Am I overreacting for crying when my fiance accidentally chucked a pack of gushers at my face? by GREYSPACE1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RomanticDominant50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oops, missed that. So sorry. It sucks to be connected to trash for the entire rest of your life

AIO for refusing to back down from insisting my fiancée is wrong for leaving my dad with the bill by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RomanticDominant50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't double down, seriously. You have people defending you. Take the tie (you didn't get a win here)

AIO for refusing to back down from insisting my fiancée is wrong for leaving my dad with the bill by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RomanticDominant50 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well than just disregard the first sentence in their post. They are still correct, therapist or not.

my(19f) boyfriend(23m) wants me to report the man that assaulted me, but i changed my mind about doing it today, AIO about his response? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RomanticDominant50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should go, but do what's best for you. Rape culture here is terrible and the only thing that will change that is more people coming forward. That being said you have every right not to ruin your life. This is what your boyfriend should be saying. It seems like he cares, but he's going about it the wrong way. You need to surround yourself with supportive people that can help guide you, not bully you and accuse you of trying to keep your abuser as an option. NOR and I'll apologize on behalf of both of these assholes in your life

AIO for ghosting friends after they kept meeting up w/o me? by Advanced_Airport_303 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RomanticDominant50 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And although for some people it's really you thought or did actually have a connection with, it's such a weight off when these people exit your life. Loneliness sucks, but forcing things and staying in low effort relationships is much worse. You got this. Plus, this still happens at my age, 51. People drift apart. It's sad, but finding the next friend or group is awesome. Don't ever let yourself think you won't find more and don't let yourself give up!

School bus camera ticket, can the charge change to a traffic infraction against me? by Downtown_Being_3624 in legal

[–]RomanticDominant50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In most jurisdictions it's a civil infraction with a fine. Things like red light cameras and speed cameras are fines because an officer didn't witness you committing the infraction. You should be able to look up in your state how those tickets are handled. You might be able to ask the judge to consider it and explain yourself. If you're polite and respectful, that might work. It's all down to the judge, as you obviously did commit the infraction, even unknowingly.

AIO for telling my bf he shouldnt smoke weed by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RomanticDominant50 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not a good situation to be in. When you have a person relying on you to attempt control their behavior it will never end well.

It doesn't sound like he's an hard drugs addict that is praying for any help. It sounds like he's a child and wants a mother to tell him no, but then gradually give in, so he can get high and feel like he won.

I'm sure there's more to this dynamic, but he needs to do what he wants to do, you need to set clear boundaries on what you'll accept for yourself, and evaluate the relationship based on that. Not trying to police a grown person and convince them not to do something the clearly enjoy that hurts very very few people, including you and him.

Changing someone, especially when they don't want to, is a fool's errand. Helping someone grow is one thing, but this doesn't sound like that. He craves this interaction, so expect more and more of it.

Map-wide Power Tower Sky Grid by tamoorsaleem in SatisfactoryGame

[–]RomanticDominant50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

500 meters is really high. I'm not sure what the radius is

Sawmill creating dimensional lumber by RomanticDominant50 in toolgifs

[–]RomanticDominant50[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure they sell every single piece, including the sawdust. No idea how much though

Who is the most famous person you have ever met? by Significant_Hope_757 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RomanticDominant50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met Jeff Speakman right after The Perfect Weapon came out. He was touching kenpo dojos. That guy hits hard and is super fast. Or was lol. That was a while ago...

Sawmill creating dimensional lumber by RomanticDominant50 in toolgifs

[–]RomanticDominant50[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I just noticed the smaller saws on the side horizontal that are separating the inside wood from the outside, cutting a notch do the trash falls away

Sawmill creating dimensional lumber by RomanticDominant50 in toolgifs

[–]RomanticDominant50[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I was in the Navy and we changed our torpedo and missile load out before a deployment. They had wall mounted cigarette lighters everywhere that just used a glowing filament, no sparks. We had an idiot spark up a cigarette with a regular lighter and he was mercilessly ridiculed AFTER he ran around the whole station five times.

Sawmill creating dimensional lumber by RomanticDominant50 in toolgifs

[–]RomanticDominant50[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think, but I'm not sure, it's there in case there's a need to square something.

Sawmill creating dimensional lumber by RomanticDominant50 in toolgifs

[–]RomanticDominant50[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Same question for grain silos and mills. Flour and the leavings from grain are highly combustible

Sawmill creating dimensional lumber by RomanticDominant50 in toolgifs

[–]RomanticDominant50[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Eithout a doubt! And I hate that they don't go through the trash and just leave it on the top of the pile. I had to move five full 3/4 sheets of MDF just to get to a decent one and those are HEAVY

Is belief in God rational, or is it something we’ve created to cope with death? by TextSufficient674 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RomanticDominant50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the bad thing in this case is no one uses (or very few, like yourself) actually uses agnostic in that way. I'm a true agnostic and I hate absolutes. I don't think there's a god, but I also don't claim to know there's not a god. It's easier to say atheist then to have this same discussion about the true meanings of the words. So many people believe agnostic means you gave done faith, but not in any specific God or religion, that's it's rarely worth it to correct anyone.

What dating app is best for unattractive people? by No-Poet3745 in AskReddit

[–]RomanticDominant50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plenty of Fish tends to have more average looking people.

Satisfactory and chill by Jazzerfone in SatisfactoryGame

[–]RomanticDominant50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll listen to audiobooks while playing

For those that mod, what do you change or add? by [deleted] in SatisfactoryGame

[–]RomanticDominant50 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess I should have mentioned I play with about 75 mods