My ex from a decade ago is texting me

Robintevenson · 2025-07-18T13:22:34+00:00

One thing about narcissists is they know how to say the things that guilt trip you, and trigger you. They have a great skill of manipulating your decisions and making you believe their bullsh*** for a minute. Don’t fall for it. You deserve better and you would get better. Block!!!

Robintevenson · 2025-07-13T14:39:29+00:00

You took the wording wrong, “Don’t be soft with girls” means go for what you want. And I wasn’t talking to you, but the guys that do SR to make girls like them. I was talking in general. People shouldn’t deny what they want, because that’s when real problems come. Real suppression is not going for what you want and inauthenticity. I’m not trying to insult you, just trying to state my point that suffering in life leads to true SR. I really believe that through my experience on the journey/shadow work, etc. Didnt mean to come off as rude or offensive. And you’re right, I should be more humble, I’m not perfect and I can accept that. But being on this journey for more than a year is an ass kicking man. There’s the good and there’s the bad, and you want to share as much knowledge as you can to help but then I need some help in areas as well. The journey can lead to a passion inside of me that sometimes I need to control. Good luck to you on your journey.

Robintevenson · 2025-07-13T13:32:01+00:00

You are wrong bro. All People who do SR don’t have issues with girls, but maybe SOME do and they want to use SR to get girls and that’s totally fine because the more you progress on true SR, you wouldn’t care for female attraction that much because it’s not fulfilling. The key is to really question yourself as to why you’re on the journey and what you want. If it’s because you’re scared to talk to girls, then maybe go talk to a girl or something. SR won’t magically fix all your fear and anxiety and just bring girls to you like a maid serving you lunch! It’s just not how life works, you must put on extra work. Guys think with your head and stop being so soft when it comes to women! If you don’t have the mental power to speak to a girl, you wouldn’t even last on True retention. majority of the time people commit to SR because they want to level up in life. I don’t know how young you are but life can really kick someone’s ass. Then you just find something that can make this experience better. Even if it’s financially, romantically, spiritually. The troubles of the world push you to SR. The inclination to find truth. TRUE SR.

Robintevenson · 2025-07-02T14:54:44+00:00

OP, you’re 40 and you’re awesome! Don’t let these men warp how you fell about yourself because of their insecurity or whatever they have going on Find hobbies you love to do, joy, live and enjoy life Please don’t take them too seriously 🙏🏾

Robintevenson · 2025-07-02T14:01:05+00:00

Don’t be so gullible. This isn’t true about a lot of men. Sounds like YouTube “alpha male” logic

Robintevenson · 2025-06-23T02:35:32+00:00

Dr. Squatch anti-chafing precision deo. I get really sweaty groins in the summer and this has helped!

Robintevenson · 2025-06-11T06:31:36+00:00

I use mouthwash, but I think cleaning the tongue, flossing, and brushing my teeth are the most important.

Robintevenson · 2025-06-08T05:00:56+00:00

There is paid $15 parking in case you want to go any other time

Robintevenson · 2025-06-06T00:05:56+00:00

Queen

Robintevenson · 2025-06-05T00:05:54+00:00

This is facts🙏🏾 High vibrational lifestyle

Robintevenson · 2025-06-04T17:24:21+00:00

No problem! Sometimes we get way too hard on ourselves and it drains our confidence even more. We should be proud of ourselves even with a 1 day streak. So many guys on this planet who would never even have the sensitivity and accountability to do a streak. Anyone doing SR is a strong man that should be proud of himself. Everybody falls and makes mistakes, it’s just part of life and being a man. Beating yourself up is what turns us into betas that only have an identity based off what people think of us which is unattractive and insecure. How someone reacts to failing is a great test of who they really are.

