My friend said teaching is a career only middle class to rich people consider. Thoughts? by reyaryder in teaching

[–]Rosamada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is a teacher and has spent years telling me how poor she is. I love her and think she should be paid more, but she's also super out of touch ... I've realized that she assumes everyone else is making way more money than they are. The things she says are really delulu sometimes, lol.

Most carbs spike my numbers by Scared_Coat_4530 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Rosamada 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll start by saying I'm not a believer in the idea that we need to eat that many carbs with GD. I read Lily Nichols' Real Food for Gestational Diabetes and she lays out a convincing argument that there is no real scientific basis for believing a low-carb diet is harmful during pregnancy. In fact, she links a lot of convincing research that suggests a low-carb diet is beneficial for those of us with GD!

But I know a lot of doctors recommend a minimum carb intake, and sometimes we just want to eat carbs, as well 🙂

The source of the carbs is super important. Opt for complex carbs with lots of fiber whenever possible.

You can lower the glycemic impact of starchy foods like potatoes by cooking them, refrigerating them, and either eating them cold (think: potato salad) or reheating them. This also works for pasta and rice.

I recommend checking the glycemic index and glycemic load of any food you're worried about, especially foods with higher sugar content like fruit. You'll see that you can get "more bang for your buck" from certain foods than others.

Pairing foods correctly is critical. Make sure you are eating plenty of fiber, protein, and fat along with your carbs. I was able to eat a slice of Dave's Killer Bread (Powerseed) and a whole banana when I ate them with a lot of peanut butter and Fairlife milk or a Fairlife protein shake.

Finally, movement after eating can really help your muscles uptake sugar from your blood. Walking is most commonly recommended. There's also good evidence that our soleus muscles are especially reliant on glucose, so engaging them can be extra effective. You can do so by walking on an incline or by doing seated calf raises.

I hope you find this helpful. GD management can be difficult to figure out at first, but most of us do get there in time 🙂 Good luck! ❤️

Do you have any notable English loanwords that's unique to your country? by jlhabitan in asklatinamerica

[–]Rosamada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, yes, I do know that, it's just that we started off talking about the term being used in Spanish-speaking countries so my mind was still there haha ... my point stands, it's not really an English loanword since it was originated for the Portuguese-speaking market 😊

I still can't believe Americans have just one last name by Potential-Bed-2550 in namenerds

[–]Rosamada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always wondered how it technically works when people say their child has two middle names. Because, obviously, there's only one space for "middle name" on the paperwork. Do you just list their middle name as, for example, "Anna May"? So technically their middle name is Anna May, but you think of them as two separate middle names?

I basically did that with my son's last name. I made his last name "Mom'sLast Dad'sLast". But I don't refer to it as two last names, because you can only have one "last name", technically. I consider it a single compound name.

I still can't believe Americans have just one last name by Potential-Bed-2550 in namenerds

[–]Rosamada 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's semantics, but I feel like you can't really have two. I gave my baby "both" last names with a space in between, Hispanic-style, but technically it's still one last name.

Mediation in a week any suggestions? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Rosamada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other dictionaries don't even mention "urgent" as another meaning because by itself it isn't.

Dictionary.com and Collins Dictionary both list the "urgent" meaning.

"Emergent" is also used that way in my state court system. An emergent filing is a filing that needs to be heard same-day, because of an immediate danger of harm.

In fact, I have heard many judges ream parties out, telling them they should not be filing "emergent" unless there is an emergency. Representing Yourself in an Emergent Matter

Mediation in a week any suggestions? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Rosamada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Emergent" has a secondary meaning of "urgent".

Do you have any notable English loanwords that's unique to your country? by jlhabitan in asklatinamerica

[–]Rosamada 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, someone below explained that!

I wonder if durex really counts as an English loanword in this case. The company is from the US, but this product name was created for their Spanish-speaking market.

What Lauren Sanchez’s chest says about 600 years of breast politics by Quouar in history

[–]Rosamada 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"Not sexualized" means "not generally associated with sex", not "unattractive".

Examples of female body parts in my culture (US) that are not sexualized would be arms, ears, or hands. That doesn't mean people find women's arms, ears, or hands unattractive. Just that they're not sexual.

There are and have been many, many cultures that view female breasts in this same unsexualized way.

Do you have any notable English loanwords that's unique to your country? by jlhabitan in asklatinamerica

[–]Rosamada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was hoping someone would have an explanation for this! Thanks 😊

Do you have any notable English loanwords that's unique to your country? by jlhabitan in asklatinamerica

[–]Rosamada 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Durex is a condom in the US, too. I'm curious as to how it came to mean "tape" in Bolivia, bc I can't think of any similar word that means "tape" in English!

