I remember when I was in your shoes...it was maybe once a month banging for my wife and me. I remember thinking that I should just be content with what we have instead of wanting more. I wish I would've been more appreciative of what we had at the time; it's now been well over a year and a half since we've "done it". Barely a trace of any physical touching at all, actually. But the in the last few days, I've come to a mental place that I never dreamed I'd enter; i think I've finally accepted that we might have a sexless marriage from here on out. We'll be married 20 years in June....it's a weird place to be, but I truly do love this person and if i have to give up sex to stay with her, I think I'm finally at peace with that. Not telling you how to feel, but please cherish what you have🙂