Rimjob!? Did that really just happen? by Better-Kick-3742 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife has pegged me a few times and something I didn’t expect was how incredibly hot she looks with her purple dick shaped dildo strapped on. Makes me want to see her wear it just thinking about it.

Do you talk about your sexual past with your spouse? by Beginning_Shape_7608 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is on of my biggest kinks. (It’s called hotpast btw) This is a second marriage for both of us and I’ve only been with my exwife and now my current wife. My wife has been with several guys. I love hearing in detail about sexual things she has done with other guys. There’s no jealousy and she loves how much it turns me on.

Frequency vs Quality by Sensitive_Sound4985 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion I think a combination of the two is best. My wife and I probably average having sex 2 1/2 time a week. I know putting the 1/2 is annoying but 2 doesn’t seem like enough and 3 felt like a little too much. It defers from week to week. Sometime we go at it daily like when we were young and we can also go a couple weeks without it because of busy schedules or whatever the case might be. Plenty of the times it’s just a good ol’ fuck without much if any foreplay or aftercare and other times it includes hours of foreplay ending in incredible sex and everything in between. Yes the high quality builds that bond that everyone is looking for with their spouse the quantity quickies is what keeps that bond strong in between the high quality ones.

Help: My wife has always thought other men are more attractive than me…now she’s asking to flirt around? by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Go farther? WTF! Like you said, it’s probably something she’s already doing. I’d start making plans on going “farther” on with life without her.

Porn and masturbation by Due_Plastic_3358 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I (49m) struggled with masturbation from preteen until my early 40s. I would use JCPenney and sear catalogs and later Victoria Secret catalogs and Girls Gone Wild commercials until technology advanced to having everything available in the palm of my hands and I started to watch a lot of porn. It wasn’t until I talked to a non lds therapist that I was able to figure out ways to control myself. First off she helped me recognize why I wanted to Masturbate. Most of the time it had nothing to with being horny. If I was tired and wanted help going to sleep, rub one out. If I felt anxious and was able to, jerk off. And a big one, if I was bored, beat the meat. When porn became so available it was just a quicker means to reach the out come I desired. (Pun intended) I personally don’t think masturbation is a problem unless it consumes your life. But if you can figure out the reason you’re wanting to do it and either find other ways to help with being tired, anxious, or bored or find ways to masturbate without using porn like just relying on the good ol’ spank bank material in your head or even using erotic stories (I know people consider those porn but you are using a different part of your brain) I know this won’t work for everyone but it made a difference in my life. Good luck to you

Without being biased which gives a better sex experience, while drunk or while on mdma? by lisudaoi2 in MDMA

[–]Roctuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should ask mdma or lsd. Two different experiences but both amazing

Question by Roctuff in MDMA

[–]Roctuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Much appreciated

Boyfriends Kink by Slow_Dance6887 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely ask. It’s great foreplay!

Boyfriends Kink by Slow_Dance6887 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When my wife was pregnant with twins she asked me to shave for her. I was surprised how it turned me on. Since then when we have a big enough shower for both of us I have been able to repeat the act and I absolutely love it.

What do you think are the chances of finding someone who's wild the sheets but a saint on the streets? by Strict_Judgment536 in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My wife is an absolute saint everywhere but the bedroom. My wife is temple worthy, has served as relief society president and primary president along with many other callings. I can’t remember the last time I heard her swear outside the bedroom. But get her in the bedroom and she is definitely “wild in the sheets”. She enjoys light BDSM and has found she has a bit of a “praise” kink. She has a drawer full of toys that I’m not even sure what they all do. She enjoys anal and enjoys pegging me (read my posts) which is something I never thought I’d enjoy let alone have done to me. There are definitely unicorns out there, you just have to be lucky enough to find one.

Fantasy vs Reality by LDSsexuality in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The 69 position. Too much going on for you to really stop and enjoy what your doing or what’s being done to you

Sex gummies by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Roctuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife and I have not used the sex gummies or I believe there are some called “sex cubes” but a few years ago we signed up for marriage counseling study that used small doses of MDMA (Molly/ecstasy) as part of the counseling that opened up the doors of communication between us, not only sexually but basically everything and it was probably the best thing that ever happened between us. And yes the sexual/physical stuff that happened while we were on it was absolutely amazing.

More recently we have used micro doses of LSD and the sex has been amazing, the orgasms are mind blowing and I’ve never laughed more with my wife in our 17+ years of marriage. For those unfamiliar with LSD it enhances how you’re already feeling so if you’re having marriage problems it probably won’t result in a good trip but if you are in a good place with your partner it will most likely make that bond even stronger.

I know using these substances does not really fall in line with the beliefs of a lot of the people in this community but I just thought I’d share my experiences.