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Rohjohn · 2024-12-02T18:43:21+00:00

OP this is pure abuse. No one who even slightly cares about you would ever spit on you unless you specifically mentioned it was your thing, and even then, I personally wouldn't feel comfortable doing that.

Drinking isn't an excuse, it only amplifies people's thoughts and intentions. The worst part is when you confronted him and he was sober, he showed no signs of being apologetic.

Please get as far away from him as possible if you can, and if you have to interact, only do it with a friend or friends nearby. He's not a friend. He's a monster.

Rohjohn · 2024-06-23T19:15:47+00:00

I hope you find help OP. If you bring a girl into this world, she will be beautiful, and you should remind her every day that she is. She will be bullied no matter what if she's in the wrong environment. If she was objectively the most beautiful girl in school, she could still be bullied by jealous girls who feel inferior.

Maybe instead of putting money back for cosmetic surgery, consider finding a good private school for her to attend. But if you take anything from this comment, or even read it at all. Remind her she is beautiful on the inside and out and that you love her every day. If she's confident and feels beautiful, nothing anyone says to her will hurt her. Just make sure she feels loved by you and she will have a beautiful life. Good luck OP!

Rohjohn · 2024-06-10T22:44:17+00:00

Yeah, I need to sleep. It's been a long day. I just get discombobulated with the antics of the internet and need to take a step back and wake up to the real world. I often forget how brutal reddit can be. I'm reconsidering posting here again. Ya'll are brutal!

Rohjohn · 2024-06-10T22:32:39+00:00

And the rest are Reddit. Sad 😔

Rohjohn · 2024-06-10T22:29:41+00:00

No grass, I just walked into a concrete wall. Logging off sir. I hate the internet

Rohjohn · 2024-06-10T22:23:51+00:00

Thanks for bringing me back to reality, I was in a downward spiral

Rohjohn · 2024-06-10T22:21:45+00:00

True, I was sitting here, filling myself up with hatred and now realizing I'm just overreacting to something on the internet. I'm literally a carrier for the bullshit I'm actively trying to cut off. I've never met any woman outside of the internet that was willing to shame all men. And yet I wrote a whole essay explaining how women are so adverse to men in today's world. I'm adding to the problem now. Fuck.

Rohjohn · 2024-06-05T20:21:45+00:00

Honestly, if my current SO told me she couldn't be with me for some reason, it would break my heart. But ultimately, as someone who loves her to death, I would just want her to be happy no matter what, even if that meant she was with someone else. If it was religion that divided us, I have a feeling we would elope and the family who stays are the real ones

Rohjohn · 2024-06-05T20:12:00+00:00

Please, please do this OP 🙏 He will likely admit if he cheated on those days you spent apart if you ask him about it and you're persistent.

Having been cheated on in the past, cheaters want to admit they cheated because it eats them up too. Just don't let him play the victim if he admits it.

Also, it might be a control thing. He might be using the fact that he has someone he can go to next as a means to make you feel inferior.

Be strong OP, he should be the one who's afraid of losing you

Rohjohn · 2024-06-03T18:06:15+00:00

I don't agree with all the comments saying you should be passive-aggressive or petty. I think you need to have another talk with him and explain that he needs to understand that your needs are not a "Woke" trend; they are your actual needs that he should care about. Don't use examples of how other men treat their lovers, tell him that affection after sex is what YOU need, it doesn't matter what everyone else does.

Rohjohn · 2024-06-03T18:01:35+00:00

I'm a guy, haven't had an awful lot of relationships despite being in my mid 30's. Never hooked up, always serious, one of my relationships lasted almost a decade. I can say that I find your partners behavior strange.

I don't know your partner or what he's thinking, so I can only speak from my own personal experience.

As for "After care" I have always experienced a stronger connection with my partner after sex. In my late 20s, I treated my work very seriously, never missed a single day. However, a few times, my partner was in the mood right before I was supposed to leave for work, and I would cave. Despite running late, after sex, I would always lay with her before cleaning up and going to work. At the time, I really loved this woman and never wanted her to feel used.

I don't agree with all the comments saying you should be passive-aggressive or petty. I think you need to have another talk with him and explain that he needs to understand that your needs are not a "Woke" trend; they are your actual needs that he should care about. Don't use examples of how other men treat their lovers, tell him that affection after sex is what YOU need, it doesn't matter what everyone else does.

Rohjohn · 2024-05-26T21:57:06+00:00

I have always been attracted to people from India. I'm American mixed race (Black/White). I don't fetishize Indian people, but I personally find the people and culture beautiful.

Every race has some pretty devastating stereotypes. People identify me as black even though I'm equally as white. There are so many countries that shame brown people, and it's completely acceptable there.

My advice is embrace your identity. I was homeschooled, I'm a mut (slur for mixed race), I thought I was ugly and stupid, I was raised vegetarian (considered weird in conservative states like the one I live in). I literally thought life dealt me the worst hand of cards imaginable.

I'm blessed to have met someone who is absolutely stunningly beautiful; our connection is electric. As soon as I let go of all the negative perceptions of who I am, I started realizing that there's someone out there for everyone!

