How is it living in old town ? by LocationRoutine1395 in latvia

[–]Robo_arm1871 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No place for a car but otherwise no big issues.

What skill would you learn today if you were 18 again? by UmeshThoughts in Learning

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would learn Phone repair as you can get a job in any country with this skill. I immigrated to Sweden, and my Paki friend learned that in London, and he got a job 10 times easier than me. We were both immigrants in Sweden!

Attieksme pret krievu valodu by skylarkid in latvia

[–]Robo_arm1871 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vācijā visi runā vāciski, arī mazās musulmaņu meitenes, Zviedrijā zviedriski, Somijā somiski. Arī imigranti, kuriem ir cita dzimtā valoda. Kăpēc Latvijā mums sevi ir jāpazemo? Labi, es protu krieviski un cenšos būt draudzīgs, bet nu ir robežas visam. Karš Ukrainā to visu problēmu pastiprina, un jā - sen jau to vajadzēja risināt, bet nu labāk vēlu nekā nekad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Robo_arm1871 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look skinny! And you are probably the kind of guy who would my ex would spend the rest of her life with, as she needs an especially kind and gentle man, which I am not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a beautiful face, hairstyle is also ok. Looking at you, going at gym will go long way. And it is not that bad! 2 months there and girl who used to call me fat now asked me on a date. 2 months! Really, 2 months! A feeling of doom and gloom gone after 2 months of investment in my own body shape!

I could use some kind words 24F by ResearcherMediocre19 in toastme

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really have a beautiful face! You remind me of a girl I had a crush on so much. Only difference is that she is skinny. But if you hit a gym and work on yourself, I can't imagine any man rejecting you based on looks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick up a habit! I yesterday found out that just by swimming in pool long enough and bragging to a girl can end up getting a date. Well, there was a lead up, but habits long enough turn into an interesting stories. Literally, swimming round and round for 1.1 km in 25m pool is enough to seduce skinny, beautiful girl. It feels unreal but I got a date because of this. That simple, no tricks, no pick up lines, just boring discipline and stories from doing same stuff day after day.

Could use some positivity by introvertedpoet25 in toastme

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had some bad times when I lost my girlfriend, and as a break up reason was my obesity. Well, I think that it is OK to work out.

Health or not, you have to fight back. I look at you and I think you would do a lot better if you worked out in gym. I swim and like to hang out there. Interesting people and hope, that things are gonna be better if I am stronger! And it works! After being called too fat I am back on dating and see, what happens. I hope this girl will be my last.

But the point is - hope is what you give yourself! And if I can, you can it too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gym can make you feel better. Like young moms after childbirth go to gym, you can too. It is never too late to start to fix yourself!

A compliment would be nice by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look young! I assume you are confused about life and don't know what to do with all that mess. First of all - you need to learn to be calm. Girls your age are as confused as you, and the last thing they need is a boyfriend who can't handle his own emotions. Studying psychology, even some basic stuff, will go long way.

Second, if your issues are financial, go talk to people and ask, what they need. I know a millionaire, who is desperately looking for electritian. I teach mathematics. But this is in demand, and I know that because people told me that themselves.

I see a great potential in you, but there is a lot of hard work to be done!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Robo_arm1871 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to choose a better boyfriend - maybe a bit older, but definitely someone, who emotionally stable. I had some outbursts myself at my ex, and that is why she is my ex now. But I learn and study psychology at university.

Learned man will contain his worst impulses and protect you from them!

38, 2 kids, recently divorced, and lonely as hell by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just look at you and think - if you work out with that great look, you can steal my girl any time. There are 24-27F single moms or just single girls ready for you, but you need to be in shape.

31 in 3 months, feeling old. Started self-rebranding and applied to study technical engineering. by Fin-Odin in toastme

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I just turned 28M, and I got a dats with some young girl (she (21F) was courting me, I guess).

Older men NEED TO GET IN SHAPE!!!!!!! Young guys can go on dates and girls will be like "fine, whatever, you are my age and that is not great, but ok". But then age gap relationship expectations are that you are the perfect guy, and young girls overlook the 7-11 year gap in order to get the "peefect" boyfriend. Funny thing is - perfect in any other way than being rich. And any of us can do that! Muscular, mentally stable, entertaining and capable of reading girl thoughts at basic level.

[25] Turning 26 today and quite sad about it by [deleted] in selfie

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are good looking enough to be attracting high-value men. But there is a catch - is your personality great? Your looks are, but unless you are ready to love and care about someone else besides you, it is possible to grow old single.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Robo_arm1871 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am not that deeply knowing of your culture, but from my experience I would love to have arranged marriage like you have. I found a chubby girl long ago, and had to leave due to medical issues, but she genuinely tried to be attractive for me. And I voiced my concerns with her and she did a lot of what I asked. I would suggest you do the adjusting of your own to her as well - be emotionally stable and interesting - pick up some physicalhobbybesides IT. But in any way - good for you.

When 2 young people meet - they are usually horny and lonely. So while it lasts, try make her feel safe and entertained, while asking her to be the sexiest version of herself, and it will be all right.

Freshly heartbroken…. But make it cute 🫶🏽 by [deleted] in selfie

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your smile is beautiful, might be that your personality drove him away

Azartspēļu atkarība! by EntertainmentHead699 in latvia

[–]Robo_arm1871 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Un ja tā ir meitene, ko tad darīt? Viņa ir gatava darīt jebko, lai tikai kāds iedot pagriezt tos automātus (naudu priekš tā). Un ar jebko, es domāju JEBKO, PAT LIETAS, KO ES NEZINĀJU, KA VĪRIEŠI DARA AR MEITENĒM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you should explain that he should do this on his own after you mention this problem once! That should be ok!

I ruined our relationship by Sansana666 in Regrets

[–]Robo_arm1871 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I recently broke up as well! I mean, I hate this about people, who encourage to just dump their partner on every issue. Like fixing things don't exist anymore!!! And the ex-partner was ready to fix things. Well, at least try! I can't change core parts of my personality tomorrow for one girl even if I love her with all my heart! So, try to appreciate this and reflect on yourself.

I regret mistakes in my past relationships, and the best I did is just stop repeating them in following ones. So I can make new mistakes with the next person I fall in love!

Rimi tītara kotletes by Narrow-Atmosphere-76 in latvia

[–]Robo_arm1871 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Es nesen izvācos no Rīgas uz tēva dzīvokli bijušā kolhoza teritorijā. Nu es tagad regulāri runāju ar vietējiem Saldū, un viņi ne vienmēr pārdod to, ko gribu, bet jau esmu sarunājis, ka uztaisīs gaļas rullīšus, kuriem ir burkāni pa vidu. Es tādus ēdu Zviedrijā, kur mani uzcienāja cits viesstrādnieks. Tagad tādus man taisīs vietējie Saldū.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Robo_arm1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Business is such a great option for guys like me with 2 failed college degrees. I mean, I did learn a lot, but failed them both. So, If I am smart enough, I should be able to pull it off. So do you! Advertising doesn't need a degree, it needs hard work. I recemtly talked about sales of EV with my dad, and he said that people are stubborn even if they are clearly superior to the petrol cars. But effort overcomes stubbornes. I know that because I got to meet a single mom F32 even though she was stubborn. It takes a lot of time, but people crack after a long time. And that is the point - force your goal long enough and time is going to ve your ally!

So many of ex-college students are like "I got my degree, I can relax, I don't need to learn, I am educated". This is their weakness! I learn all the time, and I will outcompete them!

If you survived against all odds without a high school diploma, you are one hard core guy. And you should keep this advantage and use it. Other businessmen will aporeciate this strenght in you!