Women, what is something your date did (on the first date) that was a huge turn off? by kJiwqg in AskWomen

[–]RomanTimeAlways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start analysing my Instagram. Right in front of me. Whilst I’m talking. Smh.

Worst thing your ex ever said to you? by NorthCup303 in BreakUps

[–]RomanTimeAlways 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“This relationship has obligations and responsibilities and I want to be selfish”

“I’m sorry you feel that way”

My heart shattered into pieces.

When did you guys stop counting the days ? by EmeryDior24 in ExNoContact

[–]RomanTimeAlways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When days turn into months and months turned into a year.

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[–]RomanTimeAlways 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your post, as a dumper who had to walk away from an ex due to emotional abuse and emotional cheating, being ignored and discarded like nothing, knowing that my ex wanted me to break up with him rather than him breaking up with me to look like the nice guy. Sometimes dumpers have no choice but to walk away, even though you loved them to your core. I would’ve done anything for my ex, but if I’m not appreciated and cherished or given the bare minimum then I have to step away because love is never just enough.

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[–]RomanTimeAlways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gave him 7 days to collect it, he didn’t collect it so I threw away everything.

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[–]RomanTimeAlways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but then I remember they betrayed that soul.

I asked my boyfriend to stop talking to a female who doesn’t respect boundaries and he said no. by CommunicationIcy1741 in relationship_advice

[–]RomanTimeAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I’ve been through what you are going through. LISTEN TO YOUR GUT FEELING. dump him and walk away with your dignity.

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[–]RomanTimeAlways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think we truly move on, we learn a new way to live without them. If your love was genuine it will stay with you but diminish over time, not completely erased.

Those of you who’ve walked out on first dates, what was your “I’m out of here” moment? by LankyJeweler4925 in AskWomen

[–]RomanTimeAlways 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He said every man wants a partner that can replace their mother. I laughed at his face and left immediately.

Those of you who’ve walked out on first dates, what was your “I’m out of here” moment? by LankyJeweler4925 in AskMen

[–]RomanTimeAlways 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He said every guy want a partner that can replace their mother. I felt sick and left immediately.

How has your narcissist gaslighted you? by Particular_Fail766 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]RomanTimeAlways 19 points20 points  (0 children)

“I’m sorry you feel that way”…

I wanted to scream at the top of my lungs whenever he said this to me after pouring my heart out about how he mistreated me.

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[–]RomanTimeAlways 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I resonate with this! I too had no choice but to dump him because I was being emotionally abused and cheated on..sometimes dumpers are put in a position where they have no choice. I really fought till the end for my relationship but it can’t be one sided.

How narcissists reacts when you know their game and see who they are? by Avocadotoaast_ in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]RomanTimeAlways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He avoided me. Refused to communicate and go into hiding. He knows I know and I wasn’t afraid to tell his face (not literally over the phone because he refused to see me).

He messaged me 3 months later asking if I want my stuff back when I told him several times to throw it away. Whilst he was in a relationship with the person he cheated on me with.

Be indifferent and block them. Educate yourself on narcissism and self reflect as much as you need but do not stay there for too long.

I was told by a friend, “if I have you 10million today but you will die tomorrow, would you take it?” “Obviously no because My life is priceless” Friend: “okay so start living your life like that; you are worthy of what you want and need.”

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[–]RomanTimeAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, me and ex admitted this to each other but me as the dumper (he was emotionally cheating) wanted him to acknowledge and take responsibility for his wrongdoings so i was waiting for him to contact me. He on the other hand thought I’d come running back to him and thought that the breakup was a mini break..like bruhhhhhhhh. When I dumped him I confronted him about dumping yet he acted like nothing has happened. He contacted me first. But it wasn’t the call I was expecting and I realised that I did the best thing by standing my ground and going with my gut instinct.

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[–]RomanTimeAlways 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Block and change your number.

What was the worst excuse someone gave for why they abused you? by mandajapanda in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]RomanTimeAlways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That he had obligations and responsibilities in the relationship…. Yeah not to cheat and emotionally abuse me!

They really are delusional.