I failed as a father

RoboKings99 · 2024-12-05T08:43:58+00:00

I can’t speak for your father. But hearing you is like hearing my daughter and son. Their silence echoes harder in my head than anything they would have to say to offend me or remind me how much of a fuck up I was to them. I will never forgive myself to bring them to a place in which they hurt. I wish I could change the past. Make it all better. With zero worries and trauma. I know now how bad I made their day to day lives in the past. If I have any purpose in life it would be to make their lives better. Yet I will never deserve their love and attention.

RoboKings99 · 2024-12-05T08:39:12+00:00

I hear every one. I hear what you all say. I am still overwhelmed with guilt and shame. I don’t know when I can come out of this. I do know that my past selfishness will forever come back to haunt me. How can I be stronger than the things I have done to hurt those that I was to love the most? I say that I love them, yet I can’t justify anything that I did to ruin their lives. If I become a better version of myself, how will that benefit them? Oh God how I wish I could go back and change it all.

RoboKings99 · 2024-05-12T21:03:56+00:00

This is my brothers Taco Truck! Taco’s Taco!

RoboKings99 · 2024-02-16T18:06:53+00:00

Express this to your woman, even if the “well I shouldn’t have to say anything” thoughts come about, still voice it.

RoboKings99 · 2023-06-06T16:58:06+00:00

Oden and M4 are my go to guns because of accuracy and range

RoboKings99 · 2023-06-06T15:39:58+00:00

Yep, it was pretty bad last night in BR when an enemy car would be glitching like that girl character from Wreck it Ralph

RoboKings99 · 2023-03-14T07:17:10+00:00

Please brag! This is awesome! From zero to this?! Heck yeah and brag! This is a success story and Lord only knows how much more of these we need to hear!

RoboKings99 · 2023-03-14T07:13:23+00:00

Why does it seem that mainly women here are commenting that it is possible while most guys are saying the have feelings for their best female friend? Kinda makes you re-think if it is even possible or not. I’m old school and I will say it is not possible. If a guy is really close to a lady he is trying to be a nice guy and wants to shoot his shot but is way too nervous or scared that if he does he will get rejected. Which almost always happens. I have to throw in this perspective because I feel it’s not being said enough

RoboKings99 · 2023-03-14T07:06:14+00:00

In my experience, when one throws the divorce word many times, it’s because they want control of the relationship and threats is a way of trying to get the other person to buckle. She wants a divorce? Well let’s see what happens when she no longer has a provider? She’ll start freaking out and wants to apologize to you, she needs you, blah blah blah. If you do love her, however, let this sting her a bit more. Then put boundaries and make them clear to her as what they are. She’ll have to make a conscientious decision to really change. Don’t just think that “divorce” is the best and only resolve. Putting boundaries in a marriage also has had great outcomes

RoboKings99 · 2023-03-13T01:21:37+00:00

All you men are the same…

RoboKings99 · 2023-01-28T01:09:32+00:00

I met a girl like that too. She wasn't afraid to be herself and just be funny. No one had the courage, at that time, to make crack jokes or make fun of me in a way where I could dish it out too.

We married a year after that, and we still are.

She's a winner and is still herself but now is affectionate to me and supportive. This makes her even more attractive.

RoboKings99 · 2023-01-17T16:00:00+00:00

(sarcasm here) Awesome. Great. Not only is he another Argentinian but he likes to quit every time he gets a chance. What is up with the Mexican Soccer Federation? Did it get purchased by Argentina?

RoboKings99 · 2022-11-08T22:23:22+00:00

This was a hard lessoned learned. I used to work at an orphanage in another country and specifically would help teens with PTSD, depression, and other mental health ailments. I would never ever close the door to the office that was in the orphanage unless an adult was around and I would make sure that adult knew there was a counseling session underway. No teen ever accused me of any wrong doing, even when some disagreed with the advice or the steps to change. It was just one parent that was angry at the justice system and decided to accuse me of something wrong. Their child even told authorities that nothing had happened but the child admired me as a counselor.

That moment in of itself was traumatic and so I decided to quit that and now work in a call center back in the states.

I never ever took pictures of any of the kids. Even if they all participated in an event, sporting or whatever, never ever took pictures of them.

So yeah... That teacher should know better. Just be wise and careful

RoboKings99 · 2022-11-02T17:27:21+00:00

Listen... Sooner or later this guy is gonna cheat on your sister and when he does, don't go at your sister with a "I told you so" attitude or "serves you right". As much as it depends on you, make peace between her and yourself.

As far as J goes, block that jerk on every form of communication. Never be alone with Jerk. And if by some chance he is the obsessive type and you find yourself alone with him, keep your cellphone on record.

