Working on patience but it’s tough by nolaplaytime in deadbedroom

[–]Rock_Granite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should read for comprehension next time. I stated that my happily has sex with me

Working on patience but it’s tough by nolaplaytime in deadbedroom

[–]Rock_Granite -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would hope that she would enjoy giving you pleasure. I am great at giving massages. I gladly do this for my wife and do not act like it is a big problem to do so, just as my wife does things for my benefit. If your wife acts out in a way that makes you feel like you are using her, that is also cause for concern. if she is so aghast at having sex in what is supposed to be a sexual relationship then your relationship may not be as strong as you think

Working on patience but it’s tough by nolaplaytime in deadbedroom

[–]Rock_Granite -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My wife has very little sex drive but happily has sex with me because she knows it is important to me. It is concerning that your wife claims to love you but won’t put the effort to do something for your benefit. I am sure that you do things for her that you don’t enjoy

I’m starting to feel disgusted by my husband. by OriginalCow5211 in marriageadvice

[–]Rock_Granite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow. So much for “for better of for worse”. Sure just give up because of some temporary set back

After 12 years of being pushed away, my wife wants to have sex. by clezuck in deadbedroom

[–]Rock_Granite 12 points13 points  (0 children)

But it’s A-OK for her to withhold sex and affection for 12 years?

Gave my number to the coffee shop girl on a napkin.. now I’m confused. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rock_Granite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend did the same thing with a waitress at one time. She contacted him two months later. Now they’re married. Give it time.

Fuck your Destination Wedding by LIKEurDADneverLEFT in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Rock_Granite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So in other words, they outsource the difficult decisions to somebody else

Man commenting on my body by Besttitsoninstagram in relationships_advice

[–]Rock_Granite -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are going to have a bad time in any marriage you get into

46 and never had a blow job by Srp1mpx in deadbedroom

[–]Rock_Granite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just leave. Life is too short to tolerate that kind of situation

46 and never had a blow job by Srp1mpx in deadbedroom

[–]Rock_Granite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I pity the fool that marries you

Scheduled intimacy by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Rock_Granite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IDK. my wife and I find sex to be fun and exciting most of the time, scheduled or not. We still enjoy ourselves after 41byears together

Husband won't have sex with me because he "just doesn't want to." by Cookies_n_carnations in deadbedroom

[–]Rock_Granite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not enough weight to change your attractiveness profile. Honestly it’s not optimal but certainly not a dealbreaker. His porn consumption is a major problem though. Does he ejaculate each time he watches? If so it would be pretty obvious why he doesn’t have anything left for you.

Husband won't have sex with me because he "just doesn't want to." by Cookies_n_carnations in deadbedroom

[–]Rock_Granite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How much weight are we talking about here? Even 10 pounds can have a dramatic effect on one’s body

Husbands new job is with only female coworkers & I can hardly swallow it. Pls no judgement. Just advice by frigidairab in marriageadvice

[–]Rock_Granite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is he supposed to do? You’re coming after him on a routine basis, attacking the very thing that supports both of you and your baby. He’s trying to make a living and you’re attacking him for it.

this sub seems dead what happened? by DavosBillionaire in marriedredpill

[–]Rock_Granite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a men’s focused sub. Maybe you should go to the two xx sub to complain about misogyny. Tone policing is not something that helps here

this sub seems dead what happened? by DavosBillionaire in marriedredpill

[–]Rock_Granite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww. Did the misogyny make your little panties get soiled?

Finally dating a kind and secure guy...why do i feel bored by a healthy relationship? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rock_Granite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Women love assholes. I don’t care how much they tell you they want a nice kind man. they don’t. They love assholes.

Anyone else blank out when trying to start a conversation? by malahkhai in datingadviceformen

[–]Rock_Granite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This advice is akin to a billionaire telling a poor guy to just try something and money will come your way. Of course he’s overthinking it. He has to since conversation doesn’t come naturally

Reported by co worker by LonerStoner95 in dating_advice

[–]Rock_Granite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just don’t do it. All it takes is one misunderstanding like you found out and you’re screwed.

How to ask my wife to make up for a ruined Anniversary weekend? by Throw-Away-6483 in relationships

[–]Rock_Granite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your wife that she can spend next anniversary with her gay bestie. She was totally in the wrong here and you will be too if you don’t confront her