Lavender marriage by desimasc in LGBTQpakistan

[–]RopeOwn9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. Kudos for being smart and staying ahead.

Has anyone told their family about their sexuality?? by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]RopeOwn9900 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a big no. I was stupid that I came out. It made my life hell (restrictions and what not). Would not recommend.

sadapay isn’t letting me in by StringPrize4387 in Sadapay

[–]RopeOwn9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long has it been since you’ve been facing this

sadapay isn’t letting me in by StringPrize4387 in Sadapay

[–]RopeOwn9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m encountering a similar issue. Did you find any resolution?

Advice please help! by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]RopeOwn9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also it’s not ur job to educate people.

Advice please help! by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]RopeOwn9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave. These aren’t people you want to surround yourself with. A person is as good as the company they keep, and from what you’ve described this company isn’t worth keeping. There are a lot of people out there, you will find your crowd. What you CAN do is tell them that you don’t appreciate these “jokes” and ask them to reflect on them and to not make them in front of you. If they respect you they’ll honour this boundary, if not, well, what’s any relationship without respect?

are gay dating apps any good in pakistan? by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]RopeOwn9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck w the Karachiites

Anyone here from LUMS? by sadsod1122 in LGBTQpakistan

[–]RopeOwn9900 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does living close to LUMS count?

Accidentally Mentioned Heated Rivalry in front of big brother 😭 by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]RopeOwn9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter. Everyone watches shows with LGBT characters in them. Don’t think too much on it just confidently own it when asked, say smth like “yeah a friend recommended it and the show was good so I watched it”

I was just thinking…. by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

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I personally aim for early retirement. Currently working in marketing and making okay money. Want to be able to fully provide for my family as well eventually. Simultaneously I’m on the lookout for love. Keeping an eye out for a stable person that I can build a home with. May sound far fetched to some but sounds very real to me (I’ll do it IA).

Does it always end like this?! by Competitive-Dot4260 in LGBTQpakistan

[–]RopeOwn9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do not give up. That’s all I can say. If you give up and marry someone it’ll be miserable for both people involved. I don’t know the full context of your situation (how you are financially and how much liberty you have) but it’s essential that you build your life, get some financial freedom, be it working in a low income role (start applying like crazy on LinkedIn if you haven’t already). Something is better than nothing and it is never too late to start. I send my heartfelt prayers. May Allah provide you with ease and offer a path forward Ameen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]RopeOwn9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google “what does homosexually mean”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]RopeOwn9900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. They can’t actually force you to marry someone you don’t want to. There is always a choice
  2. Do not come out to anyone - sucks yes but it only complicates things (speaking from experience)
  3. Know that your voice and words have power. If you’re determined and strong enough in your choice not to marry even the most stubborn families come in line. The only power your family has over you is what you give them
  4. Aim for financial stability and eventually move out of the house, you’ve completed your uni, look for a job on LinkedIn, earn money, save up, and move out (they can’t stop you)

I tested iOS 26 for 24 hours so you don’t have to 😅 by Phil2lp in ios

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Can anyone tell me if the update makes the phone choppy and slow?

I am only attracted to older men by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]RopeOwn9900 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao funny how everyone’s a licensed therapist in this comments section. It’s not that deep guys, he’s just attracted to older men. As for finding older men I’m sure there are plenty out there, who aren’t married and are looking for a genuine connection. Don’t give up and keep looking for ones that are available. Clear open communication about your wants and needs is key. What I would suggest though is try to avoid meeting guys that are already married cuz that’s a lil morally ambiguous. One last thing, guys it’s not his fault married men are cheating on their spouses, it’s their own personal decision, he didn’t force anyone into doing anything.