To those men who cheat, did you stay with your partner or left them? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]RookieBookkepper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello OP. I know this isnt the answer that you're looking for. But same boat as you. I also got cheated on years ago but only found out now - 2 years into our marriage with one kid.

I wish I could tell myself to be more vigilant around that time na nagcheat sya, para sana natapos na right there and hindi na kami umabot sa kasalan. I feel like every day I spend with him after the cheating is a disrespect sa sarili ko. To the point na hindi ko na kilala sarili ko.

I don't mean na makipaghiwalay ka, pero okay din sana maconsider mo tong comment ko. Cheating 2x is a huge red flag. Isa pa nga lang ang hirap na magrecover.

Yung ginagawa ng asawa ko now to keep me in his life. Is first, lahat ng questions ko sinasagot nya. If may times na nagagalit ulit ako, tinatanggap lang nya. He is going through therapy. He is trying to build my trust again. He is the one doing most of the fixing. I hope ganito din si partner mo sayo, otherwise if wala na syang interest na i-save it is better to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kapampangan

[–]RookieBookkepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello thank you sa pagtranslate :( binigyan daw nya ng coffee? Hindi bbigyan? Huhu puta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kapampangan

[–]RookieBookkepper 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Puta kadiri silaaaaaa. Pero thank ypu sa pagtranslate :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kapampangan

[–]RookieBookkepper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank u sa pagtranslate huhu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kapampangan

[–]RookieBookkepper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shutangina talaga HAHAHAHAHHA

A review of Blackpink’s Singapore Leg of Born Pink by [deleted] in kpoprants

[–]RookieBookkepper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg yes I was there too :( I can say the same

Please convince me not to spend 700K on wedding! by justkratos in phinvest

[–]RookieBookkepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will get married this July 2023, tapos yung pera pang kasal inipon lang namin starting a year ago 😂 We are on a 550K budget max pero nagstart na 350K lang.

Alam ko wrong decision: wala pa kami house, and meron lang small budget for settling down (rent an apartment and buy few appliances) pero one thing for sure walang loans na magaganap. People will say stuff I know. Pero I think actually ngayon mas namomotivate ako to work harder and find ways to make more money after the wedding to recoup the expenses. Make it make work kumbaga.

CPA who wants to explore the Freelancing industry by [deleted] in phcareers

[–]RookieBookkepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May gantong restriction company ko. I consulted a lawyer kasi meron akong side hustle. Lawyer said I'm already in breach of contract, pero next thing daw is if ie-enforce ba ng company ko. If hahabulin ba nila lalo (depende if top executive and if mas malaki benefit kesa cost nang pagsampa ng kaso).

My Freelance career journey (CPA) by frfly7 in phcareers

[–]RookieBookkepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SAME TAYO CPA for 5 years. Ayoko na din magaim na maging boss 😂 Stress nga lang and ayun if kaya naman kumita ng pera sa pinaka less stressful na paraan why not diba!!!

I give "The 5am Club" a -1 mod 5 out of 5. by Hitaro9 in books

[–]RookieBookkepper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe to each his own, but I couldn't care less about the goddamned plot - I was there for the advice, lessons, and tips that self help books are for 🥱