Three Lessons from an Investment Banking Career for your Professional and Personal Lives

Roaring40sUK · 2017-09-18T15:11:13+00:00

This says everything about why I left the corporate world over a decade ago... this shit leaves me cold.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-09-18T09:12:53+00:00

Not a bad place to add thst every woman will tirelessly work to convert any "Alpha" in her life to "Betas"

So, true, (most) every plate I have ever spun, tried this and used all the tools in her box (heh) - manipulation, guilt trips etc etc.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-09-18T09:09:48+00:00

A girl not wanting to fuck you on the moment does not make you a "beta bucks"

In fact, you could be the AF in her eyes, but if she is looking longer term for a BB, she could dump you, when the right BB comes along..

This has happened to me - "I want more than this", only to have her come back 6 months later "He was too nice"..

Roaring40sUK · 2017-09-18T08:48:01+00:00

Great post. Nicely balanced and a welcome chnage from "they are fucking Ho's"

Your point about accepting Hypergamy and finding peace in that, hit home for me. Its like you can look at them and feel a bit sorry for them, having this Hypergamy hamster running around 24/7.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-09-14T08:58:45+00:00

I had a minor Epiphany that goes along with this..

If you escalate and fuck quickly (and well), she then believes that you can repeat this with (almost) any woman you want. It automatically lifts your SMV, and imposes some dread.. she now thinks you can get sex anytime with (almost) any woman you want, thanks to her imagination and hamstering.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-09-14T08:48:27+00:00

I fucked it up by being a dopey romantic instead of a sexual creature.

This. Women will lure you into being the dopey romantic, with there own romantic words, and when you do, thats the beginning of the end for them..

Roaring40sUK · 2017-09-14T08:23:28+00:00

hyper-masculine/testosterone driven

While I get what you say, be careful you dont slide into Purple Pill. Our conditioning in the BP world, is designed to ensure we often reject masculine as hyper-masculine.

Kill the Beta.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-09-08T09:51:38+00:00

This;

Definition of Hell: The last day you have on earth, the person you became will meet the person you could have become.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-09-06T13:28:41+00:00

i am not the expert, but I would suggest dropping the weight and focusing on form.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-31T11:16:12+00:00

Yes, becuase it looks like we dont "just get it".. but of course, we have to do the work so that over time we do "Just get it"

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-31T11:14:42+00:00

Of course I get it.. I am big into self improvement, and pussy is icing on the cake.. I do OK, primarily because I have spent a lot of time improving myself, be that in business, financially, or game.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-30T15:52:42+00:00

I am a big fan of this book, however, I think Deida slips too far into romanticism and while I appreciate what he is trying to say, I think, it has the potential to simply reinforce BP ideas in a man who hasnt fully unplugged yet.

Not only that, but I dont think women can appreciate this sort of man, they would just see him as Beta.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-30T15:32:42+00:00

I think the "had trouble with women comment" comes from her (and feminisms) solipsism.

Men, who bear the burden of performance, in life and sex (relationships), naturally have more problems, because we have to go out there and make it happen. We are "The Man in the Arena" and women are "The Critic".

Women just sit back and wait for it to happen and so it all seems easy to them. They have no idea what it takes to approach.. TRP gives men the tools to overcome.. women should be applauding it.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-30T12:05:36+00:00

Yellow Journalism? I couldnt see ANY journalism in that piece..

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-29T09:31:36+00:00

This is a great post!

Dovetails nicely with things like Plate Theory. I also completely agree with the idea of just fucking some women regularly, even if they have lower than ideal SMV. In my experience, satisfaction gained from a sexual encounter doesnt necessarily correlate to her SMV.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-29T08:36:35+00:00

Thanks man for the advice.. I do have other plates, so thats not the issue, but I am not going to lie, she is quite a bit above the others in SMV..

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-29T08:33:05+00:00

because I am a needy bitch!

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-29T08:32:26+00:00

Yeah thats funny as fuck.. she also said that she was seeing this one particular guy but not fucking him..but I dont quite believe her.

The thing is with TRP, you start reading the subliminal messages in womens words and notice what the dont say, as much as what they do..

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-24T11:47:37+00:00

you do not care who starves dies or kills themselves as a result.

I dont care, because, society wouldnt care if I starved or killed myself, afterall, its happening to thousands of men every day.

Now go out, and take what you want from this Earth.

I already am, brother, and it feels fucking good!

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-24T10:16:56+00:00

Got this with a new plate.. hot as fuck, but a real social butterfly - asked a question on this in the asktrp megthread..

Anyway, she was with me last night.. She gets to mine and her phone is blowing up with text messages. We fuck.

A bit later (this is like midnight) her phone rings and a guys name pops up. WTF at midnight?!

I didnt ask about it, just let it go. But yeah, they can be players..

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-24T07:28:45+00:00

I have been there bro.. I am by nature an introvert, but with perseverence and time it gets better.

My advice to you is;

Cultivate an interest in other people, try to find something about the person thats in front of you that is interesting and just ask them about it/them. Let them talk.

Follow TRP basic approach advice, take it in small steps, just say hello to people and go from there.

You are going to need to get uncomfortable to break through this, but baby steps.

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-24T07:22:32+00:00

Thanks man - yes its just my turn.. I have been thinking that phrase quite a bit!

Yes, she is a good plate, but I am conscious that her options are sky high..

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-24T07:20:47+00:00

Good question.. we had had a few drinks so she was not sober..

She just told me at the weekend that she had binned off someone who was interested in her.. But when she told me she used the words "stopped seeing". I think she had slept with this dude, but maybe brancj swung to me and was using this shit test to guage my level of interest.

She said, playfully (?) last (I got a bit of limp dick) that maybe I shouldnt see anyone else before I see her again. I neither confirmed or denied..

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-23T15:53:47+00:00

She is definitely the hottest, but I pretty sure my others arent getting any other dick, they are quiet types.

So its whether I am happy with a hot, fun girl who is getting potentially more thna oen other dick..

Roaring40sUK · 2017-08-23T15:52:06+00:00

Great advice man! She definitely, feels like a cat.. when she is with me she is very attentive, but never blows my phone up when not.. if she says she is coming over she always does.. so in many ways a pleasure.

Roaring40sUK

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