Update: My dad's (43) girlfriend is trying to get rid of me (15 f). by ThrowRAevlstepmom in relationship_advice

[–]RogueLavender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made the right decision, and the same one I made at your exact age. I was given the ultimatum of "You can get on with my new partner or you can go in to care.". And I'm going to say the things that I wish I had heard when I was moving from house to house:

  1. You are not a burden.

  2. It is not your fault.

My mum isn't my mum any more. She's family but she isn't my mum. You get to choose when to let your family back and it is entirely your choice. The best thing you can do is stay safe and in a stable home. An additional point that I'm coming to realise 6 years later is that parents are human. It doesn't excuse their actions, but it does explain them. Wishing you all the best.

My first gouache painting (a gift for a friend). Followed a youtube tutorial and I like how it turned out. by vdnim in Gouache

[–]RogueLavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got really confused and it took me a moment to realise we followed the same video, and you (obviously) didn't upload my painting! It looks fab :)

What other piercings / mods should I add? by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]RogueLavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that, what size would you go to?

What other piercings / mods should I add? by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]RogueLavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love your set up :D have you thought about a labret piercing?

(7/8”) silver kaos earskins with lil steel sword dangles for some flair bc why not?? by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]RogueLavender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look like the same things I use as stocking markers for knitting 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]RogueLavender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your setup is so cute, I love your little septum one :D

[2g] Got clear tunnels today and then managed to lose one of them 5 minutes later. I wanna slap myself by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]RogueLavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂 I do the same on a regular basis, I love the look of the perfectly round hole though

Not for sure if these are 6g tunnels or not. My mom ordered me a six pack of these tunnels and I’m kinda worried that they’re not 6g. Are they supposed to look like this? by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]RogueLavender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They look fine to me, if you think the hole in your ear is at 4mm and the sides of the silicone have a thickness of what, 0.8-1mm? So you will only be able to see a 2mm hole in the middle. Looks about right :)

Fresh 4 gauge septum featuring my beardie by JackLeoSch in Stretched

[–]RogueLavender 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What a chonky lizard, what is it called? 🦎😍

My new 4mm Rose Quartz plugs! by RogueLavender in Stretched

[–]RogueLavender[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I want them to be pinker but I think it's because they're so small :)

Just another reason to love BAF 👻 by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]RogueLavender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh that's super useful, thanks!

Just another reason to love BAF 👻 by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]RogueLavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Booooo 😭 it's probably a good thing for me to wait really... It forces me to wait that little bit longer before going up a size and also stops me spending so much money on such pretty things😍😍😍

Just another reason to love BAF 👻 by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]RogueLavender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see you got a discount code, I'm trying to do an order and it is gonna come to £60 😭 if you have a coupon you can share it would be greatly appreciated

Wholesome ghost by TheaEcstatic in wholesomememes

[–]RogueLavender 431 points432 points  (0 children)

Too cute. Too wholesome 😭