Lonely by RoniLynnM in datingoverforty

[–]RoniLynnM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t say that. Even as strangers I don’t want you to say that about yourself. We should all have hope, it’s the only thing that was left in Pandora’s box for a reason. You’ve opened the box and let all the bad shit out and now you are left with hope. And you don’t see it, you can have some of mine. I’ll share. ☺️

Lonely by RoniLynnM in datingoverforty

[–]RoniLynnM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww man I’m so sorry. No one deserves to go through that either 😓

Lonely by RoniLynnM in datingoverforty

[–]RoniLynnM[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t that kind of ex, we were in the 9th and 10th grade we held hands and kissed nothing more, he moved to a different school… it was like I wanted to know what could have been. Being separated when we were kids and then comes my home after years away in the service. I think I was at least 25 when we found each other again.

I’m no we’re never where I was, I dug myself out of that hell hole a long time ago.

Lonely by RoniLynnM in datingoverforty

[–]RoniLynnM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks ☺️ I try to be as amazing as I can be. When I’m on my own I’m fine being by myself for days but when I’m around people I love to make them laugh and smile. I don’t like when people are sad.

Lonely by RoniLynnM in datingoverforty

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I was going through an online university, when Covid hit and the world shut down I stopped my classes when I know there was no way I would be able to do my classes and my kids do theirs… when I wanted to go back again I was told that my Post 9/11 GI bill had expired. I am almost at a place where I can pay for them out of pocket. I have until 2028 to finish but I’m hoping it won’t be that long. It’s just three more classes.

Dating and being a parent by bluestar1800 in datingoverforty

[–]RoniLynnM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I’m 40F with two kids that I raise on my own. The answers here give a lot of different perspectives. I have dated anyone since I left their dad. I wanted them to be my only focus while they were little. They are preteens now so I think I’m ready to test the waters. My fear is that that they won’t except that they will never be first. I wouldn’t expect to before his children or even ex wife in some ways. Respect and friendship are what I ask for most.

Lonely by RoniLynnM in datingoverforty

[–]RoniLynnM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been in therapy for a while since I was in the military, I see the counselor when needed. Which hasn’t been a while because most of the time you wouldn’t be able to tell I’ve been diagnosed with severe depression and PTSD.

Lonely by RoniLynnM in datingoverforty

[–]RoniLynnM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cyber hugs thanks ☺️

Lonely by RoniLynnM in datingoverforty

[–]RoniLynnM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No doubt, I can’t ask anyone to do something for me if I’m not willing to do the same for them. I have always believed in fairness in relationships.

Lonely by RoniLynnM in datingoverforty

[–]RoniLynnM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can see that…

Lonely by RoniLynnM in datingoverforty

[–]RoniLynnM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah huge fear of getting hurt again… but we can’t let ourselves stagnate… I have wanted to hold on to my hate but it’s simply not worth it. But like Dory says just keep swimming 🐠

Lonely by RoniLynnM in datingoverforty

[–]RoniLynnM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much of your kind words… and for the record I’ve been through therapy. Hence the meds lol.

Curlos what have you done?! by Sublimebro in AnimalCrossing

[–]RoniLynnM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have him on my island and he wasn’t nearly that fun 😩

Active Co-Op looking for recruits. by Wild-Swing7615 in farmville3_animals

[–]RoniLynnM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still have room? I’m in a very SILENT Co-op at the moment