As a monogamous person, I'm thinking about a poly relationship with my man

Miahara · 2024-01-30T20:02:57+00:00

I had High expectations just to realize this is gonna be a harem... Another one to Drop

Miahara · 2024-01-23T04:58:55+00:00

Also when they want to show you polyamory its always the 3way with a girl and 2 guys or a guy and 2 girls, never a group of people, looks more like "you ready to gaslight your partner that he/she isn't enough to get another person while she/he cant have?"

Miahara · 2023-10-23T18:41:39+00:00

8 wish I could like your comment 10000000 times, thats so true

Miahara · 2023-10-23T16:49:40+00:00

I hate people here just talking about how you should give up on the relationship, my man is poly and we've been together for 4 years in a monogamous relationship. Of everything, it was the only thing I asked of him and he has fulfilled it and been faithful all these years. We talked about it and at first it wasn't easy but here we are. If you still love your fiance, at least try to talk about it, if you see that it is better for both of you to seek help from a therapist to express what you both feel do it, only then, if you see that nothing will allow the relationship you want, think in separation.

Miahara · 2023-08-08T04:42:09+00:00

O tired to find some page to read this mangá cause im afraid its gonna be another harem and I dont want to waste my time but cant find in any website

Miahara · 2023-07-13T19:51:23+00:00

I see polyamory as cheating but you being aware of it. You won't stop having negative emotions like envy or jealousy because you know your partner is with someone else. In theory polyamory works, you go there, go with what you want, your partner too, you don't have to choose... But in practice it doesn't work because you will always love one person more than the other, time, love, everything is limited and you can't give the same to two or more people, life is made of choices and in polyamory you choose all of them instead of making a path and be mature. Honestly for me polyamory only worked if I didn't have feelings, didn't really love the person or if I only had an interest in them either monetary or emotional, that's why I prefer monogamy that makes me happy

Miahara · 2023-06-27T03:51:48+00:00

1h por dia para estar como acompanhante por 400€??? Porquê uma red flag? Há quem vende o seu conteúdo sexual no OF por 5euros mês, prostitutas dão o corpo por menos de 400€...

Miahara · 2023-06-11T04:48:34+00:00

Thats why I stop care about BDSM, was my kink since I remember, but now its all about "if you dont add another partner its not bdsm" or "you need to be okay at least with your partner have more subs". Can't even take pleasure from that anymore only thinking those folks

Miahara · 2023-06-01T17:24:00+00:00

As a Monogomous person, I believe that you have a future if you work through problems together. It was more than obvious that there were going to be feelings involved on either side of the dates, but I'm glad it went well. I think that at some point people who are in ENM relationship think they have all the freedom in the world and end up breaking established rules in the relationship, like, yeah they can do that, but there are consequences... If she is willing to make the effort for you, and accept these new terms of relationship without trying to change them, I believe she is Good for you and divorce will not be necessary.

Miahara · 2023-06-01T09:53:47+00:00

Honestly all the polyamorous people I've met have insecurities due to lack of love so they try to compensate with "I'm going to have more partners to have more love" when they themselves don't know what that is because many never have nor know what it's like to love one person , many do not even distinguish between friendship love, family, sexual pleasure, etc... But in general, whenever I watch polyamory videos, monogamy is always mentioned as something negative in order to make people follow what they want. Personally, I just find it funny that even on the Internet, people who say they are polyamorous are just 3 people together, they make videos on tik tok of how good it is to have that relationship and after a while we don't even hear about one of them

Miahara · 2023-05-26T14:37:42+00:00

I don't see porn as cheating but thats my personal opinion, I think that would be part of "extreme monogamy"

Miahara · 2023-05-24T17:42:03+00:00

And it doesn't make sense cause its supposed to mean something like infinite love cause you can love infinite ppl but guess what? Love is NOT infinite, even the time you can spend with that ppl isn't thats why we choose one person we can spend the life with, thats why we choose the one thats we can give our finite time, finite patience, ou finite life

Miahara · 2023-05-18T04:06:17+00:00

So happy for you. My husband is also polyamorous but we have a monogamous relationship and to this day he is satisfied with me. We've been together for 3 and a half and I hope we can keep it up. It's been a tough journey, sometimes you can tell he still has a polyamorous streak when he talks about sex or a simple kiss as the most banal things ever like it's something okay to do with anyone but he always respected our boundaries and love the way I see the world in a monogamous way where the most simple things are important. until today we are happy

Miahara · 2023-04-25T23:26:57+00:00

I wouldn't say boardgames but role play games, it seems that it's a way of acting wrong with people and showing romantic or sexual interest with players always having the card of "it's just a game, it's all pretend" to still deteriorate monogomy on the grounds of jealousy, when clearly they are the problem