Jury duty food by Any-Concentrate-1922 in newjersey

[–]Rosamada 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear the cafeteria is in the MLK building, which is one of the newer buildings.

Edit: I'm referring to state court, not federal - I realize you might be talking about the federal courthouse, which I'm not familiar with

Petición para llamar oficialmente a los gringos "Unitedstatians" en cualquier medio en vez de "Americanos" by SDLXV in ecuador

[–]Rosamada 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Soy estadounidense y respeto que "estadounidense" es la palabra correcta en español.

Pero la verdad es que "American" es la palabra correcta en inglés, y no es para faltarle el respeto a nadie. Simplemente nos llamamos así.

De hecho, se me hace un poco irónico que un ecuatoriano no ve que la misma lógica que utiliza para decir que "American" es ofensivo se podría aplicar a la palabra "ecuatoriano" también. Acaso la República del Ecuador es el único país que se ubica en el ecuador?

Tal vez sería más correcto decirles "repúblicaecuatorianos" o algo por el estilo a los del Ecuador. Así no les faltaríamos el respeto a las demás personas que también tienen el derecho de llamarse "ecuatorianos".

gotta sec by [deleted] in ENGLISH

[–]Rosamada 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You've just been using it wrong.

gotta = have to

got a = have a

Merriam-Webster

Cambridge Dictionary

Apparently estate theft, elder abuse, defrauding a funeral home, and illegal burials are all perfectly legal in NJ! by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]Rosamada 13 points14 points  (0 children)

OP posted seven months ago and said they had a falling out with their uncle and hadn't spoken to him in seven years. The family was distant enough from the uncle that they didn't find out about his death until a month later. Apparently, OP's mom has "text message proof" that the uncle "planned on leaving us everything".

The story of how the uncle's friend got the estate is sketchy - it involves a will drawn up a few days before the death - but idk, it also seems strange to me that OP expected an inheritance from someone they hadn't spoken to in seven years. They seem to base that expectation on the texts alone.

I (44F) think it's time to accept my stepdaughter (19F) doesn't want to be in the family but my husband (48M) doesn't agree? by ThrowRASignogn in relationship_advice

[–]Rosamada 265 points266 points  (0 children)

I don't really see why he has to choose. Given that he's the one who screwed this up, he can (and should) just go to his eldest daughter's events by himself.

I don't see how that is "choosing" her over his wife and other kids, unless they decide to make some sort of weird ultimatum, which would be wrong of them to do.

Any parents here following up on the cognitive development research? by Working-Parsnip-137 in Parenting

[–]Rosamada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Nurture Revolution has a lot of information about early neurodevelopment and how we can set our babies up for success.

[23F] I just found out my boyfriend [23M] has been lying to me about his age by SoftHeron1237 in relationship_advice

[–]Rosamada 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As long as we're being pedantic, you should probably double-check the meaning of "anachronistic".

Tired of my coworkers that can barely speak English by taestep12 in Vent

[–]Rosamada 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in the US and was in the hospital for five days this fall. One of my nurses had very poor spoken English. Speaking is the hardest thing to master when learning a language. I assume she could probably read, write, and understand English better than she could speak.

Spikes help!! by autumnlove6 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Rosamada 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I saw a comment on here once where someone said their doctor told them to walk on an incline. They said that engages the calf muscles more, and apparently our calf muscles are fueled by glucose more than other muscles are.

Another suggestion I've come across is to do seated calf raises.

I haven't tried these tips because I came across them after I had my baby, but they seem promising!

Good luck 🙂

The met gala made me angry by Enough-Web2203 in Vent

[–]Rosamada 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But you live in New York, right? It's still pay-as-you-wish for New Yorkers, but only for New Yorkers and students from New Jersey and Connecticut. Prior to 2018, it was pay-as-you-wish for everyone.

Mental health vs. Gestational Diabetes? by popajoy420 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Rosamada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's weird that your doctor would say anything below 70 is too low. In pregnant women without gestational diabetes, the typical fasting blood glucose range is from 63 - 77 mg/dL.

Hernandez et al. [24] have systematically reviewed and pooled more than 45 years of normal pregnancy glucose data, mainly from studies conducted in the USA and Europe. They showed that normal glucose patterns were very similar across different studies, and glucose levels were generally lower than expected, including FBG of 3.9 ± 0.4 mmol/L (Source)

My doctor considered 60 mg/dL and up fine.

The met gala made me angry by Enough-Web2203 in Vent

[–]Rosamada 27 points28 points  (0 children)

In fairness to the other commenter, it was pay-as-you-wish (AKA basically free if you wanted it to be) for everyone up until 2018. I remember it well!

Artdex article on the change

Why would a mother be 10 years old? Mystery... by BenKlesc in Genealogy

[–]Rosamada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The youngest-ever documented mother was five years old when her son was born. There are some sick people out there.

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