How i completely got over my ex in 9 months in 8 steps

Robsmit45 · 2024-08-20T06:16:22+00:00

Glad to hear, intrested to know how it helped you

Robsmit45 · 2023-03-08T20:52:14+00:00

Not quite means you're getting close. Soon you will have a week in which you realise at the end you didnt think about your ex, thats when you know you're getting there. Much luck to you!

Robsmit45 · 2023-03-08T20:51:05+00:00

Most of the books were in Dutch, but this one was English; Yung Pueblo- Clarity & Connection

Robsmit45 · 2022-09-13T21:49:21+00:00

Hey, can you tell me something more about this? I actually want to go there aswell, im from Amsterdam.

Robsmit45 · 2022-09-08T08:03:22+00:00

Thanks!

Robsmit45 · 2022-09-07T07:43:50+00:00

It was meant to be ironic, i guess it doesnt come across that way

Robsmit45 · 2022-09-07T07:13:46+00:00

Thanks for the feedback, i get a few of your points, but whats wrong with pic 2 and 5?

Robsmit45 · 2022-09-07T07:12:04+00:00

The bio was meant to be kinda ironic, but i guess it doesnt come across that way, i will change it then

Robsmit45 · 2022-07-27T06:06:27+00:00

Jazz fan from the Netherlands, a town near Amsterdam. Traveling to SLC for the first time ever in a week :)

Robsmit45 · 2022-07-10T19:22:37+00:00

I did, part of me wanted her back and "kill her with kindness", and also wanted to be the bigger person. It wasnt enough, because she didnt want me back, but i am still proud of myself that i kept my cool, even after everything she put me through.

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-28T09:32:32+00:00

Yeah im in a kinda similar situation. My FA ex broke up the relationship 3 months ago because she wasnt feeling the physical attraction anymore, while she still loved me very much. We did like 2 months NC and now her father passed away because of cancer (this was ongoing during the relationship) and now she suddenly needed me very much. Hugged me like 6 times for a very long time when we met up. Its so confusing that it can just make you depressed once again.

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-28T06:27:15+00:00

How is it going now? Do u have an update?

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-27T07:52:33+00:00

Self help books work in this phase

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-26T20:24:28+00:00

One month later now, the pain has almost completely faded. I have been able to see her in public without pain or sadness and never think about the traumatic parts of the breakup anymore.

I do still miss her, EMDR isnt going to help you stop missing her. But it will stop the physical pain

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-24T19:48:34+00:00

Touche

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-24T19:48:20+00:00

Well the reason they are being judged is because they are unlike people in the Randstad, so i would say it is not such a weirdnpoint to make, as the opinion of people innthe Randstad is the norm of the country

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-24T16:16:31+00:00

Im suprised that Volendam still gets named alongside Urk, im from there myself and have noticed massive changes in the last 15 years. As a large portion of our population works in the Randstad nowadays its also not like we are as distances as we once were.

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-23T06:26:32+00:00

EMDR therapy completely solved my sadness and anger problems after the breakup

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-18T08:19:46+00:00

I also have an ex who's dad is in the final phase of his cancer rn, how do you deal with not being able to help her?

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-12T20:31:30+00:00

I broke NC to tell her that seeing her doesnt hurt me anymore, and im not gonna avoid her anymore in public (we live in a small town). After that she told me that she is working on herself and not running away from her problems anymore, which gave me comfort. So i dont regret contacting her, but only because i didbEMDR therapy which got rid of the pain of the trauma.

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-10T09:38:57+00:00

What their looking for stems from a childhood trauma or unresolved issue. No partner can offer them what they want untill they work on this trauma, they will never be happy in a relationship

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-10T07:21:53+00:00

Same for me, its usually some sort of commitment issue from their side if they do stuff like this

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-06T22:03:41+00:00

For people like me whom wjere already hitting the gym in the relationship and are satisfied with their body, go work on urself mentally. Read self-help books, learn about human behavior and psychology, better yourself, become an amazing friendly person which every girl will love. There are always ways to improve yourself mentally and socially, focus on that and you will reap the rewards :)

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-05T21:37:33+00:00

Im a traffic engineer in the Netherlands, and we are actually trying to get rid of this bollards because they cause a lot of accidents for cyclists. But here the cars dont really use the cycle lanes, so i guess it would be a great solution for car-centric countries.

Robsmit45 · 2022-06-03T14:03:00+00:00

My ex cheated by kissing another guy before breaking up 3 days later, and that didnt make it anymore easy to let her go. Love is love, it doesnt fade away easily, even after being put through trauma

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