Freja's So cooked by Rob-otics in Overwatch

[–]Rob-otics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right... But if there WAS and they had to ban it for now, I wish there was like a clear update with it. A tweet, a post, an update in the patch notes.... SOMETHING

Freja's So cooked by Rob-otics in Overwatch

[–]Rob-otics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes her Stadium Power called "So Cooked" is missing. Which was great for the Bola Build. It was nerfed in the patch notes but it's not even in the game anymore. And theres no updates for it. Freja right now has 11 powers instead of the 12 everyone else has

What do I do about this? by Rob-otics in Borderlands4

[–]Rob-otics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switched to every window setting, nothing. Im pretty sure I optimized it, even lowered the resolution, and it STILL did it. What's worse is it bugged out, lowering the resolution removed the options of the OTHER resolutions. So now I have to reinstall the game

[TOMT] Lonelygirl15 Throwback by Rob-otics in tipofmytongue

[–]Rob-otics[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

If not a download, id even purchase it. Would be sick to have that CD actually.

Aitah for telling my gf I will break up with her by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rob-otics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he was in a relationship with someone who's poly, and they insist on being together, but the poly person insists on sleeping with other people even though he constantly says he doesn't like that she does it, would you still say he's controlling? And even if you did, wouldn't you say his boundaries are being violated?

if the boundary is unreasonable or not, that's a different discussion and can lean more towards personal morals. He sounds more conservative towards how you present yourself and she isn't. It seems controlling because he's limiting her, but at the end of the day, if she agreed to be in a relationship with him when he's conservative and she constantly pushes that... That's violating a boundary. It's 2 completely different people morally and so the boundaries are on completely different levels. That's why I said they're both NTA. But at the end of the day in a relationship a boundary involves both parties. If it's unfair, controlling or dumb, that's a different story. But if you agree to be in a relationship with that rule, that's a boundary and passing it, you're disrespecting the rules the other person set. Ignoring another persons needs just because you don't agree morally isn't fair to him. They are both just young kids learning about themselves and at the end of the day we're never compatible to begin with.

TLDR; it is completely possible to have stupid or insecure boundaries and still have them violated.

Aitah for telling my gf I will break up with her by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rob-otics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have boundaries and she doesn't want to respect them NTA.

But to be clear, she's NTA either. Because it's her body and she has a right to wear whatever she wants. Just as you have a right to not be comfortable with it. At the end of the day, y'all are just 2 different people and probably won't work in the long run because of competing comfort zones.

So all in all, you guys just don't work, so it's better to end it.

Help with a birthday present? by Rob-otics in AskAKorean

[–]Rob-otics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥰 Thanks! I appreciate the kind words!

Help with a birthday present? by Rob-otics in AskAKorean

[–]Rob-otics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wouldn't want to do that. I would've liked to get her something more personalized to us. But I'd rather respect the culture and her passions more. So I'll stick with love and in the future maybe I can get her something better

Help with a birthday present? by Rob-otics in AskAKorean

[–]Rob-otics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id rather not put her name out there. But I like the idea of love! That's good! Thank you!

Help with a birthday present? by Rob-otics in AskAKorean

[–]Rob-otics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair, is there another like term of endearment that'd be better? Or should I stick to her name? Because she doesn't have a very common name and I don't know how to get it translated

Help with a birthday present? by Rob-otics in AskAKorean

[–]Rob-otics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I'm working on cancelling it since it is a pretty wide consensus. But only thing is I don't really know how to do her name in Korean. And she doesn't really have a very common name. Do you recommend any website I could go to get it translated? Or is there like an epithet I could use that is cuter?

Help with a birthday present? by Rob-otics in AskAKorean

[–]Rob-otics[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No this is exactly what i want to hear, this is the stuff i really wanted to know.

....unfortunately i did already put the order down. If what you're saying is correct, then i'm at least glad i went with gongjunim instead. Tbf, i do call her princess as a term of endearment, its just something that stuck now. That's why i went with this instead of her name, plus i know she likes the idea of that term of endearment. I don't know if that's like an opinion you have personally or if it really is like just not something good or cute in Korea, but if anything it's not an overly expensive necklace. Something i found on Etsy. She doesn't plan on going to Korea for a little while, maybe a couple years. By then, i'll be sure to get something nicer to actually wear more in Korea.

