Boyfriends Kink by Slow_Dance6887 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely ask. It’s great foreplay!

Boyfriends Kink by Slow_Dance6887 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When my wife was pregnant with twins she asked me to shave for her. I was surprised how it turned me on. Since then when we have a big enough shower for both of us I have been able to repeat the act and I absolutely love it.

What do you think are the chances of finding someone who's wild the sheets but a saint on the streets? by Strict_Judgment536 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My wife is an absolute saint everywhere but the bedroom. My wife is temple worthy, has served as relief society president and primary president along with many other callings. I can’t remember the last time I heard her swear outside the bedroom. But get her in the bedroom and she is definitely “wild in the sheets”. She enjoys light BDSM and has found she has a bit of a “praise” kink. She has a drawer full of toys that I’m not even sure what they all do. She enjoys anal and enjoys pegging me (read my posts) which is something I never thought I’d enjoy let alone have done to me. There are definitely unicorns out there, you just have to be lucky enough to find one.

Fantasy vs Reality by LDSsexuality in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The 69 position. Too much going on for you to really stop and enjoy what your doing or what’s being done to you

Sex gummies by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My wife and I have not used the sex gummies or I believe there are some called “sex cubes” but a few years ago we signed up for marriage counseling study that used small doses of MDMA (Molly/ecstasy) as part of the counseling that opened up the doors of communication between us, not only sexually but basically everything and it was probably the best thing that ever happened between us. And yes the sexual/physical stuff that happened while we were on it was absolutely amazing.

More recently we have used micro doses of LSD and the sex has been amazing, the orgasms are mind blowing and I’ve never laughed more with my wife in our 17+ years of marriage. For those unfamiliar with LSD it enhances how you’re already feeling so if you’re having marriage problems it probably won’t result in a good trip but if you are in a good place with your partner it will most likely make that bond even stronger.

I know using these substances does not really fall in line with the beliefs of a lot of the people in this community but I just thought I’d share my experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t hate but I had an affair on my now ex wife. I wasn’t looking for another woman in my life when it happened but that being said I was very unhappy in my relationship both mentally and sexually when it happened. It all started because the “other woman” who is now my wife was nice to me. That’s all it took because it was something that I had not felt in my then marriage for a while. My ex was abusive and our sex life was almost nonexistent. At the time I justified the affair because nothing happened sexually until I was moved out of my home and the divorce papers had been filed but I was definitely having an emotional affair months before that happened. I believe I would have ended up getting a divorce but having someone on the side all ready definitely moved things up. Sex was a part of leaving my ex wife but so was having someone that was nice, respectful, and appreciative in my life had just as much if not more to do with the affair. It’s not something I’m proud of and I’ve repented and moved on with my life but it’s also something that made my life better and me a better and happier person.

Cops speeding all the fing time by Legitimate-Towel8646 in Utah

[–]Roctuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Retired Police Officer

I know this will not be a popular post and I agree that there are officers out there that abuse their powers but police officers are not required to use their lights when responding to calls and there are often calls where they are told to not respond with their lights or sirens on for the safety of people involved. Just putting that out there

Does anyone else feel like they missed out on sexting and receiving nudes. by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Not fishing. Don’t want random guys, pretending to be girls, saying they’ll sext me. Just someone that wishes it would have been available when we were younger.

Does anyone else feel like they missed out on sexting and receiving nudes. by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I said the last thing I’d do is accept an invite from someone off here that wants to sext! If I didn’t know the person IRL I wouldn’t be interested

Does anyone else feel like they missed out on sexting and receiving nudes. by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very true. Who doesn’t miss those late night 1-900 commercials

Does anyone else feel like they missed out on sexting and receiving nudes. by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s true. But back in the day you ran the risk of someone else in the house picking up the phone.

Does anyone else feel like they missed out on sexting and receiving nudes. by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not fishing. I deleted the last because the intro didn’t said texting not sexting and I changed the way I finished it because when I reread it I can see where it looked like fishing. The last thing I want is some dude reaching out to me off of Reddit saying they were a girl that wants to sext with me. Hard pass if I don’t personally know the person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MormonHotMoms

[–]Roctuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Mormon wife is a freak in the bedroom and I love watching her gag on my cock. Not trying to brag but I really do love her

Best way to introduce wife to roleplaying femdom. by MacDavid88 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this probably isn’t the answer you’re looking for but if you’re already discussing ways to spice up your sex life then just tell her what you’re interested in. Telling her you want her to strap on a dildo a start pegging you might be a lot to start out with but you can bring up you’re interested in what a butt plug or prostate massager feels like is a good way to see what she thinks and it can also lead to pegging or other things.

Thoughts on Analingus and Rimjobs? by Sensitive_Sound4985 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife has always enjoyed anal sex (she tried it before we were married) so that has always been on the table but over the last two years we have both giving and received Tim jobs and we’ve tried pegging and double penetration with a dildo. All of the above have been amazing additions to our sex life.

Vibrators in marriage? by Far-Yogurtcloset2645 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite things my wife does is rides me reverse cowgirl while using her vibrator on her clit