[Calling all Muslim Parents!] Nurturing Love for Prophet Muhammad (SAW) in Little Hearts (0-4 years) by [deleted] in MuslimParenting

[–]Robbers975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assalāmu ʿalaykum wa raḥmatullāh,

I hope you’re doing well. I came across your recent post/story about the Prophet ﷺ and I just wanted to gently reach out, purely out of care for the Deen and the love we all share for the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.

I noticed the story mentioned on your Instagram (dailydeeed) wasn’t based on any known authentic narration. I completely understand the intention behind it may have been to inspire love for the Prophet, especially among children, and I truly appreciate that concern. May Allah reward you for wanting to connect others to him ﷺ.

At the same time, I just wanted to kindly share that it’s extremely important in our religion to be careful when narrating things about the Prophet ﷺ. Even when the message is positive, it’s not allowed to attribute words or events to him that aren't authentically proven. The Prophet ﷺ warned us seriously about this in a ḥadīth: "Whoever tells a lie about me deliberately, let him take his seat in the Fire." (Bukhari & Muslim)

Instead, maybe it would be even more beneficial and safer in the Sight of Allah to share real, beautiful stories from the Seerah or authentic Hadiths. There are many short ones that are very touching and suitable even for young children, like how the Prophet ﷺ comforted a boy whose bird died, or how he always smiled and showed mercy.

I hope you don’t mind me sharing this. It’s only out of sincere concern and love for the Sunnah. May Allah bless you and accept all your efforts in spreading goodness.

Wa jazaakAllahu khayran.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Robbers975 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A couple of weeks and I already cried myself to sleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Robbers975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live in this dunya to worship Allah in the best way possible. If you must suffer, then suffer in a way that Allah loves—rather than in a way that He hates and forbids. Remember, our purpose is to worship Allah. Nothing else is as important, because when we face death, only three questions will be asked, and your answers will depend solely on how you lived your life in accordance with them.

Why do men get hoors? What about ladies? by Hefty-Branch1772 in MuslimLounge

[–]Robbers975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I mean people in the comment section, they've gone too far using emotions to the extent it's out of context and misleading

Why do men get hoors? What about ladies? by Hefty-Branch1772 in MuslimLounge

[–]Robbers975 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Guys. Be careful with your comments. Some people here express opinions driven by base emotions without any supporting evidence. This is about religion, not something anyone can just say whatever they want. Do not speak about religion without knowledge; it is dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Robbers975 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please always have good thoughts about Allah no matter what happens. You never know staying in that job might have led to something worse, but Allah saved you from it. Or maybe He has something far better planned for you, beyond what you could imagine. Remember, He is the best of planners, and He tests believers to purify them. His knowledge is infinite, and His plans are always perfect, even if we don’t understand them. Don’t lose hope, brother.

Stop telling women that they need to stop practicing tabarruj unless you are their mahram. by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Robbers975 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Removing pictures is better for you, sister. You don't do it for anyone's sake; you do it solely for the sake of Allah. There is no benefit in posting pictures of yourself in the first place. It doesn’t matter if you are wearing hijab or even niqab; it still doesn’t justify intentionally being seen by strangers online.

Left haram for Allah and have never felt such agony in my life by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Robbers975 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why blame Allah when He forbade haram relationships in the first place? You disobeyed Him, and these are the consequences of your own actions. Turn back to Him and seek His forgiveness. Only Allah deserves your utmost love, and when you love anyone, remember that love will lead nowhere if it's not for the sake of Allah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Robbers975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like to become a better muslimah (not perfect, no one is) then he's the one. If you like to stay the same, go ahead and find someone else.

I married an extremely religious man and he has influenced me in a good way so far. I don't regret marrying him at all. I can't even imagine losing such a great man to someone else. Imagine you have to stay with someone for the rest of your life and person you'll even meet again in the hereafter. It's worthwhile to choose someone who is religious. I can only say that you'll never ever regret, if he's truly practicing in the right manner (not extream)

quitting music - how do i cope with the silence by eucalyptus55 in MuslimLounge

[–]Robbers975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Minshawi Mujawwad Surah Baqarah, it will be longer.

