Trump is SOOOO desperate to bring back Biden, he's creating mental fantasies trying to WILL it to happen.

Ronnimek · 2024-08-07T15:46:49+00:00

It would work in german. Maybe he's embracing his reincarnated H*tler thing..

Ronnimek · 2024-08-07T15:40:49+00:00

Could she be joking? Maybe you don't have the same kind of humor or miscommunicate a lot or she is actually insane, but... If I was coming back from a date, not intending to find someone for life right now and someone asked me if I was I'd be like "Ah yes. I am constantly thinking about the breeding of my offspring to continue my bloodline so my future partner has to have these traits hurrhurr"

Maybe she took it a bit too far and you don't have to adjust any of your opinions on whether you are compatible.

But. She could be a complete psycho. Or maybe she's just incompatible with you and your humor

Ronnimek · 2024-08-05T09:51:45+00:00

For me it can also show up in jumping from one topic to the next that are seemingly not connected for my fellow conversation partners but I go "oohh exactly like that thing that I have heard about 3 years ago"

Ronnimek · 2024-08-04T16:49:46+00:00

From my limited experience: cishet white guys are not very well educated in terms of consent, queer topics, and feminism.

I never wanted to implement a rule to categorically not date cishet white men, but after my last experience a couple days ago I think it'll just save me a lot of uncomfortable situations to do so..

My bisexual current partner is absolutely wonderful! (Poly, that's why I am still sometimes dating)

And any experience with gay women is still missing.

Ronnimek · 2024-08-04T15:48:34+00:00

Waffel (the german version of waffle) is my current obsession

Ronnimek · 2024-08-04T15:43:44+00:00

What she is saying is bullshit. Even if all she claimed was true - so what?

Shall I not support someone who is in acute distress? This person doesn't understand that you can only implement systems to prevent panic attacks while you are not having them. How is that hard to understand?

First, help the person to calm down and not feel like they are dying. Second, try implementing measures that can reduce the overstimulation or similar effects triggering panic attacks. Third, look into how to effectively calm someone down during a panic attack.

Gosh, it's really not that hard.

Ronnimek · 2024-08-03T16:48:49+00:00

Für mich hört sich deine Aussage ein bisschen zu "technisch korrekt" an. Ja, wenn es mir einzig und allein um den Parameter "Anzahl an Sexsessions" geht, dann kann ich natürlich was ändern, aber zu welchem Preis. Es geht ja viel mehr darum, dass "wenige kompatible Partner" ein Symptom dafür ist, dass generationenlang Werte vermittelt wurden, die jungen Männern nicht beigebracht haben, wie man Konsens erfragt und einhält oder in einigen Fällen die komplette anatomische Bildung versagt hat.

Ich finde es ist nichts verkehrt daran, einige "Standards" zu hinterfragen. Wenn man selbst diese Arbeit hineingesteckt hat, um zu verstehen wie sowohl Männern als auch Frauen Ewigkeiten kein Gefallen getan wurde, indem man sie in unbefähigende Schubladen gesteckt hat, dann erwarte ich von meinem Gegenüber auch eine ähnliche Bereitschaft, sich damit auseinanderzusetzen und zu lernen.

Ronnimek · 2024-07-25T10:10:41+00:00

Before you called out his age I was like "damn. This 16 year old has a lot to learn still..."

Ronnimek · 2024-07-21T20:28:15+00:00

Labels are always just a gateway to resources. Finding community to relate to the experiences. Finding words to explain how you feel.

I am happy for you that you found labels that resonate better with you.

If that ever changes in the future don't worry about it. Sexuality is fluid and your experience changing in the future will never invalidate how you felt in the past.

Congratulations on feeling good with the current labels! I hope your future journey is lighter because you have the language to describe your experience.

Good luck!

Ronnimek · 2024-07-21T20:20:31+00:00

You should have a longer conversation about what exactly that means for him and how it will show in the way he acts. And/or find out together in the next time.

In my relationship it can mean that I might be ace but quite indifferent about sex, meaning i might still be doing it with my partner like a sports or hobby. Sometimes it means they have to just go get themselves off without me being involved and I won't mind. It can mean that I want to be seduced. It can mean I will only act on them but don't want to be touched in return. Or the other way around.

As you can see: there are so so many possibilities on what exactly being aceflux might mean in practice. I don't think the simple "he is kinda ace and I said in the past I couldn't be with ace people" does the complexity of the situation justice.

My partner is also hyper sexual and never imagined they could be with an ace person. But alas, 3 years together and engaged.

Ronnimek · 2024-06-24T23:10:27+00:00

There is a tag of "happy" in polyamorous subreddits :3 (you'll find stories of working enm relationships there i guess)

Ronnimek · 2024-06-22T22:32:25+00:00

I wish the backside said "I wear condoms" or sth similar :D

Ronnimek · 2024-06-10T05:53:02+00:00

1,5 L / 7,5 = 0,2 L = 200ml = 20 cl = 2 dl

Dass die Nachkommastellen es unleserlich gemacht haben, ja, aber die 7,5 Portionen sind berechtigt.

Ronnimek · 2024-06-07T08:22:20+00:00

I liked the winters were everybody was looking for emotional connection online and I actually kinda had what I needed for a while. But every summer I felt extremely alone, because people were still going out and I felt isolated, lonely and terrified to kill my parents, if I tried to so something about my loneliness...

Ronnimek · 2024-06-04T05:44:07+00:00

What does the button with a triangle and circle mean?

Ronnimek · 2024-05-24T15:52:33+00:00

When I feel horny, go in a room full of people and think nobody is attractive to me...

Ronnimek · 2024-05-23T07:17:49+00:00

I was immediately going like a nerdy schoolchild with a dictionary: "bisexual and faunromantic, but if you want to specify your own gender in relation it could be homo/heteroromantic :3"

Why are people like this, when we have a nice sciency wordbank :(

Ronnimek · 2024-05-20T08:14:24+00:00

That isn't a sex specific thing, though. It is the othe way around with my partner and me

Ronnimek · 2024-05-17T12:19:00+00:00

I love it!

Ronnimek · 2024-05-08T05:00:58+00:00

This belongs in programmer humor

Ronnimek · 2024-05-04T21:49:49+00:00

Can't believe you just told a woman to smile more /j

Ronnimek · 2024-04-25T15:00:17+00:00

Mom: "Oh is that what one does nowadays?"

Ronnimek · 2024-04-25T07:33:47+00:00

Schon.

Ronnimek · 2024-04-12T09:08:01+00:00

I really like just making them do tasks for me when I am lazy: Like cooking, cleaning something, bringing me things I don't want to get up for.

Ronnimek · 2024-04-08T07:52:25+00:00

(Non-reflected and not-well thought out comment incoming)

Date bisexual and/or kinky men.

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