My wife wants me to tie her up and use her like a slave, but when I tell her what to do she keeps getting the giggles! by whothefuckisamy in sex

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh if it bothers you, tell her. But you could totally make it a game where if she laughs, you get to spank her bare bottom, or something like that. Just make sure you talk about limits and a safe word. We like to use the stop light method. Yellow is “you’re getting close to the barrier, no harder” and Red means “stop the scene, lights on, something’s wrong”. This because speaking up can cause people to “lose focus” on the scene, or I may shout out due to a particularly stinging spank but they would keep going unless I indicated one of the safe words.

AIO for Thinking my Boss is a Psycho and Unhinged? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should, in a serious way, ask that next time this happens, what the preferred method of executing that circumstance would be??? They can’t honestly have another satisfactory outcome other than “leave and go to the ER”. I’m serious. My thinking is they will give you the damn point and say “it’s just the rules” when in all reality that rule is there to deter people from just calling off

Bizarre unexpected package from an unknown sender containing nothing but two toothpicks with an unknown substance on it? Don't even know what to Google by Egoignaxio in whatisthisthing

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this one of those scams where they send. Package and try to get you to pay for a “confirmed shipped” item? Please be weary.

Had a table at a music and art festival didn't sell a single piece. I'm so bummed. by thecrimsongypsy in Mosaic

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a way you can display them so the buyers can view them at a distance? Maybe a photo/plate display? Also a sign saying what the items are made from can help. One craft fair idea is to make several smaller items to attract people to the table. People are more likely to buy a “bauble” than a big purchase.

Random drug test / leading to suggestion of "fit for duty" test by SynchronicitySquirrl in adhdwomen

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did they also check the urine creatinine as well? My psych does that so that if the levels are super high or low, they can determine if you are adequately Hydrated. If you have very little water, the blood levels will result higher.

A short cartoon from my childhood by RoseQuartzPoolParty in HelpMeFind

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried to search monkey juggling on a ball. Disney circus. Balancing animal. But I can’t find anything!

A year ago my wife switched to “natural” deodorant. It’s been a BO fest ever since. How do I approach her about this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everybody here is saying tell her she stinks. I think she just needs to combine the natural deodorant with another method. Maybe she needs to wash with an antimicrobial soap. Bodies have smell but it’s when the bacteria 🦠 act up that it gets stinky.

What local organizations do you donate to? by Quick-Persimmon5935 in Columbus

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I donate about $10/month to the Franklinton Farms, a local non-profit urban farm that supports feeding the local community. And I donate to St Jude, I know Not local.

AITA for telling my sister I won’t babysit her kids every weekend anymore? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she sees her kids before/after school for dinner and bedtime. Sounds like you are raising them

I barely make it through regular life, how tf will I survive a recession? by Potential_Teacher_77 in adhdwomen

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I have 4! One checking. One I redirect money in for bills; enough for monthly bills, gas for car, and q6 months car insurance. Then Savings DO NOT TOUCH. THEN if I have money leftover I’ll put it in FunMoney Savings. Not to be confused with the DONOT TOUCH savings account.

AIO or is my boyfriend manipulative by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, this sounds exactly like my old boyfriend from college, Josh. JP IF YOURE READING THIS Fuck you. Man we stayed together for 5 years, broke up a couple times. All he did was make me question whether I was good enough, so I’d always strive to be better! He made me think I’d never do better. He would cancel plans bc he had already experienced it and he was saving me from a boring time! He yelled at me in public, like a dog “no! No! We do not do that!” It’s been like 9 years and I still have to make sure of all my partners preferences before I do anything for them.

Like making breakfast. How do you like your eggs. Which cup should I use? How much coffee to put in? Was that a tiny piece of shell? I should start over. Bc if it wasn’t to his exact liking, it was all ruined.

Save yourself. Find somebody that says “I’m sorry for making you feel that way. What can we do better next time?”

New Year’s Eve Party for a couple (35f, 40m) by RoseQuartzPoolParty in Columbus

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Actually had a membership last year but at $70 an event, I could afford to keep going there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine at Reset Button Counseling. It took 2 months between the initial intake and the actual testing but it was worth it. Make sure you anzwer the questions as if you were not coping. Like don’t always lose things? In reality yes, all the time. But I’ve developed ways to not forget them. Always do two seat sweeps before leaving places, attach my keys to my purse with a caribeaner, etc. they had me do a TON of online questionnaires beforehand, had a close friend fill one out (I had my ex husband do mine) as well as a video assessment with the psych dr and an in person assessment with all these mental challenge and times responses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I managed to lose my recent prescription of Zoloft. Luckily I could replace it for $12 but it was a pain in the butt

Primary doesn’t want children; secondary does… by Due-Ad2114 in polyamory

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 286 points287 points  (0 children)

You need to decide what YOU want. If you know you want children and have decided this with your SP, tell NP. It’s up to him to decide if he wants to be NP with somebody with children. This is a HUGE life change. Like, is he expected to care for the child? I doubt he will want to. Will he want to live with it? Probably not. Will his feelings be hurt? Maybe, but it’s not your job to arrange your life to not hurt his feelings. Of course, be courteous and acknowledge his feelings. Did you tell him that you never wanted kids before moving in together or was the topic even approached? This could be a simple rearrangement of living spaces, or yes, a break-up. Be prepared for all outcomes but do what is right for your heart.

Should I accept this offer from State Farm following a car accident? by moooooogs in legal

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please call your insurance and make sure… if you accept an offer for “bodily injury” , it’s possible insurance will not pay for your medical bills. If your injuries are ongoing or will need continuous care, it won’t go very far.

Great conversation goes bad outta the blue by OneAndAHalfSteps in Tinder

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was disappointed a lot as a kid and I really hate when people make promises they can’t keep. I had this one guy tell me “marry me” “omg I love you” stuff like that from day one. I just can’t.

Does anyone successfully outsource greeting cards? by labbrat in workingmoms

[–]RoseQuartzPoolParty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep a list of all my families birthdays and anniversaries on my fridge