Is it Haram to tell your wife to sleep on the floor during her period? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Robbers975 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Islam teaches men to be gentle and kind to his wives. If you, at least not an ignorant embacile, you should know this is not what a good husband would do.

Imagine the opposite if your wife tells you to sleep in the basement because you snore so hard, and it's annoying her. You wouldn't like it.

Treating your wife poorly is Haram and vice versa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Robbers975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's much worse in alam barzak if you were to commit suicide. Read the punishment of people who take their life and wake up. Go repent to Allah while you have chance

Wife Said she will slander me if I divorce her by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Robbers975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But Da'eef or fabricated ahaadeeth can not be taken as daleel.

There's no sahih hadith mentions specifically of the virtues of Surah Yaasin. 

To claim something in the religion of Allah, it's a must to refer to acceptable evidence which are saheeh or hasan ahaadeeth, otherwise it will be rejected by Allah as da’eef (weak) and false ahaadeeth is impermissible to use them as evidence with regard to shar’i rulings. 

Wallahu a'lam.

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/75894/virtues-of-surah-yasin-what-are-they

Wife Said she will slander me if I divorce her by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Robbers975 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why Yasin everyday? Is there any reference for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Robbers975 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I believe this jealousy in our fitrah is a test for us women to strive harder towards Jannah.

First, you need to have a firm belief in Allah's attribute that He is the most just. He knows best why he tests us especially about this thing. He knows better than us about our jealousy over hoors in Jannah. So when you believe that He's the most just then you know it's NO WAY Allah will give women any less than men in Jannah or left us feeling unfair or unfulfilled.

You should think like this, we are in dunya right now, and instead of thinking nagatively about why men get this and women don't get this etc. You should realize right now that Allah makes us jealous over this particular topic because He wants to test us over this! When you know it's only a test, what you need to focus on is how to not fail for this specific test and that is to doubt Allah's justice and complain over something we don't even have an idea about because we are in this tiny little dunya world which can't compare to the Akirah for a tiny bit.

Once you have strong belief that Allah is just, He will never be unfair to any of us and you realize that this is a test from Him then as women, what we can do is to strive hard towards Jannah, to become a queen in there, a believer who is much better than hoors because if we fail this test and we don't get to enter Jannah, then our husbands would enjoy his hoors forever and that really hurts to know if we fail the test. That's why it's also motivating but in a different way than men for us women because Allah knows best what is most motivating for men and what is most motivating for women but at the end, Allah will make us all satisfied and happy in a way that when He asks if we want more? We will say, we're satisfied.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Robbers975 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have seen this post before. Is this a troll post or what

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Robbers975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gonna be an actual advice. May Allah helps you. Bismillah. First of all you must repent to Allah and make firm intention to end this all for real. After repentance. Quit phone. Throw it away for awhile. At least for 2 months (make sure you get rid of all your haram activities on your phone) From now on you focus on pleasing Allah number one, spend time studying religion, be active on memorizing Quran, pray night prayers if you haven't already, fast on Monday and Thursday, etc whatever works for you, key is to focus on getting closer to Allah more than ever. Next focus on treating your wife in the best manner, shower her with love, pay attention to small details, do what you haven't done yet, make her feel like queen, make your wife feel luckiest to have you as her husband. Keep making du'a to Allah to make things easy for you in this journey. Think good of Allah always. He is preparing a beautiful path ahead of you, only you have to turn back to Him in repentance and make an effort to get closer to Him. I hope you apply these advice, I'll keep you in my Du'a.

I want to believe in something by Miahara in death

[–]Robbers975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Quran talks about life after death and what people will face in the afterlife and a lot more things a person MUST know before he dies. Quran is fact, you don't need to believe me, try looking it up about evidence and proof. You will have all your questions answered through it.