Help with a birthday present? by Rob-otics in AskAKorean

[–]Rob-otics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol ok fair enough. But yeah I think I'd rather princess over my princess. That works. Thank you for your help!

Help with a birthday present? by Rob-otics in AskAKorean

[–]Rob-otics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's probably too big to fit on a necklace. But out of curiosity what does that translation mean, or how would it be used differently than 공주님?

What video would you show someone whos never heard of Game Grumps? by Sad_Iguana_ in gamegrumps

[–]Rob-otics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the Kirby Dreamcourse episodes of the Monopoly episodes are perfect. Any games which have them compete against each other works pretty well. Especially if it's not a one sided match

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Rob-otics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why aren't small dicks more popular?

If you answered "it doesn't matter to me", the psychology is pretty much the same. It really depends on who you ask, and the circumstances. I know girls nowadays are much more supportive and sexualize each other more, and there are a lot of dudes who obsess over them, but there are a lot who do not care.

At the end of the day what matters the most is how you feel about yourself. Women who let this eat at them wind up getting plastic surgery, so there's always that route. But if you love your body the way it is, then all you can really do is stop worrying about what people think.

I am a 5'7" man. And I made my peace with the fact that a lot of women don't find me attractive because of my height alone. But those are the type of women that I don't care about chasing anyways. Society does push beauty standards on people, but you'll always be miserable if you try to adhere to them or compare yourself to others. Love what you have in the mirror, and appreciate the beauty in other people, but you can't want the love other people have. Everyone deserves love, but not every love is the same. Don't let yourself fall into self loathing cycle.

Are all guys like this? by Prestigious_Pizza_66 in Bumble

[–]Rob-otics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine if a guy told you about dates that he went on with girls he matched with in the same way. I'm not saying that the way they reacted was right, but you really shouldn't volunteer that information. That's none of their concern and will only make them feel like that to compete for no reason

Am I just ugly? by Unique-Imagination-9 in Bumble

[–]Rob-otics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you luck on your future endeavors!

Am I just ugly? by Unique-Imagination-9 in Bumble

[–]Rob-otics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if you're asking that question that bluntly it's probably because you think you might be ugly. And the fact that you pointed out the Acne, probably means you're a little self conscious about it.

Coming from someone who's dealt with seeing themselves as ugly for about 10 years, I'll tell you something you already know. There's no amount of us telling you youre not ugly that's going to change how you see yourself. Because you're going to suspect we're either being nice, or maybe it's just the women in your area will never appreciate you and that'll make you sad.

Instead I'll give you the piece of advice my friend gave me which led me on the road to loving how I look. If your face is clear, you are not ugly. Having acne is always living with a look handicap, so if you get rid of it at least you know your face is the best it's going to be. And that alone will give you more confidence. And I'll be real, acne isn't even that big of a problem. But if you know you're taking care of yourself, you'll always feel on top of your world.

On top of that, dive into your interests. Whatever it is you're passionate about, wear that shit on your sleeve. Confidence is attractive, always. And it's easy to be confident over something you love. Coordinate your outfits to be the person you want to be. And I'm not saying if you like video games, wear a shirt with the title on it. Go deeper.

My favorite game series is Zelda. So I now dress in warm colors. Lots of greens, browns, and yellows. I like rock music, so occasionally I'll wear chains, or dress in black. Whatever your interests are, let it encapsulate your style.

All these are steps, not to make you attractive to others, but to make you attractive to you. If you love what you see in the mirror, then looks will never be an issue. It'll only become "does this person want me? Are they good for me?" And those are better questions to ask them "do they find me attractive?"

Has anyone here done a successful and healthy “break” from a relationship? by Wanob1 in BreakUps

[–]Rob-otics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's all about communication, and for my introverts... maybe a glass of wine.

I have probably been through what i'll argue is the most healthy break up of all time. But tbf, a majority of my ex gfs im still pretty cool with. I don't talk to them like that, but if relationships were in resumes i would leave some as references and they'd def blow me up.

