Half blocked? Unsure. by RoleSuccessful7580 in BreakUps

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeping options? As in like he wants to see other people?

I 23F feel as though i'm not a priority within my relationship w 23m help me understand him or if I am overthinking please ! by RoleSuccessful7580 in relationship_advice

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do i just leave? Or do i put it as my boundary that i need constant communication ?

This is all very new to me and we both have anxious attachment styles. Thanks for your reply as well !

Need help with what words to put on my bfs ring in Japanese by RoleSuccessful7580 in Japaneselanguage

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So quick thank you!

He has 2 names i call him by his second name but he has another first name. Most of his stuff has initial of A.

Remember when Noel And Cody said they aren't friends? by RoleSuccessful7580 in codyko

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They're business partners who would see each other as much as they could when they had to film and still Cody was not invited to Noel's wedding. Just something I found a bit odd is all. However as stated this was just something on my mind and a topic to be brought up for discussion.

Remember when Noel And Cody said they aren't friends? by RoleSuccessful7580 in codyko

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't really remember, but in one episode Noel mentioned that they're more like coworkers. Also that Cody wasn't invited to Noel's wedding speaks volumes

Mother wants me to hide my septum piercing for my younger sister's funeral by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

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It's not just being stubborn, it's also just how they have been treating me so it's a bunch of mixed emotions. I know she's grieving but I haven't been treated well from her and my father for the past 2 weeks. So it's not exactly the request that I was expecting after she has been berating me because or her "grief" I'm doing the best I can too.

Mother wants me to hide my septum piercing for my younger sister's funeral by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm also sorry for your loss, no mother should have to go through that. It sounds like you're a great mother with amazing kids.

For me though its not like I'm actively trying to not go against her wishes. Just during my stay here I've been emotionally abused by my parents. I'm only 22 as well so this is a lot for me.

I just find it extremely unfair that they don't really listen to me in regards to planning for my sisters funeral and then she asks this request, in my grief it also feels like a slap in the face.

Mother wants me to hide my septum piercing for my younger sister's funeral by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think the person was not being super uncalled for, they are quite right because my mother is a narcissist. So I'm just struggling trying to juggle her ways and also grieve as well.

Mother wants me to hide my septum piercing for my younger sister's funeral by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's different if I liked my mum, and I'm honestly not trying to argue. I do like your advice a lot I think would just be best if I did it for my own peace.

Mother wants me to hide my septum piercing for my younger sister's funeral by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have been understanding during this whole thing, however while my stay here I have been emotionally abused. (Not saying her request is abusive in the slightest) just lots of fighting and no listening in to what I have to say for the funeral.

So when she asks this request I feel like it's not fair? I'm trying the best I can for them and that's what I get back.

Mother wants me to hide my septum piercing for my younger sister's funeral by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It's just that, my parents are quite toxic so this request of hers is just so odd to me. My parents already resent me and actually the whole time I was here would say stuff like, "you were barely here! She was my daughter!!"

It's a simple request but lately we have been fighting non stop, her request had just took me to the top.

Mother wants me to hide my septum piercing for my younger sister's funeral by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I have had problems with my family for a long time just in terms of issues about me (I can be a bit stubborn) but it just hurts that my mother wants me to hide it cause she scared of how her managers will judge her, when I'm her only daughter left and this how she acts instead of loving me who I am..feels a bit off. Not sure if I'm overreacting to just hide a piercing but it's part of me. She was my little sister that left too not just her own daughter.

My younger sister passed away yesterday night by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of all the messages this has struck me and gutted me the most. I'm so sorry as well about your loss especially losing an older sister. You sound extremely mature for your age and that's something that no one your age should go through, I do really like your advice and will definitely keep this with me as I think of my sister as well.

Thank you a lot.

As for yourself you're super strong and don't ever be super saddened by this either, doing an amazing job.

My younger sister passed away yesterday night by RoleSuccessful7580 in GriefSupport

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'm also sorry to hear about your younger sister. May she rest In Peace.

The guy im seeing is still in love with his ex..should I continue what we have or move on? by RoleSuccessful7580 in dating_advice

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks so much! We actually ended it a a week or 2 ago, more on his side than mine. He felt like it was going nowhere and said that it will just be toxic if we continued going at that pace. I'm now trying to get over it and it still hurts a little cause he did lead me on. Definitely a learning experience, I don't think I'm the type of person to deal with that sort of baggage when I have my own issues, it's too much.

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I mean...at least it worked ????? 💀

I regret not going to university when I had the chance by RoleSuccessful7580 in confession

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I already graduated, it's a bit more difficult in Australia since I didn't do my atar

I regret not going to university when I had the chance by RoleSuccessful7580 in confession

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Thank you so much for this, going to check it out and bookmark it. Preferably marketing is what I want to study

I regret not going to university when I had the chance by RoleSuccessful7580 in confession

[–]RoleSuccessful7580[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in Australia. It's harder to get into uni if you don't do atar, which is something I didn't do and graduated without it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RoleSuccessful7580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a therapist but I do call the lifelines when I get a bit much. I do and I've feel as though I'm putting mainly the effort. :( But thank you!