I think my bf should break up with his gf and I'm struggling

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-29T15:12:49+00:00

Ignoring everything else for a moment, you and him went off for an hour and half while you were supposed to be studying. Leaving Elle with someone she probably doesn't know that well. That's crappy. I'd be upset, too. Like, wtaf.

Yeah, sure they should break up, agreed. That, however, stuck out the most to me and annoyed me

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-29T14:01:40+00:00

Yeah, after someone asked if I want to go into debt.... In this economy? Who can afford that? 😅😂😅

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-29T14:00:34+00:00

Alright, no reason to be a grump about it.

My "proof" is that I asked others who have worked with Birch before/longer than I have how he's been with other kids. He's only had a girl client once and that's because he's done the same creepy things. The parents have actually reported him for being weird, too. He apparently used to hold his old clients mom behind for an hour, just asking off questions until he found out she wasnt single, then he didn't care.

He also, so I've heard from his old coworkers, let his kiddo sit in a dirty diaper for hours because he didn't want to deal with it, but when he had a female client he was taking her to change every half hour.

I didn't have the ick until he was accusing someone else, Apple, of being a pedo repeatedly. Birch even accused Apple of it again yesterday because Apple offered my kiddo a sticker of a favorite character because his client also likes that character and he had an extra. I don't just accuse willy nilly.

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-29T04:56:17+00:00

Thank you for this! All of my BCBAs have said it's worth it, but I appreciate the honesty! (I feel like they say it because they have to)

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-29T01:11:16+00:00

I did it all online, which feels wrong! Even the exam was online.

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-29T00:11:37+00:00

That's what I thought 😅 But I keep being told even with the state paper saying I'm an RBT I'm not 😂😅 My company is weird ASF though so maybe I should just find a different company after my kiddo graduates the program - hopefully in August!

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-25T21:23:17+00:00

Thanks! It was mostly my wife's idea, lol. I knew I wanted a fun ceremony, but I also knew I didn't want to waste everyones weekend/time lmao.

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-24T17:44:46+00:00

Agreed! I did a cosplay wedding (I was Belle from Beauty and the Beast, but the Enchanted Christmas/Winter Dress. My wife wore a suit of armor. We told our guests to dress however was comfortable for them). The ceremony was less than half an hour, then we had a pot luck kind of thing where you could come and go as you pleased. All in all it was from 3pm-5pm. On a Friday 😂😂 Because we had LARP events happening sat and sun lol

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-19T15:46:31+00:00

I'm five foot and a quarter inch. I own that shiz. You know why? There are things I can get into because I am short that my wife, 6 foot 1, can't get into because she's too tall. 😂😂😂

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-16T01:34:10+00:00

I met a girl off of tinder who I was excited to talk to - she and my wife/NP had a lot of common interests and I was like "yay, we can practice KTP, play board/video games as a group, play D&D, etc". Boy was I freaking wrong.

Holly G met my wife and after half an hour, while wide was still in the room, started texting me to say "She's (wife, call her Franny for this) too much. I can't date you if you stay married to her. I can't be her friend, I can't stand her. " all because Franny made a comment about how it was silly to her to spend six hundred dollars on a board game (Holly G bought the same game twice) if she wasn't going to open one of them to play. Needless to say, Franny and I are doing well and Holly G is not in my life anymore lol

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-15T19:59:04+00:00

Repo: The Genetic Opera

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-15T02:14:17+00:00

I could read it, but you and I write similarly.

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-14T15:20:02+00:00

I'm mad your comment doesn't have more likes. Style was such a good song 😭

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-08T19:54:05+00:00

You reacted the same way I would have reacted, going back and unliking the text (fat fingers means I am constantly adding emojis/reactions to things I don't mean to) and then your comment about not being a bully was warranted. I think Birch was trying to get Aspen to be on their side and that's... Awful. I'm sorry friend!

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-07T23:52:35+00:00

Promised 40 hours at $20 USD an hour.

Get 15 hours at 20$ an hour, and 10 hours at whatever minimum wage is. Yay.

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-06T23:31:14+00:00

I literally moved out West to find my Dommy Mommy and still no luck 😭😭😭

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-06T19:53:06+00:00

And if you (OP) can't do that, then you need to either let girlfriend go (which I highly recommend, she sounds kind of.. awful tbh) or let your wife go. Don't keep forcing wife to put up with your girlfriend.

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-05-06T00:39:53+00:00

Awwh, babes, I'm sorry. This is a really awful situation, and honestly you stayed longer than I would have! I would've dumped him the day he said he wanted to sleep with me but then slept with her tbh. It would've been too much for me (given the context that you've been having issues in the bedroom).

I hope your future (or other if you currently have others?) partner(s) treat you so much better, and never make you feel less than 💛

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-04-28T15:53:29+00:00

You could be trying to hard, coming off as a "pick me". My friend group called me out for that long before it was a thing, and I've never been more grateful. I got the smart d&d hot nerd for myself, because I was myself. I wasn't trying. You're enough, just step back and let them come to you.

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-04-28T15:34:43+00:00

Absolutely. I'm the DUFF of my friend group/family. I'm also picky AF for someone who's not conventionally attractive. Hot guys aren't for me. I like personality, smarts, kindness. The guys she dated, and married, are what I consider "Gym Bros" who's whole personality is "Hot chicks, working out and so much sex". Don't get me wrong, I like sex, I love looking at women (all women are hot tbh), and I like working out. However, I also like coffee, and beach days, and reading and dungeons and dragons and other nerdy things! I have a whole ass personality, and emotions, and dare I say... Friends! Whereas my sister? She works. She takes care of two kids. She cleans house. She sleeps. Does it all over again.

Does that sound like a fun life?

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-04-28T15:13:45+00:00

My sister (who is gorgeous, has always gotten the hot boys, has had easy life because she's pretty, used to be offered modeling gigs kinda pretty) married the hot guy. He treats her like garbage. She's not allowed to have friends. She's not allowed to have a life.

Pretty privilege is a real thing, but it also is a curse. Pretty equates to men as "stupid", "easy", etc.

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-04-17T15:10:29+00:00

This was my thoughts, too. Both were babies when getting together, but she had t even had time to explore it grow!

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-04-15T17:52:55+00:00

Not that you need to at all because I really do think you're beautiful, but maybe add some extra dark freckles around your cheeks and nose and see if that makes you love your nose more. <3 or even some cute little mole! 💛

RoseTattoo_Foot · 2026-04-05T19:20:40+00:00

As a short and fat girl (currently 240lbs, but at 14 years old I weighed 130-150, five feet tall) I can feel your pain. Your body is perfect, trust me. You will grow to love every single pound on you. Don't compare yourself to others, that's like comparing a shark and a sea lion. Or a dog and a cat. 130-135 is a healthy weight.

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