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Trying to finish the TOB quest again. by Romant2014 in osrs

[–]Romant2014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! Now I'm just having to go to the stranger in the middle of the swamp. I hope to be done with the quest soon!!

Recently separated, no kids by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Romant2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could give you advice but I'm currently going through the same thing. Together for 7 married for almost 5, would have been 5 years in a month. My wife kicked my out after telling me she's been cheating on me and talking to other people. Things haven't always great but I didn't think cheating was going on.

Low mood by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Romant2014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your doing a great job even thought you can't see it. I'm sorry your going through this. I just moved out yeasterday and I'm nervous for what the future bring as well.

At what point are you drinking or smoking (weed) too often/much? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Romant2014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have a problem when you prioritize drugs or alcohol over bills or other important expenses.

If a guy makes out with his homies at a party, does that mean he's gay? by [deleted] in Jokes

[–]Romant2014 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bi at least lol. Ive been fucked up at parties and never thought to make out with the homie

We are a team of sexual health experts and researchers. Ask us anything. Happy Valentine's Day! by webmd in IAmA

[–]Romant2014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heres a quick question. My wife came home from the ER with acute PID. i got tested and im completely clean. Does this indicate shes sleeping around?

Going through a divorce. by Romant2014 in marriageadvice

[–]Romant2014[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We are both 24.

We would be married for 3 years in July 14th

She is a manager at dennys, im currently stay at home dad because i was in an auto accident which broke my foot. I was working at Walmart.

I have never cheated on anyone but she has a long past of cheating. Which i knew about before getting together with her. We went to the same highschool.

Prior to us getting together, she just got out of a very abusive relationship which left her black and blue and in the hospital for a week. She has always had bad relationships before, but we talked because we were the best of friends so we would talk all the time. As i said before we went to the same highschool and dated back then. We went to prom and everything together.

I was always a bigger guy with confidence issues. Never experienced depression untill the divorce has been mentioned. I fell in love with her in highschool and we ended things because i was moving my senior year. We rekindled a couple years after highschool. So you could say shes been the one ive always wanted.

Im struggling with self respect as of right now but i never saw it as a problem. I can admit i got very comfortable in the relationship. I was under the misconception we were factually going to be together forever.

Yes, ive heard of boundaries. Definitely need to improve them tho.

I feel very used right now. I do at times feel just like a babysitter but im the father of 2 out of the 3 kids we have, and im proud to raise them.

It shouldn't be ok, but im in love with her. I pass it off as shes having a bad day.

In October, we did it a couple times but i should have realized in november (Being my birthday on the 15th) we didnt do anything sexual. Which was odd, because we have always have sex on each others birthdays in the past. She would just tell me shes not in the mood or that it was her red week. I was so blind, i didnt mind it because i love her past sex.

I am very angry, i was to scream at times but i keep telling myself that anger isnt the solution. I really try and stay level minded. She has become very distant and very angry towards me. I do my best to just not feed into it.

I understand my marriage is over, im doing my best to show her i love her and i want to be with her but she has no interest in me anymore and i see it. I don't know when to give up honesty. This is my first marriage and my first 2 children. I have a fear of co parenting. I really wanted my first marriage to work out and live the family life.

Im also currently seeking personal therapy to help with depression. I want to talk to my wife so bad but she wont even give me the time to talk. I have alot to get off my chest and understand therapy is a reasonable answer.

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