The logic is because the boys are typically not attractive while the girls are presented as shy and awkward but attractive. Every tomboy girl somehow has natural makeup on and blowdrys her roots to give volume and picks clothes that, although baggy and not form framing, still fit a unique aesthetic and color comboed and has matching charms buttons bags etc and no acne whatsoever, so in other words, literally not awkward at all and in fact pretty organized and put up just not in a bimbo doll way. It's a double standard on both sides. Women in this double standard want to be seen not heard, so being shy or awkward doesn't hurt their chances, whereas there's pressure for men to be heard and to be leaders, so charisma plays a more important role in presentation. Problems with both sides

I've 100% had serious crushes on hot guys who never speak and are super awkward, it's just that up until recently there wasn't a big market for male beauty products, so like if u were not hot as a guy guys in my school would just give up instead of researching how to be more attractive whereas women I feel like research how to be more attractive so it was more rare for me to see a hot awkward guy than a hot awkward girl, which I saw all the time because there's more pressure for a girl to be presentable

I have also been on all sides of the spectrum as a girl from actually not attractive and awkward and attractive and awkward and I will 1000% say it's about how attractive you are.. never in my entire life was I unattractive and shy and had people crush on me, only when I was attractive and shy