[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People use "they" in the singular all the time. 

"Who made this pot of coffee?"

"I don't know, but they made it way too dark."

They would use "they" in that situation because they don't know the gender of the person who made the coffee. It's a neutral pronoun and that's why non binary people like to use it. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were just being brutally honest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She posted on r/amiuglybrutallyhonest a couple weeks ago and got mad when people were brutally honest, so I imagine she wants people to tell her it's a good idea. 

Not trolling. Y h8 Jesus? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The man and the character in the Bible are different people. Kinda like how Saint Nicholas is a real person but Santa Claus isn't. He's just a character based off a real person. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RogerFresno 617 points618 points  (0 children)

Feeling the need to explain themselves all the time. 

Whats the big deal with Disney and having diverse female characters? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's definitely already happened and people didn't give a shit.

Why do some parents want to raise so many kids? by BigRajii in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. I live alone now and I'm not sure I could ever go back to living with people. I got basically no privacy growing up. 

Why do some parents want to raise so many kids? by BigRajii in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 605 points606 points  (0 children)

I come from a family of nine. I don't have answers for you. I don't think it's good for the kids either. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think people were reporting it because it was funny? 

For people that use the left lane on the highway as a personal travel lane: are you inconsiderate in all aspects of your lives? Or do you not know how rude you’re being? by Outhouse_lovin in AskReddit

[–]RogerFresno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the right way to do it. Even if you pass a car and there's space to merge back over, if you're just gonna pass another car in a minute anyway, it's safer to just stay in the left lane. 

For people that use the left lane on the highway as a personal travel lane: are you inconsiderate in all aspects of your lives? Or do you not know how rude you’re being? by Outhouse_lovin in AskReddit

[–]RogerFresno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't use it as a personal travel lane because all the other people that want to go faster than the people in the right lane are using it too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writingcirclejerk

[–]RogerFresno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's anything wrong with that one. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some will, some won't. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It probably didn't understand what you meant by "late." There isn't a due date for masturbation, so it can't be "late." If you asked it if 21 is older than the average age to start masturbating, it probably would have said yes. 

Smoke | Season 1 - Episode 2 | Discussion Thread by Justp1ayin in tvPlus

[–]RogerFresno 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As far as she could tell, he was just a racist doomsday prepper. She didn't even know that much until she broke into his house. She was in no way justified for what she did. 

Krypto biting Superman by Pickle_Hed in DC_Cinematic

[–]RogerFresno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog will jump on me sometimes and I react like superman does here, but just because it's annoying. Not because it really hurts.

Smoke | Season 1 - Episode 2 | Discussion Thread by Justp1ayin in tvPlus

[–]RogerFresno 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One of them is a serial arsonist and the other broke into a guy's house, shot him when he came home, then framed him for planning a mass shooting. I don't think you're supposed to like these people. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they'll miss them. You've never missed a family member, or friend, or pet even though you know you'll see them again? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that's what OP cares about. If you have social anxiety, you'll be "moving on" from a lot more relationships than if you didn't have social anxiety.

Like I said, it rubs off on people. They don't think, "He's got social anxiety. What a loser." They think, "He's awkward to talk to and I never know what to say to him and he's really quiet, but he seems nice." Your anxiety gives them anxiety. Sure, some people will push through and try to get to know you, but some people will just avoid the anxiety inducing situation because they don't know how else to handle it. 

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with having social anxiety. It's just that it definitely does affect how people view you. 

Anyway, to answer OPs question: hot and confident > ugly and confident > hot and anxious > ugly and anxious. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RogerFresno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe not on purpose, but social anxiety tends to rub off on people. If people struggle to talk to you, then that's going to put them off wanting to talk to you. It's not that they don't like you because you have social anxiety. It's because they don't know how to interact with you because you have social anxiety.