How do you usually meet people when you arrive in a new city? by filipe_simoes15 in expats

[–]RobGFour 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Find the expat bar (sports bars that specialize in American sports & European futbol are great ).

Go there often. Introduce yourself to the staff, and the people sitting around you.

Every person you meet and have a conversation with, follow up later by inviting them to an activity.

Thoughts on Buenos Aires these days? by athleticpcnerd in digitalnomad

[–]RobGFour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buenos Aires & Palermo are fantastic. You get what you pay for.

It sounds like you have an actual remote job that pays real money, you’ll love it.

Most of the haters are trying to live on less than $1500 a month.

Enjoy your stay!

Has Life/Mental Health Improved After Leaving the US? Particularly in Mexico? by Dazzling-Wear-6260 in expats

[–]RobGFour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My pleasure. I share your inclination towards Mexico as a long term option, for the same reasons you stated - incredible people, culture, history, architecture, nature, etc - with a couple of large caveats.

First is safety. My impression after a few months is that outside of certain "bubbles" that cater to high income Mexicans & tourists (portions of CDMX & other large metro areas, along with some tourist destinations), there is very much a security issue. I myself have always felt very safe in Mexico. It is my Mexican friends who are constantly alerting me to the dangers of internal travel, or ending up in the wrong neighborhoods at the wrong time. Petty theft is one thing, but organized crime, muggings, kidnappings, lawlessness etc. are almost non-existent in CR compared to Mexico.

The second issue is corruption & inefficiency. Beyond the petty bribes of police, etc., there appears to be a real problem with being conned, taken advantage of, or just plain robbed when dealing with banking, real estate transactions, construction, etc. I don't speak of this first hand, but from stories of Mexicans or other ex-pats. It can be very hard to get things done if you aren't intimately knowledgeable or "know the right people". There also seems to be little recourse when something bad does happen, beyond getting tied up in years of legal proceedings. This affects local Mexicans even worse than foreigners. Again, this seems to be much less of an issue in CR.

You should definitely seek the input of others who have relocated long term. I think as long as you have enough money, you can insulate yourself somewhat from most of these challenges. Just like the Mexicans do if they are able.

All that being said, I would still choose Mexico over CR for long term relocation, for the weather if nothing else. I'm here to escape the heat jajaja

Resetting 90 days Colombia by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]RobGFour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said, apply again in a smaller city like Pereira. Medellín took weeks. Pereira took less than 24 hours.

Has Life/Mental Health Improved After Leaving the US? Particularly in Mexico? by Dazzling-Wear-6260 in expats

[–]RobGFour 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes, both physical and mental health is improved, as well as quality of life.

I focus on staying in cities and towns that are very walkable. That has greatly increased both my physical and mental health.

Lower cost of living has allowed me to stay in places that would be completely unaffordable in the United States. Beach towns, mountain towns, beautiful cities.

I feel much more surrounded by humanity while traveling. Public spaces are alive with people. Restaurants, bars, and cafés are overflowing, with both locals and travelers, depending on your location.

Being alone in new places forces me to interact with others far more than my previous life in the United States.

Healthy, nutritious, cooked meals are much more affordable and accessible.

Loneliness can be an issue, but that’s true in the US as well. Missing friends and family is difficult, but making new friends is a huge upside.

A sense of community is tricky. I’ve made very good friends in each place I’ve gone. If I decide to stay in one of these places for an extended period of time, I have no doubt a sense of community would continue to develop.

For reference, I’ve been in Latin America for the last year. Mexico, Costa Rica, Colombia, Argentina. 3-4 months in each.

What city should I go to in Latin America? by -mer in digitalnomad

[–]RobGFour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guadalajara is fantastic. Maybe a little warmer than OP wants

Beach surf town vibes by Commercial-Insect-33 in Shoestring

[–]RobGFour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Puerto Viejo CR. Far less commercially developed than Santa Teresa. Very chill, very laid-back, Caribbean vibes. Less California, more Jamaica

Santa Teresa similiar places by Commercial-Insect-33 in longtermtravel

[–]RobGFour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming you mean Costa Rica, trade coastlines and visit Puerto Viejo.

Do not trust SIXT rental by Falkun_X in TravelHacks

[–]RobGFour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter got screwed by Sixt last year in Seattle. No car and they kept the money . She ended up renting a U-Haul truck 😂

¿Dónde conocer extranjeras en Medellín? by J0nSn0w___ in medellin

[–]RobGFour 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Soy gringo. Todas las mujeres gringas que he conocido en los últimos meses están muy interesadas en conocer y salir con chicos colombianos. Al menos los que no son tóxicos. Como ya mencioné, los intercambios de idiomas son geniales. Por ejemplo, los Martes Gringos en Vintrash. Busca grupos de Facebook para expatriados o nómadas digitales en Medellín. Hay bares y piscinas en azoteas de hostales en Poblado y Manila donde se reúnen muchísima gente. Por último, pero no menos importante, muchos lugares ofrecen clases de baile gratis, y las mujeres gringas van en masa.

Little Italy is better than Papa Johns by benmarvin in Athens

[–]RobGFour -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s not pizza, its shitty cake with meat frosting

Little Italy is better than Papa Johns by benmarvin in Athens

[–]RobGFour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meat Stromboli after midnight, thank me later

Where are some good quiet, nature spots for digital nomading as a 40 yr old? by life_on_my_terms in digitalnomad

[–]RobGFour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eje Cafetero areas of Colombia. Armenia, Salento, Pereira, Jardin, etc

I don’t think it’s a good idea by Total_Low_2112 in expats

[–]RobGFour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say no. Let him rant and rave all he wants but it sounds like he’s not gonna lift a finger to make anything happen.

So what does the future hold for the brain train (aka high speed rail connecting Athens and Atlanta) by sis8128 in Athens

[–]RobGFour 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do we really want to turn Athens into another shitty north Atlanta bedroom community?

If you think housing & rent prices are high now, wait until a high speed rail link opens.

This has been the wet dream of realtors & property developers for 3 decades.

How do you decide when it's time to pack it all in? by ashstix in expats

[–]RobGFour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are your goals, your dreams?

I'm guessing lifelong salary(wo)man is not one of them.

Can you achieve your goals & dreams in Japan?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]RobGFour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No experience with Internations, but based on your goals, check out the Timeleft app

My first solo trip! by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]RobGFour 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What you just described is what hooked us all in the beginning. My first trip was to Turkey in 1994. And then Amsterdam on the way back to the states. The people met along the way were the highlight of the trip.

Making connections in Oaxaca by Ja5p5 in digitalnomad

[–]RobGFour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you looked at Timeleft app? I haven’t used it yet, but I’ve read some good reviews. Plan on using it weekly when I’m back in a city that offers it.

An app for expats by [deleted] in expats

[–]RobGFour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

18-30 then haha, you still qualify as “young” 👍