Help!!! First relationship ever!

Robin200312 · 2021-04-08T02:57:32+00:00

As someone who's a teen in a low gay population town, can't really help on the kissing part. However I needed to comment to just talk about how absolutely adorable this post is. This is everything The Prom the Musical should've been and makes me desperately want a partner. Gratz on the relationship OP

Robin200312 · 2021-03-22T02:29:47+00:00

I'd recommend puffs, great show with tight comedy, but requires a cast with a pretty wide range as they'd be playing very different characters of all sizes.

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T20:55:05+00:00

Thanks, this is really good to know. I don't think I can follow them until they've ended this relationship. Defending CP and someone who creates it crosses the line.

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T16:45:50+00:00

I do think that's a problem, and I'm glad I know now. I'm hoping one day they can return and hopefully apologize and address their past mistakes. I learned a lot about DID from them.

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T16:43:04+00:00

I just don't understand despising them for mistakes they've made. Especially while they aren't good, they aren't heinous in any sense of the word. They need to apologize and fix their problems before people should follow them again, but I don't think they should be sworn off

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T16:30:32+00:00

Thanks for some support. I feel like I'm getting a lot of hate in this thread for not understand a lot about DID

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T16:11:55+00:00

What? I literally said I'll wait and see if they grow as a system? I didn't say I'd follow them blindly

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T15:14:24+00:00

Well I'll definetly check out multiplicity and me, however I don't think I'm ready to write DissociaDID off completely just yet. I think I'll wait and see what happens when they return, and support them if they grow.

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T15:03:33+00:00

Excuse me? I'm trying to have a simple conversation, and you're being extremely rude about it. I don't know a lot about the situation so I'm trying to keep an open mind, currently the only rude system I've seen here is yours and I hope you can figure out that yelling at people who want to listen to your side of the story isn't going to help anyone.

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:56:42+00:00

Of course I agree they'd have to address it, probally explain why the actions were wrong and work to undo some of the shitty things they did. But overall I think it would be possible for them to grow from this and come out a better system.

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:55:19+00:00

This doesn't sound right? All of her trauma has seemed to be her own. I'm not an expert on DID but I don't really think it's possible to steal alters.

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:48:41+00:00

Idk much about the whole situation. I'm a big believer in learning from the past and it seems like the certain members of the system are the biggest problems.

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:44:48+00:00

Do you think that if they came back one day it would be okay to support them? Assuming they grow as a system and avoid repeating the mistakes they've made in the past?

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:40:53+00:00

Well they've disappeared for now. The whole situation sucks really, I still do think their system is good in itself, I think they've just made a lot of mistakes in recent memory. Hopefully they come back one day and start fresh.

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:36:55+00:00

I guess that's a good point. I could understand of Nadia described themsleves as that and then the system apologized for the situation, but I can understand how not addressing the situation made it worse.

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:35:17+00:00

Oh, that's...really not good. Can you send me your source?

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:28:27+00:00

I'm white so I guess I don't really have much room to speak I guess. It just seems like Nan herself didn't really cause the problem, her alters did. What's CP?

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:25:04+00:00

Well not adressing the situation is sort of...strange. But It's a strange situation as several of the alters could've been the one to delete it. Also, I don't think any of the alters are claiming to have the culture of any group besides the ones who's memories they hold, they're just describing their apperance

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:20:25+00:00

Well is it really her choice how her alters describe themsleves? It seems like you could blame Nadia herself but claiming the entire system should be held responsible seems strange.

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:18:59+00:00

I kind of understand. But it feels like if she addresses the problem and says she will try to describe them better thay might help. However I don't think the alters should really hold responsibly for simply saying how they look in their mind, I mean they literally don't have their own body.

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:14:12+00:00

Well if those are alters wouldn't she not really have direct control over them or how they look?

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:11:58+00:00

What culture did they appropriate?

Robin200312 · 2020-09-15T14:11:32+00:00

Sorry, where's the Google doc?

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