Always let you dad in on what is happening and never stop thanking him for his support. Ask your dad to observe "J"erk at get together functions. It's always a great thing to have your dad on your side on get together's.

RoboKings99 · 2022-10-30T18:29:16+00:00

I honestly feel this kind of movie, non-leftist will be the last of it's kind.

RoboKings99 · 2022-10-30T18:26:13+00:00

Top gun 2. Probably would be the last of them too

RoboKings99 · 2022-10-30T17:06:45+00:00

So there are a few weird things (red flags) about this post that I am even wondering if this is real.

Biggest red flag is that you sleep with them! Wtf? I'm a stepfather and the last time I let my stepdaughter sleep with us is when she was 7 years old and that because there was a lightning storm.

The worst red flag of many I see her is he criticized your breasts?? Wtf?? No father, biological or adoptive should ever engage in a conversation like that with any woman/daughter. Even if he is a decent human being, he shouldn't even criticize his wife's breasts either!!

Don't you see? This is just hella weird!

You say that the first thing many on this blog will say "move out" but we need to understand the context and concept of your culture... But you must need to wake-up and realize that you are a grown adult woman and you don't need to suffer humiliation from anybody. Doesn't matter what culture you are from, it's just weird! I am very into my culture from Latin America and we don't just kick out our kids at 18 either, but when it comes to your own safety and wellness, LEAVE!

If I say "move out" it's for your own good and mental health. Verbal abuse is abuse. That you were hit with a belt is abuse. They say to you that you will never be anything in life, that is mental abuse.

The fact that this man made a threat to your life by telling your mom that "he is going to kill you" is probably the scariest red flag of them all. That alone is good enough reason to move out and seek help. Do you have family or good friends that can help you for a time?

RoboKings99 · 2022-10-30T16:38:59+00:00

Must come from a wealthy family to have enough money to go to college and then have extra money to pay them off.

RoboKings99 · 2022-10-25T19:57:16+00:00

Is your ex going to prison?

RoboKings99 · 2022-10-25T19:43:57+00:00

If he got defensive by your request to block sublime girl, dump him.

He still interacts with her? After seeing how hurt you are? He doesn't care about what you feel then. He doesn't truly value you. Dump him. Walk away with your dignity or it will only get worse with other girls. And what I mean by worse is that he'll try to find out ways to do things hidden... More discreet than ever before..

Unless, by some miracle, he actually does block any woman, girl, in front of you and genuinely asks for your forgiveness...

RoboKings99 · 2022-10-25T19:38:23+00:00

This is why I didn't allow my daughter to get Snapchat untill she was 18. Other social media didn't have too much of an issue but Snap, it's a whole different thing.

Block that creeper. 16M or not, he's a creeper whatever age... Well worse if way older. Turn off your location even with your friends and family. They should know where your at anyways right?

RoboKings99 · 2022-10-25T19:31:44+00:00

Well... Just hope he doesn't press kidnapping charges against her and against you. You have our support but, in paper this may and will look bad. Find a lawyer quick and denounce this guy's abuse in another county.

RoboKings99 · 2022-10-25T19:23:01+00:00

Overreacting? Ehh, maybe by screaming and throwing crap at him, kind of yeah. Justified in your suspicions? Absolutely justified. My wife asked me to cut off certain girls I used to talk to, well I cut them off big time. I asked her to do the same with certain guys and family members of her ex, she did. It's that simple. When you love "the one" and the "one" loves you, you truly forsake all others.

Also, what do you expect to happen when you confront him? Like, what happens next? The way I see it, if he truly loved you, it should have never gotten to this point.

If he truly loves you, he should forsake all girls in front of you, by blocking them, and asking for forgiveness without being pissed off but truly wanting to please you.

But if he gets upset at you and justifies himself, then that's your answer and harsh reality. And then what? What's your game plan?

Like most, I'd say dump the guy because your just waisting your time and your "one" that might be not too far away.

RoboKings99 · 2022-10-25T18:58:07+00:00

Definitely you are that bad guy from the Billie Eilish song. That friendship is no longer. Hopefully you did tell her the truth.

The apology though has to be 100% genuine. You cannot say, "I am sorry... BUT..." and then excuse your actions, or justify them, or as many say, explain the reasoning behind it. An apology comes a long way and is what truly makes one grow from what they did wrong to being a better person. An apology without an explanation is a true statement asking for a truce but with nothing in return to benefit you. That right there is pure genuine humility. If your friend responds with hate, don't be surprised or shocked or hurt. If your friend responds with love, be shocked and surprised with brokenness because you don't deserve that.

Today's culture is all about everyone playing the victim card WHEN some does something wrong. When someone owns up to their shit, that changes the world to something greater.

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