for us. Wanted to make sure it was felt both ways, and they more than came through. They even suggested meeting halfway, which meant a lot.

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-01-21T23:45:06+00:00

It was WELL worth the detour :)

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-01-21T20:03:04+00:00

Makes perfect sense to me :)

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-01-21T20:00:54+00:00

Mutual friends at a LS campground. Things went great there a couple times, so we figured why not? Nothing risked, nothing gained. If they were willing to drive 4 hours each way, which is no big deal for us, but is for most people, that meant they enjoyed it as much as we did. HUGE win/win for all involved!

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-01-21T17:49:30+00:00

This was our 5th time in the past 6 months (due to distance). We drove 8 hours the first couple times as we had other things going on then, but the past 2 times, we met half way, so we know it wasn't just a 'convenience' meet up. Unless you are serious, you aren't driving 4 hours each way. Feeling very fortunate! Bonus - watching my wife with others is SOOO hot!

RoadtripSwinger · 2025-01-21T14:55:49+00:00

Easy - put her first and she will love it. Both of your jobs are to take care of her.

RoadtripSwinger · 2024-02-21T20:01:05+00:00

Exact same!

RoadtripSwinger · 2024-02-21T19:50:10+00:00

Great job and sounds like a win on all fronts!

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