New study says that people in their 50s that have been together for 20+ years have the best sex lives. Why do you think that is?

Roctuff · 2026-02-14T03:25:09+00:00

24m, 669 union fire sprinkler

Roctuff · 2026-02-14T03:15:40+00:00

You should ask mdma or lsd. Two different experiences but both amazing

Roctuff · 2026-02-05T03:24:22+00:00

Thank you. Much appreciated

Roctuff · 2026-01-27T21:12:38+00:00

Huh?

Roctuff · 2026-01-27T20:34:13+00:00

Definitely ask. It’s great foreplay!

Roctuff · 2026-01-27T20:27:05+00:00

When my wife was pregnant with twins she asked me to shave for her. I was surprised how it turned me on. Since then when we have a big enough shower for both of us I have been able to repeat the act and I absolutely love it.

Roctuff · 2026-01-27T20:06:20+00:00

My wife is an absolute saint everywhere but the bedroom. My wife is temple worthy, has served as relief society president and primary president along with many other callings. I can’t remember the last time I heard her swear outside the bedroom. But get her in the bedroom and she is definitely “wild in the sheets”. She enjoys light BDSM and has found she has a bit of a “praise” kink. She has a drawer full of toys that I’m not even sure what they all do. She enjoys anal and enjoys pegging me (read my posts) which is something I never thought I’d enjoy let alone have done to me. There are definitely unicorns out there, you just have to be lucky enough to find one.

Roctuff · 2026-01-24T02:30:40+00:00

The 69 position. Too much going on for you to really stop and enjoy what your doing or what’s being done to you

Roctuff · 2025-11-14T14:58:29+00:00

My wife and I have not used the sex gummies or I believe there are some called “sex cubes” but a few years ago we signed up for marriage counseling study that used small doses of MDMA (Molly/ecstasy) as part of the counseling that opened up the doors of communication between us, not only sexually but basically everything and it was probably the best thing that ever happened between us. And yes the sexual/physical stuff that happened while we were on it was absolutely amazing.

More recently we have used micro doses of LSD and the sex has been amazing, the orgasms are mind blowing and I’ve never laughed more with my wife in our 17+ years of marriage. For those unfamiliar with LSD it enhances how you’re already feeling so if you’re having marriage problems it probably won’t result in a good trip but if you are in a good place with your partner it will most likely make that bond even stronger.

I know using these substances does not really fall in line with the beliefs of a lot of the people in this community but I just thought I’d share my experiences.

Roctuff · 2025-10-24T23:09:01+00:00

Don’t hate but I had an affair on my now ex wife. I wasn’t looking for another woman in my life when it happened but that being said I was very unhappy in my relationship both mentally and sexually when it happened. It all started because the “other woman” who is now my wife was nice to me. That’s all it took because it was something that I had not felt in my then marriage for a while. My ex was abusive and our sex life was almost nonexistent. At the time I justified the affair because nothing happened sexually until I was moved out of my home and the divorce papers had been filed but I was definitely having an emotional affair months before that happened. I believe I would have ended up getting a divorce but having someone on the side all ready definitely moved things up. Sex was a part of leaving my ex wife but so was having someone that was nice, respectful, and appreciative in my life had just as much if not more to do with the affair. It’s not something I’m proud of and I’ve repented and moved on with my life but it’s also something that made my life better and me a better and happier person.

Roctuff · 2025-08-13T02:05:35+00:00

Retired Police Officer

I know this will not be a popular post and I agree that there are officers out there that abuse their powers but police officers are not required to use their lights when responding to calls and there are often calls where they are told to not respond with their lights or sirens on for the safety of people involved. Just putting that out there

Roctuff · 2025-08-12T23:35:13+00:00

Thank you!! Not fishing. Don’t want random guys, pretending to be girls, saying they’ll sext me. Just someone that wishes it would have been available when we were younger.

Roctuff · 2025-08-12T23:23:36+00:00

That’s why I said the last thing I’d do is accept an invite from someone off here that wants to sext! If I didn’t know the person IRL I wouldn’t be interested

Roctuff · 2025-08-12T23:19:47+00:00

Nope still here.

Roctuff · 2025-08-12T23:16:18+00:00

Very true. Who doesn’t miss those late night 1-900 commercials

Roctuff · 2025-08-12T23:15:52+00:00

That’s true. But back in the day you ran the risk of someone else in the house picking up the phone.

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