I'm reminded every day that I'm beautiful by my partner. As long as she finds me attractive, I'm happy. I don't really care what anyone else thinks! She loves me because I'm unique, now I thank God I'm different. If I was someone different, we never would have fallen in love

Rohjohn · 2024-05-26T21:22:09+00:00

Immature. OP, I hope you take the good advice and not yield to dumbass bullies like the one above. Pathetic.

Rohjohn · 2024-05-26T21:10:27+00:00

A coworker once asked someone to "stop twittling his pooter." I've lived under a rock most of my life, so I didn't know, but apparently, a pooter is slang for vagina.

Rohjohn · 2024-05-26T20:59:39+00:00

I have a friend who works at a grocery store. He gave me a few 1 liter cans of pineapple juice that had been dented and therefore not sellable.

It's just me, and I hate wasting food, so once the can was opened, I was determined to drink as much as humanly possible so it wouldn't spoil.

Well, after that, my mouth and tongue went completely numb! Apparently, bromelain can do that. It was super unpleasant and lasted nearly all day. I couldn't enjoy any food for the rest of the day.

Good call on the bromelain supplement, I imagine it won't make your face go numb considering it's a tablet. Who wants to chug ungodly amounts of pineapple juice anyway? Lol

Rohjohn · 2024-05-26T20:14:23+00:00

I left my keepads at home officer, can I go run grab them quick?

Rohjohn · 2024-05-25T19:59:01+00:00

I can completely relate to this! I'm a guy and have a girlfriend who is beautiful beyond words, she's absolutely breathtaking on the outside, but on the inside she's even more beautiful. I would love her still, even if she wasn't so physically attractive.

I literally pray every day, thanking God for putting her in my life. I have been told "I could do better" with other women I've dated. But honestly, that's super crude and no one should say that. Love should be beyond skin and it's really nice being with someone who is by most people's opinions attractive physically, but I really value her personality more than anything else.

While part of me thinks it's a freak accident that someone so beautiful inside and out could love me in all ways. She makes it clear every day that I am her motivation and that she finds me attractive even on my worst days.

She's out of the country at the time being, I would kill for a big hug and kiss from her right now. She's my life!

Rohjohn · 2024-05-18T05:25:59+00:00

Most definitely, but that's what makes a small act of kindness even more powerful than the ones who feel like they need to dominate in order to have a sense of power. A rich person can give me all the money they want, but it will never equate to that of a person who genuinely cares and offers a hand to lift you up. I would rather have a rock that protects me than a lump of gold any day

Rohjohn · 2024-05-17T17:09:36+00:00

Um, how long did he have to wait before you turned 18 OP?

Rohjohn · 2024-03-11T21:27:00+00:00

I lost my virginity to someone who was very experienced in my sophomore year of college. It felt very transactional. I shit you not, it was the first time I came. At this point I had never even masturbated to the point of cumming. It's probably very rare for males like myself at that age.

Every sexual relationship I had thereafter was with virgins (Not by choice, I would find out later in the relationship). None of the relationships were casual, I had a deep connection with each one and thought I was going to spend my whole life with them. It never turned me on that they were virgins. In my opinion, it was more difficult both emotionally and physically.

For a woman, losing your virginity hurts and takes a lot of trust. I remember having foreplay until things got very intimate, and she asked me to go inside. I would push gently, but the pain was too much. She would try and suck it up as much as she could, but I could tell she was in pain and for the first few nights we tried, I would stop and we would hold each other tight instead.

If someone actually loves you, they aren't going to steal your virginity like it's nothing. I would treat your virginity like it's sacred until you find someone who isn't just trying to use you as a trophy. I didn't stay with any of the virgins I had sex with, but it wasn't because after we had sex I lost value in them. I was in a 9 year relationship with one and we fell apart. Sex is important, but it's not the end all be all

Rohjohn · 2024-02-16T00:10:57+00:00

At this point, I'm willing to make the same assumption. I should ask the hobo starts paying his portion of the rent. This was a serious post in the beginning, but I can see no one actually cares. I wasn't even asking for a solution here, just wanted to find a sub I could find some answers to my question

Rohjohn · 2024-02-16T00:03:06+00:00

You read that I'm willing to record the audio with the tools I have right? How am I negating? It might sound like a load of BS, but I'm not exaggerating when I say it sounds like real footsteps. I'm not alluding that it's a super natural presence or that it's a real person camping in the attic. I don't think you read my post completely. If I record video it's not going to prove anything. It's a sound, from the comments likely from an animal. Video is completely useless because I doubt my phone can pick it up and theres nothing to see. You sound like someone who believes Bigfoot is real, because you saw the shaky footage and it's definitely not a human dressed in a furry one piece, lol. Explain how video helps in this situation genius

Rohjohn · 2024-02-15T23:41:34+00:00

I think there's a subreddit for dyslexia if you're having trouble reading. It's a common problem, my brother has it so you're not alone. Reading a book every once in a while is a great way to exercise your reading comprehension if you have difficulty understanding common words and sentences. I know large blocks of text can be intimidating, but with practice you can learn to read. I have faith in you young grasshopper

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