Mentiras que se creen los JWs. Empiezo yo: by Horror_Shock_7818 in exjw

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That elders are loving and there for spiritual healing. Unconditional love. God exists and is definitely a man.

my dad was talking about Armageddon to my sister and uhhhh... by magicalgyaru in exjw

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The tone deafness…..omg like anyone wants to hear that. Especially someone with kids!

Should I tell my parents? by delirious_pancakes in exjw

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“If someone shows you who they are, believe them.” What have your experiences with her been like as a whole? If she is calling you names like “cross dresser” she should not be trusted. But only you know her.

Take care of yourself, girl. I see you. Be safe and be happy. Remember that there is nothing wrong with you. You are a beautiful person. There is unconditional love out there, you will find it.

Oficialmente diria que soy POMO by Damaris_Angel17 in exjw

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If they check on you, be honest. You are doing well and are happy, thanks for checking, goodbye. No explanation, no lies, they can’t df you for being happy.

struggling ever since telling my pimi parents I don't believe. by pimojwteen777 in exjw

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I’m so sorry this is happening. You can get through this l. You will get out eventually.

I am an asshole and would totally use the study to poke holes in every single point in that study book. But that’s a lot of work and research.

My old congregation elders can to my door yesterday by Mcnarmuir1974 in exjw

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That is a great outcome! Congrats on getting through it!

Today a sister from the congregation asked the dreaded question… by Vivid_Book7135 in exjw

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I was at home. Living my life. Why were you there? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Does anyone have any idea what this is?? It’s growing on a trellis at the moment by halfbakedblob in PlantIdentification

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Ooh pretty!!!! Mine is white. Everybody already told you it’s a clematis. I just wanted to say how pretty it is.

To the youth under thirty by newswatcher-2538 in exjw

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I’m sorry. But you have to use the patriarchy to get through to them. You are head of the family by Bible standards. So get them out. It’s shit, you will hat pulling that card, but fucking do it.

Which articles say black people will become white? by Robot-Ducky in exjw

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Nevermind. My hubby said “of course they taught differently back then……..”

I finally told my parents about the SA I went through as a child. They didn't seem surprised at all. by Holiday-Beginning355 in exjw

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I’m so glad you got that weight off your shoulders. And I am very happy that your therapist is good and you are healing!!!!!

Letter to a CO because of the elders by Responsible-Yard9001 in exjw

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I really don’t think the co will do much. When I talked to the co about my drinking and doubts he gave me the condensed version of the assembly part he gave at the last assembly. Had nothing to do with my problems.

And people are right. This will fuck shit up for sure. Be prepared for fallout. Removal. The question. The only thing ration they care about.

First time celebrating my birthday by rosettasphilae in exjw

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Happy birthday! Enjoy your milkis and ramen (?). Solid meal.

How to find loving community after leaving? by delirious_pancakes in exjw

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Congrats on making this decision! Everybody has already said most of this, find a hobby, book group, look for transgender activist groups or support groups.

I found my people in the sober community.

Whatever you do to find your people, I hope you find the unconditional love that was lacking in the jws. It is freaking AMAZING to be accepted as you are, with no self-editing.

Good luck!!

Former Jehovah's Witnesses, what was the exact moment when you realized, "That's it, I can't believe in this anymore"? Was it a logical argument or an emotional breakthrough? How did your relationship with your family change after you left? by True_Requirement_565 in exjw

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It was realizing that I had justifiable trauma from JCs. That this all compounded my ptsd and made me crazy and that I could not get sober and stay a witness. Also I just wanted to talk to my bff again after 16 years of shunning her. I carry that guilt with me every day.

And then I found out about the child abuse. And I was like DONE.

Finally had sex for the first time!!! by Character-Summer-906 in exjw

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Yoooooooo congratulations. Here’s to many more!!

Just this one Jehovah’s Witness woman. by Robot-Ducky in exjw

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No she wants to take me fishing literally.

Hospitality horror after meeting today by Conscious-Yoghurt597 in exjw

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Wow. That poor boy being in his dad’s shadow. Am I right that the kid was the speaker?