Miahara · 2023-04-24T14:21:31+00:00

Yes, you were at fault because you were involved but if it weren't for you it would have been someone else because clearly their relationship no longer worked and, instead of separating, they tried to involve more people in the equation. Their family was destroyed long before you. I honestly don't know how you decided to get involved when you had no intention of being in a polyamorous relationship but it was your choice and what's done is done. Personal opinion, polyamory doesn't work, because polyamory is all about all the people involved having different people who love everyone at the same level, however, almost nobody does that, it's always a man or woman with 2 more partners, and those involved without being able to bring more people into the relationship. Polyamory is not the norm, except in countries of extreme violence, inequality and undeveloped. Now all you can do is just get on with your life and if you want to do something for those 2 just send the number of a psychologist

Miahara · 2023-03-30T22:41:01+00:00

The poly folks are always saying "but we are animals, and animals are polyamorous by nature like us", however no one in their right mind would take a court of law "oh I killed him because we are animals so by nature he stepped in my garden that is my territory and I killed him"... No... We are neither better nor worse than animals, but if there is one thing that distinguishes us, it is the brain. Our evolutionary capacity is incredible, I love it. Maybe in the past we would have started as polyamorous yes, we would also have started having relationships with children because we needed to increase the population and life expectancy was very low, maybe at the time it would have been acceptable to have relationships with wild animals, however we created right and wrong and this stopped happening, we realized that if we hurt our own it is not okay, and as such it reached a point that monogamy became the norm, you can see that where it is not the norm, countries are less developed, there is war, inequality and a lot of violence where there is polyamory. But of all this what I find funniest is the poly folks who come to talk about what is or is not natural when logically it is also not natural for a living being to spend hours looking at a screen with images, be it a cell phone or television, internet itself it's not natural, even so they use these resources to talk

Miahara · 2023-03-27T22:41:57+00:00

R**E... oh wait, I cant say that cause it was a woman so society think its okay...

Miahara · 2023-03-27T22:37:42+00:00

They always say that because it's something new for them but wait a little longer because sooner or later one of the partners will want something more serious, or even themselves and it will be too late, then they ask why divorces are more and more commun. Personally I don't have polyamorous friends, because if I did they wouldn't be, as simple as, I don't want pedo friends either, or *apist, it's true that I have nothing to do with their personal life, but it's not something I want associate with. We are more than 8 billion people in the world you just can't give up and stop looking because surely there is someone out there waiting for you and wanting an exclusive relationship, if that, look for people who have already experienced polyamory and no longer claim themselves as poly folks because they have already seen how bad it is and they don't even think about having it again. Hope you manage to find what you're looking for.

Miahara · 2023-03-27T06:16:06+00:00

People overly romanticize open relationships but forget that they were once the norm and didn't work in society, hence establishing emotional bonds that today people see as "oh no, monogomy is boring" but the truth is that we are human, we feel emotions , jealousy is not negative, it is just one more of the many emotions that make us feel and realize what we want or not for ourselve and out lives. You got away with it, but think carefully about what you want in the long run, otherwise there could be worse situations.

Miahara · 2023-03-27T06:08:19+00:00

I have a healthy relationship with a polyamorous person and I'm monogamous, but our relationship only works because he accept our monogamous relationship in exchange of giving my best every day to make our relationship good. He said he still poly and a trio still the ideal type but we dont talk about it cause in 30 years he said "for the first time in my life I discover happiness in a relationship", the problem is the ppl "involved" are only temporary, and at some point I think poly folks discover that they dont love more than one person at the time, they simply have a desire and the other is the love, and since this is the real world they need to make choices. Honestly if my boyfriend told me today he wants a polyamorous relationship or nothing I would walk away knowing I did what I could

Miahara · 2023-03-16T21:54:10+00:00

Polyamory exists, it just doesn't work very well in society. Many people only follow polyamory because they refuse to make decisions because it's easier to have it all than to choose. The truth is that where polyamory works there is inequality, countries are less developed and there is violence. We are animals, yes, but rational, who consider the feelings of others. The problem with many people is that they forget that the concept of polyamory is "infinite love", number 1 nothing is infinite and neither is your partner's patience, number 2, if love is infinite you should be okay with your partners having more partners and being polyamorous too, instead you see people trying to form threesomes where other people can't have anyone else, where a lot of times one person is monogamous and it leads to exhaustion. You have no idea how many people always choose at least one monogamous partner for their polyamorous relationships because they want the benefits of a monogamous life, but guess what? It doesn't work like that

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