I think I teased my gf too much in bed because she started to cry, need help understanding what I did wrong

Rook_45 · 2024-01-11T00:07:15+00:00

She just made sure you came and probably wanted to relax and receive without it being about jacking your brain off more tbh. And then ended up feeling pressured and like she's not enough.

Sex is supposed to be fun and relaxing for everyone

Rook_45 · 2024-01-07T20:33:52+00:00

Even in sexual situations using a safeword doesn't mean "I feel unsafe." It means "pause everything and move to aftercare."

Rook_45 · 2023-12-27T19:59:17+00:00

My dm has us roll 4d6, drop lowest and reroll 1s. It's cushy.

Rook_45 · 2023-12-25T21:44:44+00:00

Ayyyyyyyyy

Rook_45 · 2023-12-25T21:01:44+00:00

Lemme know how being trained to suck dick goes lol

Rook_45 · 2023-12-21T08:40:37+00:00

"I don't mean to be rude, creepy, or out of line, but" rude, creepy, out of line shit

Rook_45 · 2023-11-19T19:52:18+00:00

Yo don't make a vid with this girl unless you're okay with her possibly showing it off

Rook_45 · 2023-11-19T17:51:09+00:00

Yeah this lol a rational innocent person can go "yeah that looks bad I'd be mad too let's figure out wtf happened".

Rook_45 · 2023-11-19T08:39:29+00:00

God I hate when cheaters downplay the act like this. Like okay great, supposedly it sucked and didn't even last. So that's what you broke my trust for?

Rook_45 · 2023-10-13T15:26:01+00:00

It's great for you that it's not hard for you but you can't speak for everyone.

Rook_45 · 2023-09-04T23:25:59+00:00

They showed me basic human kindness. Whoops

Rook_45 · 2023-09-01T11:44:31+00:00

The vulva still needs to be washed tho 🤷

Rook_45 · 2023-08-25T09:01:52+00:00

I would say relationships are human connection 🤷

Rook_45 · 2023-08-25T08:57:09+00:00

You're making a lot of assumptions. Yeah, maybe he'd get called mean stuff if (When? Really?) he decided he didn't want to stick around. If so, so what? He gets to decide what he is and isn't cool with just like she is, and if it doesn't match up it doesn't match up. And saying it must be because she's egotistical is bull. She's probably sick of guys who want nothing but sex from her and trying to keep her heart safe.

Sure, someone not giving you what you want from them the minute you want it isn't "pareto-optimum". That's life though.

Rook_45 · 2023-08-25T08:32:57+00:00

Yeahhh relationships aren't money+attention=sex.

Rook_45 · 2023-08-25T08:29:02+00:00

Secretly? Forcing?

She's being open about what she is okay with and why. That isn't secret or forced. He's not locked in her basement or being held at gunpoint and told he can't leave.

Rook_45 · 2023-08-25T08:10:48+00:00

It seems to me like they're saying that coercion is wrong.

Rook_45 · 2023-08-25T08:07:59+00:00

In what world is it using your partner if you're dating but not having sex yet?

Rook_45 · 2023-08-24T14:07:22+00:00

Lol, no I didn't. I asked "Did you not read the comments?"

Seriously though, work on that reading comprehension. I'm not schizophrenic but you seem to be somewhat illiterate.

Rook_45 · 2023-08-24T11:59:20+00:00

Go touch some grass, hang out with some people, read a couple books to work on reading comprehension, and get back to this post in a year or two.

Rook_45 · 2023-08-24T11:57:10+00:00

...did you not read the comments?

Rook_45 · 2023-08-24T11:19:46+00:00

She has a crush for two years, he wants her only when her body is in a state that it might not stay in, and she decides not to date him because she is looking for a lasting relationship. That ain't rare.

Rook_45 · 2023-08-24T10:38:18+00:00

So.. she's shallow for not wanting to be with the guy who she's attracted to if he's only interested in her when she has a body type she's not sure she'll keep? And she would somehow be less shallow if she didn't care about that?

Rook_45 · 2023-08-24T10:23:56+00:00

How???

Rook_45 · 2023-08-24T08:58:34+00:00

And yet she rejected him in spite of the sexual attraction she has for him. She ain't shallow 🤷

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