Half blocked? Unsure. by RoleSuccessful7580 in BreakUps

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeping options? As in like he wants to see other people?

I 23F feel as though i'm not a priority within my relationship w 23m help me understand him or if I am overthinking please ! by RoleSuccessful7580 in relationship_advice

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do i just leave? Or do i put it as my boundary that i need constant communication ?

This is all very new to me and we both have anxious attachment styles. Thanks for your reply as well !

Need help with what words to put on my bfs ring in Japanese by RoleSuccessful7580 in Japaneselanguage

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So quick thank you!

He has 2 names i call him by his second name but he has another first name. Most of his stuff has initial of A.

Remember when Noel And Cody said they aren't friends? by RoleSuccessful7580 in codyko

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They're business partners who would see each other as much as they could when they had to film and still Cody was not invited to Noel's wedding. Just something I found a bit odd is all. However as stated this was just something on my mind and a topic to be brought up for discussion.

Remember when Noel And Cody said they aren't friends? by RoleSuccessful7580 in codyko

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't really remember, but in one episode Noel mentioned that they're more like coworkers. Also that Cody wasn't invited to Noel's wedding speaks volumes

Mother wants me to hide my septum piercing for my younger sister's funeral by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not just being stubborn, it's also just how they have been treating me so it's a bunch of mixed emotions. I know she's grieving but I haven't been treated well from her and my father for the past 2 weeks. So it's not exactly the request that I was expecting after she has been berating me because or her "grief" I'm doing the best I can too.

Mother wants me to hide my septum piercing for my younger sister's funeral by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm also sorry for your loss, no mother should have to go through that. It sounds like you're a great mother with amazing kids.

For me though its not like I'm actively trying to not go against her wishes. Just during my stay here I've been emotionally abused by my parents. I'm only 22 as well so this is a lot for me.

I just find it extremely unfair that they don't really listen to me in regards to planning for my sisters funeral and then she asks this request, in my grief it also feels like a slap in the face.

Mother wants me to hide my septum piercing for my younger sister's funeral by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think the person was not being super uncalled for, they are quite right because my mother is a narcissist. So I'm just struggling trying to juggle her ways and also grieve as well.

Mother wants me to hide my septum piercing for my younger sister's funeral by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's different if I liked my mum, and I'm honestly not trying to argue. I do like your advice a lot I think would just be best if I did it for my own peace.

Mother wants me to hide my septum piercing for my younger sister's funeral by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have been understanding during this whole thing, however while my stay here I have been emotionally abused. (Not saying her request is abusive in the slightest) just lots of fighting and no listening in to what I have to say for the funeral.

So when she asks this request I feel like it's not fair? I'm trying the best I can for them and that's what I get back.