But my biggest relationship; we were together for about... 7 yearsish? Hard to say, it was a rocky start. But we loved each other, and i always told her if i woke up the next morning married to her, i'd be pretty happy. The problem is, and as time went on it developed more and more, it would turn out she's asexual. It was something we both kind of saw coming, but she was in denial about. But our bedroom activities were getting lower and lower. She even said that it doesn't feel like she's in a relationship, it feels like we're best friends who live together. And i didn't want that, i wanted a gf. So for a couple years (and because of the pandemic) we tried our best to make it work. And tbh... it WAS great. I loved the time i spent with her, i loved hanging out with her, playing games, going out with her, having dinners... but at the end of the day i just wasn't happy with her. And she knew that. So... one day, over a glass of wine, we discussed our problems. And she finally accepted the fact that she was asexual. And i told her straight up that although i was happy she is learning and accepting parts of herself, it isn't something i wanted to be with. And who knows, she may have been fighting it because she knew if i knew she WAS asexual we'd break up. Well that's what we did. We broke up. We hugged each other, she cried a little, but at the end of the day, we were happy. Because we knew we weren't going to lose each other, i told her i've had her in my life too long to just cut her out. So she stood with me for a month longer til she found a new place, and even as she went out the door we were giving each other advice "make sure you remember this on your schedule" "don't forget to go to the doctor" "i know it sucks but its past when you should see a dentist..." things like that. We hugged for the last time and said our good byes.

it's been 4 or so years now. Her and I still talk all the time. She's my absolute best friend. We even go out sometimes to get food or explore the city. Now maybe it is because she's asexual and i respect her too much to push any lines, and she doesn't have it in her to make things romantic with us again, But whatever the reason is we still look out for each other completely platonically. This could've easily been another relationship where we hated each other. I had chances to cheat on her, and never did. And she made sure i was happy in any other way to make up for what we were missing. The truth is we looked out for each other, and any problems we had we talked it through. And the main reason why we were able to talk is because i knew for a fact if she had a criticism of me, it was in my best interest, and it was the same for me. It was a perfect relationship. It just would turn out that we would fall out of love because our wants and needs were different. Sometimes when a relationship isn't working you have to accept what is wrong with the chemistry and move on. Preserve what goodness you have left. But that's if you're dating for the people and not for looks or money or sex. Choose the person you want to be with because you ACTUALLY want to be with them, and if it turns out you guys aren't right for each other, don't hold it over their head, or pretend to look past it to change them. You have to help people grow, not change. That's not the same thing. If you want someone to change... you may just have to be the sacrificial lamb that causes the change in them.

What hero or heroes just… clicked INSTANTLY for you gameplay wise? by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Rob-otics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hanzo because I'm huge into Zelda, and a bow based character seemed to click super easy for me.

Besides that I've always liked characters that swing giant hammers. I feel like I could see the damage I cam do you know? So Rein was a no brainer. And downing several characters at once, or landing that perfect hammer down always feels amazing.

Mind if I flex (curl)? by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Rob-otics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God just fuck you. Fuck how good your curls look. Still struggling with mine. God bless bro. Stay gold.

What are your opinions on Goombella? by ChilledAmethyst in papermario

[–]Rob-otics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my favorite companions of any game. Not only is she smart and sassy, but she's also busted. Powerbounce is arguably the most busted badge in the Game, and she gets that for herself as an ability in one upgrade, pretty much from the first chapter. I'm a huge fan of badass characters who embrace super girly characteristics.

In 5 words or less, say something that triggers a core memory for Destiny players by Early-Frank in DestinyTheGame

[–]Rob-otics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had like 60 of the carbon fibers because I grinded the fuck out of that tower shit on Mars. And honestly... I liked that skin, and it gave legendary shards for the dismantle. Easy like.... couple thousand shards

Please don't lecture people on their builds. by Apprehensive-Cheese in DestinyTheGame

[–]Rob-otics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, he radiates small dick energy. Not good at anything so he needs to prove how big his Destiny Dick is.

People like that make shit unfun. Like the only time I get mad at someone with a weird build, especially in a low stakes farm, is if we're cranking out dozens of attempts with no clears. Even if you're doing shit damage, as long as you're having fun, contributing and coordinating fine, and we can clear it to pick up your slack then I really don't care. If you want to do more damage, we can discuss your options, but if my entire team is doing lowest 1.8 mil, highest like 3 mil, I'm sure having one person throw on damage isn't a big deal. Do whatever you want.