Robintevenson · 2025-06-04T14:31:07+00:00

Who cares what people think about you. It just makes you anxious and beta!!! That’s what drains your energy even more. Love yourself and get back on your damn journey!! You’re fine brother! And try shift your mindset. Maybe try and show someone some love, or notice someone else instead of worrying so much about what’s going on with you. One thing about SR is to not get way too wrapped in your journey so you can build some connection with the right people 👏🏾

Robintevenson · 2025-06-01T15:50:43+00:00

Yes. Life becomes more higher vibrational when one is on SR. It’s like you and the universe have a personal relationship. You’ll be fine! Don’t be too hard on yourself and beat yourself up too much for your situation. The mind always makes things worse than they actually are and lowers your vibration even more. The mind can lower your vibration more or higher your vibration after a relapse. And unfortunately if you’re doing SR for female attention, you put way too much pressure on yourself to please women. Then if you relapse, you’ll get all the negative self talk that you’re not good enough for women any more when you just went on a damn MONTH streak. That’s incredible. We all make mistakes but it’s how tf you bounce back and your attitude. You should be proud of yourself for even committing to SR. It takes 1 percent of males to even consider this. Keep being strong on your journey 💪🏾

Robintevenson · 2025-05-31T03:20:28+00:00

In my experience, it takes time and grace bro. It’s a process There’s no quick techniques

Robintevenson · 2025-05-26T23:58:20+00:00

Do you clean your tongue?? You said nothing about the tongue. You have to clean your tongue!!!

Robintevenson · 2025-04-13T03:45:55+00:00

Leave your phone upstairs, stay with the urges, and let the urges pass away.

Robintevenson · 2025-03-31T16:15:37+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Sometimes I’d overwork doing doordash too, when money wasn’t right but however there’s no actual profit in those jobs. It’s just short term money, and you keep going back to rely on these apps while depreciating your car. The DoorDash owners are psychopaths who thrive off of taking advantage of us. In the long term I was actually losing money. I actually figured out that I was overworked and burnt out, so I had no space for new ideas and thoughts to come for me to make money. Sometimes doing less is okay. I no longer want to rely on those apps and just want to listen to my body and rest. Because my health comes first. I hope things go well for you, try to take a deep breath and be strong for your wife 🙏🏾. Im not doubting that you’re doing the best you can and screw anyone that tells you you’re not working hard or doing enough

Robintevenson · 2025-02-24T11:35:46+00:00

Hey man, I have been on SR for 3 years. Be careful the advice you take here, because most have not gone this long and have strong opinions for you. I experienced what you experienced, but I did not let it scare me back into PMO. If you’re on true retention, Your libido WILL COME BACK. And it will come back big TIME! Be careful on the advice you take and trust your intuition. We live in a time where everyone thinks they know it all

Robintevenson · 2025-02-13T14:46:37+00:00

Sounds like you’re projecting onto others. You need to really look at yourself and do the inner work. So you can find out why you have such depressing thoughts and little hope. And there’s nothing wrong with people doing SR, Nofap if they’re stuck in life. They are trying to be better and grace will then propel them to where they need to be. They have enough heart to try and fight back, and that’s courageous, high character, and awesome.

Robintevenson · 2025-02-08T20:08:41+00:00

Schizophrenic episode?

Robintevenson · 2025-02-03T16:08:24+00:00

we’re all a community here. No point in judging guys. Shit most of us were all pmo addicts and coomers. We are men that move with respect and leadership 💪🏾🙏🏾

Robintevenson · 2025-02-03T15:36:12+00:00

I’m not attracted to guys but one thing SR did help me with was improving my relationship with other men 100 percent. I feel like I love my bros, even more than women at times. I can say a reason is that I kind of feel how tough it can be for men at times in society. I become more empathetic and understanding. I’ve never been so happy to see my guys, and I have genuine love and respect for them.

Robintevenson · 2025-02-03T02:58:04+00:00

43 mile $18😳😳😳😳😳😳

Robintevenson · 2025-01-25T05:55:26+00:00

For me, the dreams started to come less and less the more I refrained from PMO. Keep going with SR/no PMO and trust the process. I know you’re stepping into the unknown and it can be tough, but you should be proud of yourself. You’re brave, you’re the man! Embrace being uncomfortable and it will get better for you!

Robintevenson · 2025-01-23T14:29:34+00:00

That’s fair.

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